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Pink_n_Blue
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 54
Straight Male, 45
UK
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St3v3blimey i may need to sit down - someone agrees with me on here lol
I wonder if it would be possible to change the strapline that comes up on the chat page as you enter to define exactly what is meant by directing (ie one of the ops lines) - lets face it we all know no one actually reads the t&c's/aup before coming in, too eager to get in and see the ladies on cam. Even then granted people will argue the toss, I for one am getting fed up with the guys that seem to think that their "question" to someone on cam isnt actually directing, simply a helpful suggestion.
Of course it will still happen to a degree but they cant say they werent told when half the regulars jump on them
I wonder if it would be possible to change the strapline that comes up on the chat page as you enter to define exactly what is meant by directing (ie one of the ops lines) - lets face it we all know no one actually reads the t&c's/aup before coming in, too eager to get in and see the ladies on cam. Even then granted people will argue the toss, I for one am getting fed up with the guys that seem to think that their "question" to someone on cam isnt actually directing, simply a helpful suggestion.
Of course it will still happen to a degree but they cant say they werent told when half the regulars jump on them
Quote by amatuerman
I thought it was Amateur man lol
Trying to be funny at someone else's post just proves how "amateur" you are!
This is a forum, where all opinions should be respected, not laughed at.
I'd always read it as that as well Hugs. Not sure it warranted that kind of reply though amatuerman
Quote by moniquejohn
What l feel everyone has failed to see is that there is an opportunity for some carefully selected guys to come to a safe house, in the warm. We choose the guys. To have some fun with me. In order for this to happen there are expenses that need to be covered, just as in a hotel room or swinging club. We have our own home it was just an opportunity that was offered,It's no loss to us, we have plenty of offers to go to houses. We just wanted to share some very kinky sex with some very kinky guys. If some of you choose to call it prostitution and condemn us for simply asking a question, not demanding or advertising, fair enough. Jog on. Just remember your partner/wife the next time one of you married or attached guys are busy shagging someones wife. Or even the local prostitute!
So basically you werent looking for genuine opinions, you wanted us to say hell yeah go for it and got annoyed when we didnt
You say you want to share some kinky sex etc etc but apparently you also wanted those providing that kinky sex to help cover your costs. Ever thought that maybe those guys can also get it for free with women on here who are genuine swingers and do it for the sex and the fun not the cash.
As for your last comment about remembering partner or wife next time - sour grapes and i'm walking away :doh:
Quote by moniquejohn
We have acquired a house to have fun in from a friend who is going abroad,possibly for ever.
He has let us rent the place till xmass quite cheap so that we can 'play'. But the place is a pig sty( his words not ours) and we will need to tidy it up a bit.
Of course we are liable for gas/electric/rates/ council tax and rent.
This is just so we can invite people back for fun(its getting a cold out there for dogging!)and it has a nice big drive where we can put a van to fix up for next years fun.
All of that isn't cheap. So is it fair of us to ask for a voluntary contribution towards costs from the people who avail them selves of moniques pussy?(and other bits)
John.
P.s anyone got a cheep van in the N.E region lol.
No different to most people who play at home, but i'd never dream of asking someone to leave cash by the door as they leave - that would make me a hooker
Plus as you say you have the rent quite cheap then surely the advantage of having somewhere private to play outweighs the annoyance of extra bills.
So no i dont think it would be "fair" to ask for contributions for ya wifes pussy altho i'm sure you'd probably find plenty of takers, but most people in that case wouldn't see it as swinging but prostitution.
Quote by HnS
said things
Boy am i glad i dont have probs cos most of that went whooooosh right over my head, but basically ya saying it seems to be ppls home connections not coping - seems odd tho that all of a sudden a whole load of ppl in different parts of the country are all encountering the same thing tho
**UPDATE**
Thank you to all those who took the time to reply, sadly the offer was made to someone who then didnt bother to reply so a wasted nite all round - ah well such is life, heres to next weekend
We are currently looking for a local single NON married guy (you will be found out trust me) for some fun this saturday night.
Preferably 30-40 yo, clean shaven on face, although a little stubble is ok Pink doesnt like beards.
Please dont respond to this with a wink, we simply wont respond to you even as a no thanks, we've taken the time to advertise, you can take the time to reply. Also if your profile is barely filled in you'll be looked over for someone else, face pics are also a must.
Would like to chat in rooms to see if we click beforehand so would be handy if you have a cam as well. (Be warned we both have a dry sense of humour lol)
Oh and in edit, please dont whisper us in the chat room without asking as you may well find yourself on the block list.
We can accomodate for the meet but there will be no possibility of staying over or receiving brekkie lol
Thank you to all those who took the time to reply, sadly the offer was made to someone who then didnt bother to reply so a wasted nite all round - ah well such is life, heres to next weekend
We are currently looking for a local single NON married guy (you will be found out trust me) for some fun this saturday night.
Preferably 30-40 yo, clean shaven on face, although a little stubble is ok Pink doesnt like beards.
Please dont respond to this with a wink, we simply wont respond to you even as a no thanks, we've taken the time to advertise, you can take the time to reply. Also if your profile is barely filled in you'll be looked over for someone else, face pics are also a must.
Would like to chat in rooms to see if we click beforehand so would be handy if you have a cam as well. (Be warned we both have a dry sense of humour lol)
Oh and in edit, please dont whisper us in the chat room without asking as you may well find yourself on the block list.
We can accomodate for the meet but there will be no possibility of staying over or receiving brekkie lol
Quote by sara2010
if i am honest i am deterred from posting in some threads as each piece of type is analised and torn apart for an opinion that is an opinion that cannt or cannt be assed backing up with the approved media. or just for h9olding the opinion. the way i see things is normally from both sides but occasionally i see things in a black and white fashion and say so, why should i have to justify why i think such a thing and then let things get personal for having the opinion.
i now try to keep to the less controversial topics and the meets/socials, and i dont blame others for thinking a similar way
Couldnt agree with you more there sara - plus it often seems once someone takes a dislike to something you say in here it then seems to be held against you for the duration, cant be doing with the bitching that comes around
