Sexlightened
Is it just me or are there a huge amount of ads being posted offering indoor dogging? Maybe it's all the idiots who have messed up our nights through the summer!!
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Northbicester
2 days ago
Bisexual Male, 63
Bisexual Female, 57
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Sexlightened
Have to agree with most people here. The weather is bloody cold but it certainly keeps the idiots in. I don't think their batteries can cope with having the heater, lights, heated rear screen and stereos on! Even if nothing happens it's still good to meet up with friends and chat about the previous summers and make plans for the warmer weather.
Dave
Dave
Sexlightened
Lots of police activity recently in the well known woods near to the M40 services. They've taken to sitting in and waiting. They were in twice last night in under an hour.
Sexlightened
. :happy: Huge round of applause for Serendipity for starting such a good thread, really got a lot of people thinking. More of the same please!
Sexlightened
Quote by mary sweet
In my humble opinion may I point out that a public car par/beauty spot is not private especially so if it is a known dogging area. A serious and sensible dogger should have a fall back secret place where they can take others.
I agree in some ways Mary but it's not always convenient to drive from one place to another and surely people should always be able to choose who they allow to watch/participate. Otherwise that would lead to it being open house as soon as someone pulled in to park up. So I think you're being a little harsh accusing us of not being a serious and sensible doggers.
No sorry if I gave the wrong impression but I am not accusing anybody of anything. I was just stating the obvious and that is in a public place no one has anymore rights than anybody else so we always move to a secret place if there are strangers around.
It's no problem Mary you're cool. Maybe it would be good if everyone read Mal's excellent dogging hints and tips it gives great advice for singles and couples. Take care and once again no offence taken xx
Sexlightened
Weather never puts me off Sally but unfortunately working tonight, will look out for any further posts from you though and good luck tonight.
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Sexlightened
Quote by mary sweet
In my humble opinion may I point out that a public car par/beauty spot is not private especially so if it is a known dogging area. A serious and sensible dogger should have a fall back secret place where they can take others.
I agree in some ways Mary but it's not always convenient to drive from one place to another and surely people should always be able to choose who they allow to watch/participate. Otherwise that would lead to it being open house as soon as someone pulled in to park up. So I think you're being a little harsh accusing us of not being a serious and sensible doggers.
Sexlightened
Have to agree with noto. Last week in one of my fav spots no fewer than 5 couples were put off by the actions of these rude pushy people. The people in the car are doing us all a great favour and long may it continue. Even last night at an arranged meet I had to tell one middle aged chap (regular pain in the arse) it was private 4 times before he'd clear off and even then he hovered round hopefully. This put the couple off and the evening ended early. Watcher's should be respectful and only approach at the relevant signal. It may be a newbie couple frightened off by their impatience. The only time so far I've talked my other half into coming out we agreed before to stay in the car and not open the windows unless she felt comfortable. Within 2 minutes of pulling into the site our door handles were being tried and another bloke was knocking on the window not using his hands. Couples shouldn't comprimise and only do what they are happy with doing. For genuine doggers we are happy with that and respect the boundaries.
Sexlightened
Good to see you out again on friday night Bucksfuncpl. Shame it was overrun with males where you visited. Hope you found what you were looking for and hopefully meet up again soon.
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Sexlightened
Hi bfc yes I agree it was very difficult to say something at the time and we have had a problem with the same chap once before.
In reply to redhot and jamnat he has been told before and still takes no notice and he is known to use this site but no one has yet found out his screen name. Sorry if I caused offence but as you can see by bfc's reply everyone's evening was ended early anyway because of his actions.
If you have any suggestions I would be pleased to hear them but short of picking him up and physically removing him it's a very difficiult situation.
In reply to redhot and jamnat he has been told before and still takes no notice and he is known to use this site but no one has yet found out his screen name. Sorry if I caused offence but as you can see by bfc's reply everyone's evening was ended early anyway because of his actions.
If you have any suggestions I would be pleased to hear them but short of picking him up and physically removing him it's a very difficiult situation.
Sexlightened
Awesome show you two. Very much enjoyed. You're a top couple and your lady is gorgeous. Hope to meet again sometime.
Now the serious bit. The man in the 04 reg focus if you're reading this I suggest you read the etiquette and rules thoroughly. Getting too pushy and taking over is not good for all concerned so maybe in future you'll bear that in mind.
Now the serious bit. The man in the 04 reg focus if you're reading this I suggest you read the etiquette and rules thoroughly. Getting too pushy and taking over is not good for all concerned so maybe in future you'll bear that in mind.
Sexlightened
The county is quiet but there is activity if you look around and not too far from Bicester a lot of times (not the well known wood either)
Sexlightened
Out this week in Bucks with a couple of friends we were confronted with 5 car loads of boy-racers. These weren't the usual spin around the car park and make a lot of noise kiddies. They seemed intent on physical violence towards the males in the group who they assumed were obviously gay and so deserved to be beaten up. They blocked off the entrances to at least two sites and acted excedingly threateningly towards the doggers. Just take care and hopefully they'll grow bored and go away.
Sexlightened
Been a lot of shooting stars the last few nights as well. Keep wishing but those boy racers still haven't disappeared up their own exhausts.
Sexlightened
Mapping is when you pull up alongside someone in your car and ask for directions. While you do this you make sure they can see plenty of you giving them a good flash.
Sexlightened
I'm out and about near Oxford tonight guys if you'd like to pm details.
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Sexlightened
Very true silk. Was shaping up to be a good night with at least eight cars there. a lot lost their bottle after the kids returned for the third time which is fair enough. Hopefully they'll get bored and leave us all to our fun.
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Sexlightened
The blue fiesta is their favourite car now. Been up there a couple of times this week and each time they've turned up. It's a 'K' reg so if anybody's up their beware if this car comes in. Not sure of their intentions but they're bloody stupid and will ruin everything.
Take care out there!
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Take care out there!
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Sexlightened
Fully agree with you both. Just thought better log it after all we don't want anyone getting hurt do we?
I'll try and get some of those plastic clip on sparkly hubcaps as well serendipity!
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I'll try and get some of those plastic clip on sparkly hubcaps as well serendipity!
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Sexlightened
I have heard from a couple of people lately that a certain well known woodland trust owned site near to Bicester has been getting a lot of problems with boy racers. Not only this they have been showing increasing signs of aggression to doggers. I went along last night to check out the situation. A blue citroen (the predecessor to the saxo) was there with three lads in it. They flashed their indicators, headlights and even tooted their horn to try to tempt me out of my car. After a while they bored of this and drove of. About ten minutes later they returned in a dark blue fiesta and went through the same routine. Again they left. I decided to leave at this point. As I left they returned again this time in a red estate car. They may have been genuine but I think not. If anyone is using this site please take care.
Sexlightened
Our paths may cross tonight am out around Oxon.
Will be looking out for you.
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Will be looking out for you.
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Sexlightened
Shall look forward to seeing you ladies mapping soon then!
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Sexlightened
Sometimes other people don't help. Had a great evening with two couples in Bucks the other day ruined by an idiot putting his headlights on full and parking in front of the parked car.
If you want floodlights got to football and leave us alone. Both couples drove of quite quickly and had police there in a very few minutes to see what was going on.
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If you want floodlights got to football and leave us alone. Both couples drove of quite quickly and had police there in a very few minutes to see what was going on.
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