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Sara_2006
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 58
Straight Male, 60
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Sex God
i have voted to stand up against the bullies
and as a licence holder myself i feel it is my duty to do the right thing or she will be running scared every time the door opens.
i understand she is scared for the children perhaps if they could go to a relative for a little while till things settle down might be an idea
and as a licence holder myself i feel it is my duty to do the right thing or she will be running scared every time the door opens.
i understand she is scared for the children perhaps if they could go to a relative for a little while till things settle down might be an idea
Sex God
Quote by flower411
For us it`s the abusive whispers that are annoying. If we open a room we generally put "no whispering or directing" in the title.
But on occasion we have had some whispered conversations with people because they have been polite and/or entertaining
If the room name says "no whispering" it gives us the option to stop people when they get out of hand.
There are some people who just whisper filth at us when we are on cam and this is not acceptable, so we keep our options open.
As for directing, that is a 100% no no for us but we do know that some people encourage it, but again, if the room title says "no directing" it gives people the option to stop it I they see fit.
The biggest problem is people coming into our room and encouraging directors to tell them what to do on their own cam. To me, that is so incredibly rude that it`s almost beyond belief !!
i agree totaly and tried to say it but was s**t at saying it ty flower you got it right
Sex God
normaly when a room ststes that its no whispering this is only following constant uninvited whispers from a previously unhosted room and in my opinion it does not mean 'no whispering' it means follow the rules in that aup and ask to whisper and get a posative responce first. yes whispering does go n and to be perfectly honest you dont mind the infrequent or accidental whispers or from people you know, its the uninvited and harrassing whispers that happen.
Sex God
dont let the few put you off completly ..... try to ignore the whispers or report the constant offenders to the room host or an op try going to some socials etc where i find that the single males that do go are well behaved on the whole and you get to meet plenty of couples as well
i hope you decide to stay as the genuine couples are more and more difficult to find........ but whatever you do have fun and stay safe xxxxx
i hope you decide to stay as the genuine couples are more and more difficult to find........ but whatever you do have fun and stay safe xxxxx
Sex God
we used to it in wales but cannt expect any less can we from a culture that cannt normaly be bothered to learn a second language from such close neighbours ... but we exect every other culture to learn english how do the foreigners cope when they visit and ask on the trains for a certain town to be given a blank look or ridiculed for pronouncing it wrong ...... :twisted: i do the same mind
how do the foreigners cope when they visit and ask on the trains for a certain town to be given a blank look or ridiculed for pronouncing it wrong ...... :twisted: i do the same mind Sex God
Quote by X_fanny_x
At 16 my parents tried to force me to marry my sons father, it nearly went ahead to. reg office was booked, until someone asked me why i was gettting married - my answer was "because my parents want me to"
The person said nothing but it made alarm bells ring, i dont think it registered that i had a choice until i had said it outloud
my refusal to get married ended up in me being kicked out the family home in the middle of the night with my son (4 months old at the time)and shunned by some family members, but it was the best decision ive ever made
I am not married now either but co habiting with dek, nothing would change, if we were to marry as far as my son is concerned other than possibly his surname changing. It would not make his life any more stable than it already is.
Dek has been married in the past so its not something he wants to do again, Im happy they way things are
the childs name wouldnt change as this has to be done through the official deed poll way.
Have people thought about what would happen in the event of something dreadful like death occuring ..... just because you live together as man and wife does not give you the security that marriag does interms of finances, like inheritance, if i am right even if its stated in a will (and who's is up to date!!!!!) then the next of kin can override the wishes of the departed the only way to overcome this is to become the next of kin through marriage.
Sex God
i didnt see that much differnce between the old and the new to be honest apart from having to scroll down a bit further than i normaly do to find my usual room.
what i liked was the fact that i didnt have to keep changing my typing colour because i wasnt changing servers all the time to find friends on different servers. just change it the once and carry on.
in fact the only real 'negative' was that the rooms list was long because of the various topics involved and can only se it getting longer when people open password protected rooms as well as open rooms.
just my opinion but was good to have a change .. persiveer with the 'i dont like change' brigade and do what is best
what i liked was the fact that i didnt have to keep changing my typing colour because i wasnt changing servers all the time to find friends on different servers. just change it the once and carry on.
in fact the only real 'negative' was that the rooms list was long because of the various topics involved and can only se it getting longer when people open password protected rooms as well as open rooms.
just my opinion but was good to have a change .. persiveer with the 'i dont like change' brigade and do what is best
Sex God
to me a munch is generaly held in just the 1 enviroment normaly a pub function room etc .... only valid members of the site may go ie not banned and had sufficient time being a member.
a social on the other hand people from other sites and vanilla people and also banned sh members may be allowed to go and also may be a pub crawl type of event.
thats my interpritation of the differences
a social on the other hand people from other sites and vanilla people and also banned sh members may be allowed to go and also may be a pub crawl type of event.
thats my interpritation of the differences
Sex God
yeahhhhhh let me out of sickbay .... docs have given me the all clear to go back to work ..... its been a long 10 weks but bones are healing well (still swollen) but just need to work on the strength.
thanks to all my friends who have helped me though this time keeping me smiling and giggling.
you know who you are
thanks to all my friends who have helped me though this time keeping me smiling and giggling.
you know who you are
think Ill go and eat worms 
now stop complaining and get some work done :twisted: 
