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Liamnsteve
3 weeks ago
Gay Male, 58
Gay Male, 65
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Hi Try, we would like to absolutely confirm we will be attending.
Cant wait to meet the old friends and make some new ones smile
Quote by essex34m
As for this site being a sex site, your right in saying in your comments this was set up as a swinging site first and foremost.
I don't know about everyone else but surely swinging in its whole is a social networking set up.

Thank you for saying that. Quite a few times I have been told that "this is a sex site" and I find it *extremely* patronising. What people usually mean when they say this to me is that I should put out, or at least not complain when they objectify/commodify me.
I completely understand this.
However, whenever I have used the term "this is a sex site", it is not to objectify individuals, and infer that they should put out on that basis, but that this is not Facebook, and discussing sex, or approaching someone for sex, should not be discouraged and made to feel it is wrong.
If I were to approach someone on Facebook for sex, I wouldn't consider that to be a proper or appropriate place to do so, to approach someone here (on a sex site) should be seen as acceptable, unless of course someones profile states quite clearly that they are not currently meeting.
Hi Essex,
I can see where you coming from but primarily this is not a sex site but a swinging site. There are ways of approaching anyone for sex and respect should still be given at all times.
If someone is not very forthcoming with what they are looking for and not being very helpful to you then I would suggest you move on and chat to someone who follows the same interests and you are enjoying chatting to.
After all even if you met someone in a club and they didn't want to talk to you or very forth coming with chat, even in a swinging club, I'm pretty sure you would move on an chat to others. This is no different, surely? Just because your in type text and not face to face common sense and politeness on both parties should follow, although I know this is not always the case.
I am not trying to imply you don't respect people or that you are rude or force your topic onto people but I do know some guys who would and do, and once rejected get rude.
I hope this didn't come across as aimed at you Essex as that was not what I was trying to explain. This is a swinging site so maybe for some guys the first line shouldnt be, wow, great tits can we see more?
Morning all,
I for one would be sorry to see Kaz and Allen leave a very nice gen couple which is what this site needs more.
As for this site being a sex site, your right in saying in your comments this was set up as a swinging site first and foremost.
I don't know about everyone else but surely swinging in its whole is a social networking set up. You meet people, you see if you get on with them and then you decide as a set if anything else is going to happen going forward.
Nobody said you join and you get sex with other couples. It gives you the opportunity to meet like minded people with similar interests in a welcoming and open chat environment or via adverts of forum posts.
I have been a member on this site now for several years and have had some great meets even if rare at times and have met some great m8s we can socialise with as friends and talk openly about this lifestyle, which I'm sure many do not have with vanilla friends or family.
You are only ever going to get out of a site what you put into it, and that sometimes requires more effort than posting a message in chat saying, anyone want a shag in Such and such area.
Admittedly some of the changes made to the site have not always enhanced it but given that admin requested feed back several times I'm sure they went with what the majority wanted.
Either way to us Swinging is defiantly a social networking event. Surely Dogging was created for casual non social sex???And I'm sure even at dogging sites folks get rejected or don't succeed every time they go to have fun.
Sorry rambled a bit
hi Try, add us please and I may even invest in a new mask as my other was not unique and I cant turn up in the same outfit twice now can i lol
A great Big Thank you from us guys too Trixie, Cocks and Gothic.
And Thanks to all who attended and made it the night it was.
Looking forward to our next social
Liam n Steve
Sorry guys, the poofters are confirming and guises what we are making both nights :-).
Please confirm us as a definite and get the ice freezing :-)
Liam n Steve
Quote by Trixie_D-Lish
think i will bring some gobstoppers instead of ice because they wont melt and last ages lol

Im liking your thinking Trixie, let me guess though I bet there on the not allowed rules list also lol
All I can say is I will be snogging with either ice or without lol
Seems Im taking fake Ice to this social then, wonder how fast they will melt lol
I would just like to add so that anyone else reading this does not get misguided by others opinions.
I have never found Cocksnogger homophobic in anyway, shape or form. This couple have both always shown me the greatest of respect and nothing less, and believe you me I can be a lot to handle at times.
A miss understood statement of this kind should not be posted when clearly this is totally inaccurate
Hiya all, Its Tillie's Birthday time so Im sure a lot of you would love to wish her the best for her special day.
Tillie, Many many happy Returns from us and we must sort a drink for it very soon. Love ya heaps. Me xxxxxx Steve xxxxxx
Hi all,
Please confirm us as a definite please. Sorry guys I will try to behave lol
Hi all,
Just a Quick note to say thank you to you all who left messages and to those who wished them in chat.
Much appreciated and had a greatt day thanks
Liam xxxx
Quote by Trixie_D-Lish
banned ice........... ( thats cocks Icey BJ out the window )
Dont worry guys ill sneak some in some ho9w some where !!!

me too will bring some bags from the supermarket lol
Don't you just love it when a plan starts to unhold in front of your very eyes :-).
And to have 2 great ladies on my side this should be a fab night :-).
Hey I dont understand, me name been on the list ages and I aint had one volunteer email us yet asking to be broken in. Come on guys dont be shy lol
I can supply the Ice honest, Trixie getting extra in especially
hey gorge you sexy sexy lady, lets shock the lot of them we are genuine lol
HI all,
Same issue here for us, was the same last night too. Same error message. Guessing someones made an update somewhere that needs to be updated within this site too maybe ?
lol will ask cocks to request extra ice wink
Lol you surely cant leave something as important as Extra Ice to Cocks, especially now he knows we are a definite :-).
Anyone know where I can buy some plastic ice cubes that should help :-)
Oooh groge now I knew you wouldnt let me down lol.
Who you got in mind lol
Yeah we are now all fully booked at a hotel so we are a definite. sorry guys watch out :-).
And Gorge you wonderful lady cant wait to see you again, bring me mask will you lol oh and any sexy men you may just have laying around going spare :-)
Ok guys and Gals, we would like to get our names down for this one too please.
Actually I was given orders that we had to attend so Im getting me names down as instructed.
Look forward to it
xxxxx
Hiya,
Can we come again this time please if we promise to be good guys .
Ok I promise not tog et as drunk, maybe lol
Defo add us though please
Howdy all,
Just a quick note to say, Cant wait to meet the peeps I already know so well and hopefully get to meet some new ones who I chat to but have never met.
Honestly I'm a softy at heart and always full of respect lol, just don't hand me any Ice.
By the way if any guys want to be discreet, just hand me a red rose I will let ya know our room number pmsl.
On a serious note though folks, am really looking forward to the night out, gutted to read by the way Merids cant make it :-(. Hope all have a great night and welcome back to the Coventry Socials
Cheers Try
HIya Try can you add us please gonna try and make this one and can you send me teh hotel details please x
Excellant tos ee loads coming Im dying to meet, this time :-), not so sure they keen to meet me as much though lol
Look forward to seeing you all very very soon :-), mines a Jd and coke by teh way If anyone cares drinkies
Hiya,
We defo confirming too, not missing this mone, hotel booked and we all ready to party.
Looking forwards to seeing everyone and meeting teh ones that aint crossed me path yet, yippeeeeeee
Yippeee, Cocks loves me at least, but are you sure it wont be us buying you drinks cocks, you know I would like tos educe you and sober will be tricky lol
:-) Actually was booked the night me name appeared on list, dont want to to miss out.
Bit disappointed non of the fellas are keen to meet us though, and GORGE ffs what do you want a strap on for, me and steve are going you know :-)
SO guys, lets have some ooh Liam N STeve going messages and offer to buy us a few drinsk at teh bar so its not jsut us getting your guys drunk lol
Hiya, sorry to be a pain but could you please mail me hotel details to enable us to book please
Thanks :-)