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Sarah
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
Straight Male, 55
UK
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Quote by Devon1
oh damn....been here since April 2004 and still never made the cut..lol
Oh well...at least this way I pass under the radar !!!
Same here, but i hate lists, so it' a good thing
Well if I didn't make shoppnig lists there would not be any thing to eat in this house!
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
I have just read a thread that mentions bullying in the forums and chat rooms. I have heard of bullying on facebook something I have never used.
After years at school being bullied as I wouldn't conform to a group of girls that thought they could control me both physically and mentally, I could stop the mental abuse as I wouldn’t let them control my mind but I couldn’t stop the physical.
For this reason I can never understand the term cyber bullying.
Bullying for me means you have no control to get away, at school I had no choice I had to go to school. I could have changed schools but thought at 12 it could happen anywhere. I could have told my parents but I never wanted them to worry about me at school, my mum had recently lost her mum and was coping with enough. I never wanted her having the added upset of worrying about me at school. So for 4 years I endured it, the constant pokes beside me, the tugging of my hair, the tripping over down the corridors.
At school I felt a victim of a system I had to get through I know I am not the only one it has happened to.
I learnt on leaving school never to put myself in a position when I don't have a choice to walk away.
I saw an incident last night in the chat rooms and I searched for a op in the end I asked a friend who I knew was in the pool to ask if anyone had a contact for a op as one was needed. The argument then when back and forth for ages other people joined in and nasty things were said.
I did wonder why the people that it was aimed at just didn't walk away but stayed being hurled abuse at and then hitting back. Eventually an op was located and the situation dealt with.
In situations like these I would have walked away not given the abuser the satisfaction of a response. In the years of my children using the internet I have told them the same thing.
Some people in life it seems get pleasure out of feeling in control of others.
I guess over the years I have learnt to take no notice, it isn’t worth my time or thought when someone wants to try and intimidate me, I have better things to occupy my mind than to have such people have control of it.
I do however feel that calling it cyber bullying has diminished the physical pain that some of us had to endure when we had no choice within the situation we are in.
I personally don’t see it as bullying and have told my children this over the years it is I believe cyber intimidation and they can only try and intimidate you if you allow them to. You have a choice block, delete them or walk away form the pc.
If you / anyone wish to report abuse, please use the report abuse button, if you cannot find a chat op, or in cases of the forum, a moderator.
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Sat in pubs at pre munch drinkies type events, and wondered if they 'were' or 'weren't' part of the pre drinkies! :lol:
Once sat th ere wondering where everyone was, the table next to me, ask if I was going out that night any where interesting, so I stated in general terms the name of the venue, to which they laughed and said so were they going to the same place........... :lol:
:lol: Once sat th ere wondering where everyone was, the table next to me, ask if I was going out that night any where interesting, so I stated in general terms the name of the venue, to which they laughed and said so were they going to the same place........... :lol:
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Quote by noladreams
Did the Mods ever have a uniform? PVC or latex kinda tight fitting little number for the ladies and a nice pair of leather chaps for the chaps?
I'm partial to a uniform ;) :twisted: Be quite happy to shag a load of mods if that was the case!
:notes: Will speak to St3v3 about this! :giggle:
I am sure funds will be made available, then we will have to have a trying on session / photo call / etc
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