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Lilmiss
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
0 miles · Lancashire

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Quote by Dirtygirly
Never ever shave your chest!!! :shock:

Wax it... Much more fun!!!!!!!!!! :bounce:
Quote by flirt
i everyone is it just me or are peeps having problem getting into chat, tried last night no luck,tied this morning no luck.
thanx flirt

Must be you. I just tried after reading your post and got straight in.
Quote by st3v3
We had a chat about this a few days back and we will see if we can add all of the forum emotes, they won't all show up in the box in chat but should work if you type them in if we can do it innocent
I'll flag it up as something to try in the next week.

:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce:
:inlove: Thanks
Dear Admin......
Please give us back the innocent in the chatroom.... We miss it :sad:
If you would like to see it back... Please Vote lol
Quote by duncanlondon
i think its unlikely that the originators of these type of threads simply walk away. in fact their use of the site becomes more intense as they keep checking the thread to see the results.
equally everyone else is fascinated by the variety of responses, thus creating more traffic to the thread. which you would imagine the op had actually wanted not to happen, as they had tired of the site and its peculiar ways.

Nah i don't believe that. If you don't want this to happen and are that tired of the site then just take a break without posting to see if anybody is bothered. We all get fed up of certain matters on here so could you imagine if there was a 'Cafe' full of this kinda post. Genuin people wanting to have a break isn't a problem but don't post for attention. Plus you can still read this forum without signing in 12 hours after opening a 'Taking a break' thread.
Joe.. where are you? Why you not posting on this thread seeing as your here?? Fancy abandoning your own thread but posting on other peoples lol wink
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno
Regardless of how many polls people open... it's not going to change anything.
I'm beginning to like the new chat more now and like the fact that you can move from room to room and still chat with your friends or potential meets in whisper wink
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Quote by Elliot
Hey,
Yes indeed it was, so far so good i think so fingers crossed this has sorted out a lot of the issues.
Elliot

dunno
Can't get in chat at all sad
Update.... Been trying to get in for over 10 mins now but all im getting is it saying its connecting me?? Can get in old chat no problem. This is all becoming a bit of a joke now... After being a member for 6 yrs without problems to not being able to chat at all!!!
I'm getting really p'd off now with getting kicked out of chat!!!! Been having problems for the last few weeks now and come to think of it... its only been since i volunteered to try out the new chat?? Never had any of this before hand.
It started off with when i typed it not appearing in chat then getting kicked. Now im getting kicked within approx 5 mins of being in there. Sorry.. but its a joke!!
Quote by Danne
i am now able to get into new chat but it booted me fairly quickly
i have looked at all the places pointed out for help but none seem to cover the problem of chat booting me out sad
any help anyone ?

Me too :mad:
Quote by Marya_Northeast
BUggered if I cba to read 11 pages of problems but I've only been on this chat 5 bloody minutes and I'm already pissed off with how slow it gets and then getting booted ... so it would appear from the whinging in the main room, that everyone else is feeling it too.
And where's that evil smiley face?? Grrrr!

You say you get booted...? Before hand, did you type at all but it not appear in the room? The reason I ask is because ive been having that issue for weeks now. My ISP say its nothing to do with them dunno
That happened a few times. On one occasion, I eventually saw my text (well some of it) but then it the text screen froze again but the people on cam were still moving!
On other occasions I got the message that I'd been disconnected or something along those lines).
Since the last time, I've been unable to get back into the chat at all. It just gtells me to wait while I connect to the service but it never happens. When I cancel that box, it says I've timed out anyway!
I've just logged out, cleared cookies etc and still no joy.
I thought the point of this new chat was that it was better than the old one and we wouldn't be experiencing these problems? Methinks it should still be in Beta!
I got the cam still moving but what i typed didn't appear too
Quote by Marya_Northeast
BUggered if I cba to read 11 pages of problems but I've only been on this chat 5 bloody minutes and I'm already pissed off with how slow it gets and then getting booted ... so it would appear from the whinging in the main room, that everyone else is feeling it too.
And where's that evil smiley face?? Grrrr!

You say you get booted...? Before hand, did you type at all but it not appear in the room? The reason I ask is because ive been having that issue for weeks now. My ISP say its nothing to do with them dunno
Makes no odd's to me coz I still cannot chat for longer than a few minutes before what ever I type sends but doesn't appear in the room :sad: It seem's i'm gonna be having this problem forever.. not that anybody cares.
Has it just gone down... Been kicked a few times and hardly anybody on it when I got bk on... now it's not loading at all
dunno
Or is it just me AGAIN?? :sad:
Quote by markz
Are you on broadband or dial up.................

Wireless Broadband.
So.. everything was going fine till last night... All my pages went slow to load again... the spinny thing in the top left corner was going anti-clockwise instead of clock-wise and I kept getting kicked from chat AGAIN :sad: Not sure how it lies today yet as i've not been in from work long.
Lilmiss x
Quote by tweeky
Ok...this is wierd....??
Seemingly Sky couldn't find any problems. That was at 8am this morning. I've been out at work all day.. Logged into the site and chat at approx . AND i'm still in there blink
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They probably sent your router/modem a sort of reboot message if they are anything like Virgin media. Often sorts out the problem.
Here's hoping... I guess time will tell lol
Ok...this is wierd....??
Seemingly Sky couldn't find any problems. That was at 8am this morning. I've been out at work all day.. Logged into the site and chat at approx . AND i'm still in there blink
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Quote by meat2pleaseu
have you tried all the usual basic stuff such as clearing cookies, updating java and flash etc.
i think java is the only one of those that might influence using chat but it's always a good place to start when having trouble with windows

Yes. I've tried everything. System scans and Java updates. Flash is auto updated because I use Google Chrome and to do the Cache Test it has to clear all your browsing and stuff. I've done nothing but think about it today.
I think it's my Router. Its funny how from a pc and laptop i'm getting the same probs. If there was a pc problem it wouldn't effect the performance of the laptop, would it? I'm gonna ring and ask for a new one to be sent out to me.
Thanks for all your help.
Lilmiss
Update..
I've rung Sky and spent 30 mins going through this n that.. rebooting.. blah blah for them to say its not them? They say there is no proxy. They are passing it onto a higher team to check again. While doing all the checks they had me signing into chat to see what happened but it was still the same. I can type once then im a gonner!! dunno
Kenty... I tried chat on another site last night but it did the same. I don't use IE and Firefox just crashes everytime. My question is.. Why can i get in chat and it only happen once i've typed? :sad:
Lilmiss
I've just done that Cache Test and its appears i've found a Proxy.
What next? Ring my ISP in the morning and ask them to remove it??
Lilmiss
Thanks for your help. I've mailed you with what it said once i used that link you sent me. Please can you have a look at it and mail me what i need to do next in a woman words LOL x
Ok... for about the last 5 days or so I have been experiencing problems in chat. I can log in, move from the server it throws me into to the room I want, say 'Hello' then..... Nothing. :sad: The room stops rolling and anything that I type in the panel at the bottom of the box sends, but doesn't show in the room.. then about 10 seconds later I crash and the room grey's out. :sad: Now last night I managed to stay in chat about 90 mins before it happened.
I have put in support tickets and spoken to Meeko about the problems and they have/are doing there best to help which I really appreciate.
I have a PC which is running XP that I use 95% of the time. I have tried updating everything which I'm told its all up to date. I'm also wireless. I've even done a system restore.
I also sometimes use a laptop which is Windows 7 and getting the exact same problems on that which tells me its something to do with chat rather than the systems. I have also tried the chatroom on a different site (10 mins ago) and the chat is exactly the same there. dunno
MSN is working and the IM chat thing in the right hand corner at the bottom. Also the games on FB so if it was a flash problem surely they wouldn't work?
There must be a Computer Whizz Kid about somewhere that can help?? Please?
Lilmiss
Quote by FUNKMEUP
I would like to come, can someone send me some details.
thanks

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It's annoying isn't it. I've never known the problems to run this long before. Everytime I go in chat, within a few mins the room stops rolling and what I type doesn't appear in there. I have to log out and reload it but then when I try and go back in, i'm locked in the room and have to wait till it eventually throws me out. It's not my pc freezing either as every other page I am using including the sites home page works fine. I have raised a support ticket too.
Lil
Hmmmm... So is it just 'normal' then?? All this crashing?? Its almost 1am sat morning and its done it twice in the last 15 mins?? Does anybody actually care?? lol
What's up with them? I keep going in all is well..then after about 10 mins it all stops!!! It's like nobody is chatting but when you type nothing is going in the room and its crashed??
Anybody else getting this problem since Weds night or just me?
Lil
Yep... it's broken... Mine is doing the same. Also my chat is playing up!! AND.. I've apparently got a friend's request but when i click on it, there is nothing there!!