i used o have to pay a third to my parents as rent from as soon as i started earning... a third also was put in the bank for mje and the final third i could spend as i liked so by my reconing they should be paying £100 a week not a paultry £50 lol
just had a phone call from a member of my staff saying that she wont be in to work this evening ............. grrrrrrrrrr means i wont get a day off at all this week ....... how selfish...... then the conversation continued
she is 18 weeks pregnant and we have been through some horrible 'morning' sickness
she has just come out of hospital having had her scan which has revealed that the baby has spina bifida
OMG how horrible do i feel that i was worried about not having a day off ... i dont care if i dont get another day off untill she is emotionaly ok enough to come back to work if she comes back to work at all.
i have been on web sites since i heard the news trying to understand the condition but until its revealed how severe the condition is i dont know what to do.
i want to be there for her and dont want her worrying about her job as this is the last thing she should be worrying about.
i dont know what her next decision will be, i dont know what my decision would be either if i was in the same situation.
i dont even know why i posted this apart from to vent some frustration and offer some (never to be read by her) support and love to someone who is not only an employee but a friend as well.
i will get you a ladder so ya can get on my knees then :twisted:
so a room of say 70 or 80 people continualy saying hi to every new entrant to the room is what u require or are you talking about only the room host or people you know saying hi back. who says hi in a main room then.. does someone take responsibility fot meeting and greeting??
i am sometimes in a converstion and either dont see someone say hi or just to be honest cannt be bothered saying it every 5 seconds
why is a rainbow not knotted
why is a hamburger made from beef and not ham
also have a look at the town house its on the club pages on here
but if people didnt post hundreds of same/similar posts and stuck to the threads already running then perhaps admins apology might be easier to spot .... rant over and yes i did actualy agree that there should have been a sorry in the chat news on main page
have you tried the numerouse dating sites out there ... if thts what your looking for then is a swing site really the site to be on
save the money you would spend on a mobile phone and get a lap top and mobile internet dongle ... a bit bulkyer to carry in your pocket but at least chat will work lol
but just because someone is not 'activly' chatting in open room does not necessaraly mean they are not there .. they could be whispering or perhaps just voyering ... or perhaps as in the past, when the site has played up .. to keep you in the room you put your status to idle ... perhaps rather than booting you the system puts you to idle automaticaly rather than booting you .. a bit how like msn works.. msn dont feel the need to disconect you, just put you to busy
my twopennerth
ads for me are also a good sourse of information ..... i have found many a time that what someone says they are looking for and what they themselves have looked for often differ ..... ie. they say they are str8 but in the past have looked for bi ... inconsistancies (i know peoples preferences change over time) are a dead giveaway and hold valuable clues to whether or not you might like to meet them
keep the old profiles and ads as neither of them have any impact on how fast the site runs .. a slow chat room is the result of active members using the chatrooms not inactive members not using the site
any advertising for another who isnt the account holder is ... i think
oxford ermmm university town lol educated people ermmmm whats ya chances red :twisted:
a nice gen guy folks can at least hold a converstion as well
good luck red xx
deecee you shouldnt have been sniffing my feet then :twisted:
on other sites isnt it the case where the person you are verifying are able to vet the ones that go on their profile to edit out the less than desirable ones and just post the more flattering verifications
is this really what you want ... almost false verifications where only the ggod is posted and the negative ones are ignored .... not for me thanks i would rather do without
still think ya need a new ... less boob enhancing cam tho :twisted:
and for when u lose this thread ... try looking at the permanant stickies at the top of the page lol 1 name chatroom emoticons might just work lol
meeting a couple of friends and then her staying longer mmmmmmmm
luff n best wishes fat slapper xxxxxxxxxxx
yeahhhhhhhhh all pm's sent out ... if i missed anyone please let me know ta xxxxxxx
ok all pm's have been sent out for the dogging event ... will post pm's to them thats going the evining do later this eve or in the morning
if you havnt heard from me by then please pm me and i will sort it out
sara