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Jay
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 69
0 miles · Hampshire

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Hi I'm not far away from you and would live to come along and meet the local crowd
Have you downloaded an update to recently? I had the same problem which I finally attributed to a add on which had been automatically installed (even though I had unchecked the option box during installation). Using the uninstall files option got me working again.
If it's not think if there are any other applications / add ons that you have installed recently.
Most important are any couples planning to go this weekend? Lets have a SwingingHeaven evening.
I think the majority of the ads are probably genuine when they are placed but a lot are placed by newbies who may chicken out when it comes to the crunch.
Others just don't feel any attraction to you (whether because you haven't sold yourself or you're just not their type; it does happen).
Whichever, the disheartening part is when they don't bother to reply. Surely it doesn't take much to say "thanks for the interest but not what we're looking for".
Then again there are those who get their buz by receiving replies (and photos) without ever intending to meet. Needless to say, some of them may not be what they say they are!
A couple of indicators, however, can give you some clues:
How long have they been a member? If they only signed up that morning chances are they haven't done it before.
Are they active in the forums and or chatrooms? You can tell quite a bit about their character from what they say and do.
Sorry for the ramble but I have had mixed results. However, when you do click it is well worth it.
Jay
All this and still no answer to your question welsh_me. Perhaps you'll have to try it out for yourself.
play-girl-j would love to come to your social. Please add me to your list.
Jay
Does it need to be heavily organised? Why not meet up in a pub somewhere and take it from there?
I'd be interested/
Unfortunately I'm not in Leicester tonight but I wish you lots of fun
Now that Kestrel has been running a while, has anybody got any experiences to share? Is it a worthwhile venue?
I am thinking of going on Sunday but would appreciate feedback (public or PM).
Jay
onesg34: Interestingly ( while I'm on a roll) the numbers in chat1 were 300ish , chat 2 around 60 , chat 3 about 140 = 500 while the stats claimed 1122 .....hmmmm.

Maybe the balance are the people who have been kicked but are still deemed to be "logged in" confused
I think the flash player is a red herring. I have latest version abd it still crashes mad
I have to say, I have never heard of it. Tell me more; like where is it (somewhere in Surrey presumably). Is it a swinging venue?
From a quick search on the interney, it looks like it may have closed.
I Could point you in direction of a few around Basingstoke. PM me if you're interested
Abi - I've just seen your profile and you are not many miles away from me at all. I could be there in twenty minutes if you still need a photographer wink
Wish I could make it that weekend but I wish you all the best Shaz. Have a good one for me wink
Jay
It looks like we have lost another venue even before it got properly started. I went to ClubOne2One last Sunday (4th June) only to be told that it is no longer open "as a Swinging Club" except for special parties, which will be held every few weeks. The reason given was that there wasn't enough custom!
It is surprising considering the obvious considerable expense that has gone into the facilities and I wonder what use they will make of the club during the non-event weeks.
Anyone have any further info?
Any more up to date experiences of clubone2one? I'm hoping to get down there next weekend, I only hope it's a bit livelier than when I first went there rolleyes
I would comment that their website could do with a bit of an update. When they first opened there was a long list of upcoming events but it seems that list just stays even when the event is long gone.
Still, personal experience is what counts and it certainly seems to have all the right facilities.
Jay
Gotta agree that this club has got everything a swinger needs. It just needs to establish a regular clientele cos it's new.
Unfortunately, I will not be in Leicester this weekend but I will certainly be back next time I am in town.
Hope you have a good time on Friday S&T (I'm sure you will) drinkies
Jay xx
Curses mad .. I'm planning to be in Bournemouth on the 10th but will be tied up on the Friday and Saturday. Have a good one Funin (I'm sure you will)
If anyone wants a post party chill on Sunday, guess where I'll be.
Looks like you're still winning the vote Shaz (despite the bendy legs)
It was the sight of Tigger's foot behind her head that made me wonder ...
I'll still cheer you on Shaz wink
On second thoughts ... I'll reserve judgement but make sure you keep me a ticket. lol
Jay