'fat slapper' a bit of advice for post break up .............. get on with living for you now not some sad git that was obviously not good enough for you and also didnt realise what he would lose...... be strong and lean on your friends when you need to ..... you have my number hun use it at any time (the worst i will say is p*** off its 3am) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i wasnt beholding to him and neither him to me ... i can only speek from my own experience .. i only used him as a sound board and as a saftey net just incase i needed it. if i am honest i am sure that a lot of the single fems use buddies for this. if i remember rightly i am sure there was some sort of thread a while ago about safty for single fems and some really good advice there that i am sure men use as well .. and this includes using somone to tell where you are and who with
ooooooooooooo last year i went to a singles only social arranged through here ..... one of the games was a speed dating game where by all the ' contestants' brought along 5 questions .... all the females were sat down and the males rotated around the room and each spent exackly 5 mins asking questions and giving answers ..... means that everyone gets a chance to chat to everyone else and at the end of the game you have a better idea of whom you want to 'chat' to in more detail later :twisted:
ok i was a single fem (not any more) but while i was single i used a buddie/s to tell where i was going and who with giving extimated times i would be away ... also tho we used each other to 'bounce' ideas off as to who i/we were meeting and if they had any reservations as to whether it was a good idea to meet somoneone, and sometimes i have cancelled an arranged meet because my 'buddie' had a bad vibe against the person i was due to meet and i am a great believer to listen to instincs be my own or a good friend.
do not be upset that this person discussed meeting you with their buddie i am sure that they were only thinking of their own safey (allbeit unfounded that you were unsafe to meet) and that meeting you or not would not have gone any further than their buddie
hmmmmmmmm a single guy with a girlfriend and advertising for her as well ..... wonders how long before this is locked
as a single fem i had placed an advert when i first joined the site ... but most replies didnt bother to read it properly so are they worth the bother of replying
by the way i got 100's of replys and do not have the time to reply to everyone
after that first experience i was too scared to post another ad because of the volumn of interest i got ... big headed ... perhaps but never the less true
thank goodness am out of it now and just here to chat and socialise
happy birthday hun was good to see you sat ..... hope you get what you deserve and you deserve the very best cos i luffs you
a fab night as always raz hun roll on the next do
sorry mrs bone but i think this link may help bbw in knowing that we all get nervous ... i know its about a party meet and not a one to one meet but the principals are the same http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/199122.html?highlight=party
by the way bbw i can only echo what the others have said relax and it will happen but the best way to get comphy is to meet at a social/munch first and then its not so bad when you get to meet them face to face. good luck and hope you find what your looking for .... eventualy .... and when you do you will look back and wonder what all the nerves were about
chesh your on the list
raz i have put you and twat down on the list see you sat hun
list is fully up to date now peeps but need peeps to send in ticket money from now
try finding a bristol area chatroom and asking in there
nope none of them problems anymore have you tried upgrading flash player adobe etc
happy birthday hilda xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
try watching corrie on your pc @ till your new telly turns up thurs is my only advice to you ..... i hardly watch live telly anymore as the internet gives me most of what i want when i want to watch it without the need of recording it
am still having problems with searching for users and i even tried all 3 gender types with using the correct spelling of the username
just an opinion tho for those of us who cannt remember some profile names tho especialy them with hyphens / underscores / numbers etc
where has the possible match facility gone as this was handy if you dont know if it was a hyphen or an underscore or if it had numbers in the name
oooooooooooo have they fitted a stannah in there now then
by the way a cheeky bump lol
this is still going ahead so cummon girls get ya names down
cams are much better and not heard of many complaints about rooms booting either today
this is am updated list of who is invited to the party as miss confused is moving house and has asked me to step in and update ... but as i not alowed acces to her account have to do it this way so here goes lol
couples
Sara & possible victim
miss-confused
sugarspice
busty& mollster
maybe & victim
bazza64
singles
joewally
leeandyou
mr sinclair
easylover
deecee
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server 1 NW Naughty Room No D or W .... saphire-steel stuck in chat please release them thanks lol
take her out more often then lol and she wont need to catch up on her pocket money so drasticaly lol
my birthday the day after and after attending last years munch on crutches with a broken ankle am taking no chances lol and will be celebrating closer to home lol have a fab time you lot as i know ou will xxxxxx
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stayed at home
