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Pink_n_Blue
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 54
Straight Male, 45
UK

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Quote by Try2
People often say I am a waste of time
not sure if that's the same as being a time waster
I don't meet anyone (no one wants to meet me more like) I have a empty profile, no photos and until today I thought Shrep was a dog .... Im getting confused now, going for a lie down

Awwww Try lol (pats on head and tucks him up in the corner)
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Haven't bothered with Shrep either, no ad running, only pics of Blue on the profile at mo, can i join, can i, can i? lol

You can stay as long as you don't tell Blue. wink
:happy:
Haven't bothered with Shrep either, no ad running, only pics of Blue on the profile at mo, can i join, can i, can i? lol
Receiving something vanilla through the post today with a smiley face and my sh name drawn at the bottom - hmmmmmmmm nothing better than a good mystery lol
Took all ours off the site a while ago simply cos i was in that kinda mood.
But as I'm always on cam..... lol
P x
Thats spooky. Blue and I were just having a conversation about much the same thing after hearing a "sob story" from a no-show this week. He'd had the benefit of the doubt from me some years ago when he came up with a dramatic excuse as to why he hadnt shown that time.
I gave him another chance when he came chasing again the last couple of weeks. I agreed to a meet, gave my mobile number, arranged a date and time and then needless to say he then dropped out of sight. He's now came up with yet another dramatic excuse (may be true may not) but it still didnt explain the lack of a text to me to let me know and he got quite aggressive when i gave him the cold shoulder. But thats more his problem than mine. Whether his explanation was true or not he wont be getting another chance.
Something we have noticed is that when I play solo to Blue is the lack of respect that seems to be given to my partner nowadays. When I was first on here not only was a guy polite enough to chat to my partner about an upcoming meet but invariably an email followed after the meet to thank him for allowing him to "borrow me". And yup we have had our share of those that simply drop off the radar afterwards as well. Maybe I really am that scary lol
Think you just have to go with your gut instinct on this one hun.
Quote by TSM
blimy you peeps are complicated, if you dont want to see cams dont watch them, dont complain if they are on/off, if you dont want wispers you can turn it to authorise then they wont popup automaticly, this is not rocket science
It would be good though that if they looked into an ability to create rooms that have parameters, ie 'fem/couples/male' age etc. This would then prevent people getting into that room etc.. So it would allow open rooms but with limits.

I think the problem around the cam issue is simply sometimes a room can be taken over with "wow u look gr8" "love to see *insert appropriate body part*" "fancy a shag" "give it to her harder" coming from all sides towards someone on cam who may well be in 2 rooms and not talking openly in either because they are deep in whisper. Whilst someone may not actually be watching a cam they are given a running commentary from other members who seem to think they are going to come out with the one line that will get the cammers attention.
And the way I understand it to have an open room that only allows certain sections of the site in - ie couples/fems/males would be against the AUP as it discriminates against them entering part of the site. Hence why this was debated a while ago and it was decided it would have to be a passworded room with its own group set up to notify their members of the password of the day.
As for the no whisper room title rule, i miss the old days lol. Yup i usually have my whispers set on authorise but it doesnt stop the annoyance factor rising seeing "xxx wants to whisper you blah blah" popping up. (i have a very long block list now). I appreciate that its no longer site policy as we have our own control over our whispers now but is it really discriminating against a group and therefore against AUP to have it in a room title? Not sure I'll ever get my head around that one.
P x

Heyyyyyyy people....... We would both like to say how great it was to meet all those who attended last night. Judging by the number of emails we've come home to it looks like another great success :-)
There would be no point organising a get together if people didn't attend so for those of you who came out to join us last night thank you. You are the ones that make a social a social.
And for those of you who stayed on at the Club today I do hope you put on plenty of suncream - we dont want to hear any complaints of sunburn! lol
For anyone wondering who attended we have highlighted the profile names below (the rest of you poke )
barnycouple
bedrockcpl
Canwehelpu
DeeDan
Delphis
desert_dave/Ziltoid drinkies
Fleur_Delys
Fobs
foo_fighters72
grotmeister
jaggy-purple
JuicyRabbit
Kev_jane
lids
lilnfil
Moisten
mrmrsmilfy
oWotaPair
paulaclaire
Pink & Blue :happy:
Slowhand_1
suzyg
tricycle
wwcw
bubblylorraine
Dizzytart
Lisajones_1
Localgirl1
PamelaD
Addiction
askelkar
Atoyen
balgra
black_athlete_1
bobodio
bouncy1
bulletse8
Chalove
Debard
Den_Kent
Ermingtrude
Golden01
gvbbcuk
hantsgerf
harryman
horny-in-herts
Indeed
kevin4121ormore
Mickcalpe
]Mike2mike
minidave
Mkjamie
Paulukswing
seanie-g
sheppeyguy
si015
The Tantric Master
thickandcreamy
toyboy_1986
Ukwineman
weekleylearner
Mods Edits - colours removed as we do not allow naming and shaming on the site.
As usual its one of those words that changes depending on the situation and the people involved.
My Master calls me a slut and the ole knees go weak.
A muppet stranger in the chat whispers and calls me a slut it tends to anger me.
Have to admit though that I find it hard when someone with "slut" in their profile name comes into chat to call them that, I usually find another part of their name to call them by.
Px
sadly it already seems to be going the way of many a group :sad:
(yes thats a big hint to people to go have a look again lol )
I just love the fact that in both cases neither parents just hung up and waited to bring it up at the next family gathering :giggle:
The new 4head headache relief stick advert on the tele...... if only life could be that simple, few people i'd like to use it on right now lol
Drop a support ticket into admin. We've had the same when the site glitches from time to time, they'll be able to clear it for you
P x
Quote by Meeko
Damn I'll have to do some more work today now :sad:

Pink just think it gives you the perfect opertunety to clean the oven bolt
wash your mouth out meeko :censored: Anyway I'm still waiting for you to come and do that particular little job :bolt:
Ahhhh tweeking, would that explain why I just get a blank window when trying to get into chat at the mo? Damn I'll have to do some more work today now :sad:
Vanilla venue with a closing doors time for the next one then - sorts out both problems, who is organising that one btw dunno
Quote by EurekaParties
First of all thank you to Pink and Blue for organising such a great night and secondly thank you to everyone who attended and made it such a success.
Now lets see who if anyone(glances at Pink and Blue) will be organsing the next one....summer fun anyone ?????

Funny you should mention summer fun, a pool party may just have to be sorted (glances at Pam!!!) lol
Thank you to Eureka for letting us all go nuts for the night wink
WOW what a night!!!
Thank you so much to everyone that took the time to help make our first social a great success.
Will there be another one..... hmmmmm we'll see wink
(Pink goes off to drink more coffee and swears off booze forever redface )
Quote by maverick40
Any peeps let mav use there shower in cabin to get ready as will be in work gear as driving staright from work, cheers gang x

There are showers in the cabins???? blimey must have missed that one lol
The ones in the club will be available though :lol:
Quote by Busty_n_Lusty
Woohoooooooooooooooooooooooo we can make it now!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Talk about leaving it til the 11th hour bolt
:bounce::bounce::bounce:
Quote by bedrockcpl
Just to let u know we def will not be able to come on Friday. Hope all goes well and u have a good night. xx

Such a shame hun, would have been good to see you both again but understand. Maybe next time eh xx
Quote by Mike2mike
Unauthorised whispers should be charged at £1 a message. :grin:

for the poor 'ole recipient of said whisper i assume lol
Quote by Pink_n_Blue
If they aint on here then they cant be part of a SH social :doh:
Dont tell Giles but we have gaffer tape for his rotflmao
Put our names down please plus 6 others.
See you there
Xx

Can we have their SH profile names please Strumpet, ya only after name badges lol
They not on here hence I didn't put names, but Giles will wear all 6 badges as he has a fetish for the sticky backs...... I say no more.... Pmsl
Xx
Whoops already told Giles about the gaffa tape - would explain why he grinned when i said it though Strumpet :twisted: