Hi All,
We'll be out and about during the week and would love to see some attention from other couples....no involvement required, just the knowledge that we're in the same place doing the same thing, lol.
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ShropsDogs
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
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Hallo Dawn. Don't be scared. We're not frightening at all and don't bite unless you want us to ;) (old gag but we're still chortling about it).
We're not in the Midlands but are quite close (Shropshire). If you ever get to visit out little part of the UK then please say hello.
Have fun.
J&D
We're not in the Midlands but are quite close (Shropshire). If you ever get to visit out little part of the UK then please say hello.
Have fun.
J&D
God. We feel so old now. We're both in our 30s and are 'probably' not old!
Then again, we do remember B&W telly and the "S reg special" cortina. Along with people that delivered Corona pop to your door. Monty Python was our thing and the young uns were getting into Ben Elton and his spangly suits ("Mrs Thatch; the Ironing Lady"). Technology raged with the advent of Mr Clive Sinclair and his amazing ZX-Sh1t. Turkey Twizlers didn't exist and Cillit Bang was something we'd simply wonder at. The future held Shiny Metalic suits and food was something the Little Woman wouldn't have to worry about since it would be delivered in pellet-form. She would then have time to do her nails while the good hubby manly struggled his jet-car back to his 2.5 kids.
God. We feel so old now. We're both in our 30's and are old................
J&D
Then again, we do remember B&W telly and the "S reg special" cortina. Along with people that delivered Corona pop to your door. Monty Python was our thing and the young uns were getting into Ben Elton and his spangly suits ("Mrs Thatch; the Ironing Lady"). Technology raged with the advent of Mr Clive Sinclair and his amazing ZX-Sh1t. Turkey Twizlers didn't exist and Cillit Bang was something we'd simply wonder at. The future held Shiny Metalic suits and food was something the Little Woman wouldn't have to worry about since it would be delivered in pellet-form. She would then have time to do her nails while the good hubby manly struggled his jet-car back to his 2.5 kids.
God. We feel so old now. We're both in our 30's and are old................
J&D
We did arrange a few meets on here but not for a while now. There seems to be too many boy-racers or police around the popular places these days. but we're not going to give up!
We'd love to meet some others from here for some fun times and we definately know some good places in Shrops where ew won't get disturbed. Unfortunately we both work at odd times during the week (and some weekends) so we can only arrange some meets during the weekend.
What do other couples in Shrops/Staffs think?
D (J is asleep, lol)
We'd love to meet some others from here for some fun times and we definately know some good places in Shrops where ew won't get disturbed. Unfortunately we both work at odd times during the week (and some weekends) so we can only arrange some meets during the weekend.
What do other couples in Shrops/Staffs think?
D (J is asleep, lol)
Yep, we decided to take a trip out to one of our favourite places in Shrops last night and we had a great time. Not many people there but there was another couple in the car park with us as well as two single guys who were polite enough to say thanks after watching us.
If it was you then thanks back
J&D
If it was you then thanks back
J&D
Yep. All the websites are just about making dosh and we've only ever found one that was actually worth it and when D sent them a mail they admitted to us that they just charge a nominal fee to keep the IASMAIWAS's away (so we stick with them), which frankly is a good idea...I'm sure Swinging Heaven has thought of it before (Mal, Mark, Blue....comments?).
Anyway.....back to lurking for a while until D gets home from the hospital
J&D
Anyway.....back to lurking for a while until D gets home from the hospital
J&D
Now that the weather's looking better we're going to be out and about on Wednesday and if there's anyone out there who'd like to watch then you're more than welcome.
We're really after another couple who're after the same as us, but don't mind the occasional single guy. Then again, that doesn't mean lots of blokes crowding around the car!
Let us know.
J&D
We're really after another couple who're after the same as us, but don't mind the occasional single guy. Then again, that doesn't mean lots of blokes crowding around the car!
Let us know.
J&D
Quote by jack_daniels72
depends who is offering! ;)
I don't shag just anyone, I'm very fussy ! :P
Why not ?? I thought this site was all about easy sex, was picking up a few tips from mattoon....
A woman with standards
Thats my chances up in smokeNow wheres that Brad Pitt pic for my profile
Damn.....that's what we thought too. Thought we were on a winner there ;) Oh well.
It was a brief foray into unknown territory...........<slinks back off to the Dogging forum.>
J&D
Once we found out that the internet had groups like this, have to admit that we did mention some of our favorite places in Shropshire to others, but very quickly found that we were let down. Don't really know why, since we were quite genuine about everything - even gave out mobile numbers and everything..........OK, so maybe we can have a pretty good guess And since then we haven't told anyone else of any place at all.
We only arranged a meet twice with people and once they didn't turn up and afterwards we just got PM's from just the guy (wonder what that was all about, lol) and the other time we met a smashing couple who we still keep in touch with.
So, all in all, we've not had too much success but having said that, we haven't been on the site very long and when the summer comes who knows what'll happen.
J & D
And since then we haven't told anyone else of any place at all.We only arranged a meet twice with people and once they didn't turn up and afterwards we just got PM's from just the guy (wonder what that was all about, lol) and the other time we met a smashing couple who we still keep in touch with.
So, all in all, we've not had too much success but having said that, we haven't been on the site very long and when the summer comes who knows what'll happen.
J & D
Well, Dirty. We think you might have found the holy grail of attractants there.........green wellies! We recommend all newbie doggers buy a pair so everyone can all spot each other and acknowledge our secret with a 'special handshake', or are we getting things mixed up here? Maybe we're thinking of a red carnation and a copy of the times under the arm.......oh dear, I think I'm getting funny stares from D as I type this. Anyway...................!
The 'adopt a newbie' scheme would be quite good if the government would subscribe to the idea and provide some sort of funding like a 2005 YTS
Anyway, we have tended to avoid the "I'm in XXXX and am looking for a shag" sort of posts. Mainly because they always seem to be a total waste of time. We've only ever accepted invites from other couples if they've had some sort of history on a site (not only this one) and the single males that we're played with are just guys that have been around at the time, but we're getting a bit bored of single blokes in car parks now because of the proliferation of them. Hopefully, as Jomo said it'll be a cycle of things and the boy-racers/idiots/chancers (not tarring all with the same brush here, by the way) will just get bored and leave. However having just typed that and having D read what I'm typing I've just realised that what I've said may just encourage the boyracers, etc to continue their behaviour..........we'll see - they won't get far with us anyway.
And as for newbies being reticent about posting immediately on the forum, we think that's no bad thing. Why not take a look around and see if it's for you before jumping in with a potentially embarressing post that will only drop you in it in the future? How many people have signed up to FriendsReunited only to suddenly realise that they don't really want to meet all those people that they knew at school/college, etc? But, that shouldn't stop people from posting what they think is an honest post and as long as it's a fairly considered request I think that all other serious posters will take them as face-value.
Right. We'll shut up now and let other people have a say.
Would new members to the forum like to say what they think of this posts' comments? Maybe how they feel about posting just after joining and for those that have posted and felt ignored/isolated/whatever, maybe you'd like to find out why? (Hopefully this won't start a huge bun-fight!)
J&D
(D is awake at the moment so her comment is <"bloody internet always get's us into trouble">
The 'adopt a newbie' scheme would be quite good if the government would subscribe to the idea and provide some sort of funding like a 2005 YTS
Anyway, we have tended to avoid the "I'm in XXXX and am looking for a shag" sort of posts. Mainly because they always seem to be a total waste of time. We've only ever accepted invites from other couples if they've had some sort of history on a site (not only this one) and the single males that we're played with are just guys that have been around at the time, but we're getting a bit bored of single blokes in car parks now because of the proliferation of them. Hopefully, as Jomo said it'll be a cycle of things and the boy-racers/idiots/chancers (not tarring all with the same brush here, by the way) will just get bored and leave. However having just typed that and having D read what I'm typing I've just realised that what I've said may just encourage the boyracers, etc to continue their behaviour..........we'll see - they won't get far with us anyway.
And as for newbies being reticent about posting immediately on the forum, we think that's no bad thing. Why not take a look around and see if it's for you before jumping in with a potentially embarressing post that will only drop you in it in the future? How many people have signed up to FriendsReunited only to suddenly realise that they don't really want to meet all those people that they knew at school/college, etc? But, that shouldn't stop people from posting what they think is an honest post and as long as it's a fairly considered request I think that all other serious posters will take them as face-value.
Right. We'll shut up now and let other people have a say.
Would new members to the forum like to say what they think of this posts' comments? Maybe how they feel about posting just after joining and for those that have posted and felt ignored/isolated/whatever, maybe you'd like to find out why? (Hopefully this won't start a huge bun-fight!)
J&D
(D is awake at the moment so her comment is <"bloody internet always get's us into trouble">
Well, Mr & Mrs D.....your replies have been more than welcome and have provided some funny moments and a worthwhile humourous respite from most of the crud that seems to appear on the various websites that we occasionally frequent, which these days are mostly online banking, news sites and the total lunacy that is .
While not being 'twitchers' ourselves, we do appreciate the times when our garden is graced with a visit by the local avian population at which times we both say things like, "Ohh, look at the pretty little animal with wings. I recognise that - it's one of those bird things." (We're not experts, you see.)
But we have also been stared at and ogled by various young men in various crap cars, even when we have just been sitting in the motor chatting after going for an invigorating country walk. The last time that springs to mind when we were spied was when we were togged up to the nines in our Berghaus attire and had just gotten back to the car after an hour or so's walk around one of the prettier picnic areas in Shropshire during mid February - far too cold for us to even attempt to do anything - and after sitting while we got warm again it had got slightly dark and we noticed that there was a car with a young chap sitting in it obviously with no intention of moving off. We'd both noticed him and qithout looking directly at him decided that it was probably best if we headed off home. No sooner that we'd got our headlights on than his Vauxhall Phasa had set itself on 'tickle' mode and was revving like a house-fly. He proceeded to follow us out of the car park and down the single-track road. He was obviously employing total stealth by following about six feet behind us in a totally deserted area of Shropshire..............
So, we decided to visit the local Morrisons supermarket (about six miles away) and he still followed! But to his credit he did decide not to park next to us when we filled up with petrol. We also bought a nice bottle of wine while we were there which took us a good 15 minutes. On leaving the supermarket he STILL followed us! So we took the scenic route home which included going round a few roundabouts, some of them going round-and-round and after a particularly slow drive down a 60mph road he decided that it was probably bedtime and left us to go back to our place.
OK, let's summarise. He saw a couple going for a walk and followed them to a supermarket, watched them buy petrol and wine and then drove round a roundabout with them for a while. We had a nice walk, bought some decent plonk and listened to a CD on the way home.
I think we win
J&D
While not being 'twitchers' ourselves, we do appreciate the times when our garden is graced with a visit by the local avian population at which times we both say things like, "Ohh, look at the pretty little animal with wings. I recognise that - it's one of those bird things." (We're not experts, you see.)
But we have also been stared at and ogled by various young men in various crap cars, even when we have just been sitting in the motor chatting after going for an invigorating country walk. The last time that springs to mind when we were spied was when we were togged up to the nines in our Berghaus attire and had just gotten back to the car after an hour or so's walk around one of the prettier picnic areas in Shropshire during mid February - far too cold for us to even attempt to do anything - and after sitting while we got warm again it had got slightly dark and we noticed that there was a car with a young chap sitting in it obviously with no intention of moving off. We'd both noticed him and qithout looking directly at him decided that it was probably best if we headed off home. No sooner that we'd got our headlights on than his Vauxhall Phasa had set itself on 'tickle' mode and was revving like a house-fly. He proceeded to follow us out of the car park and down the single-track road. He was obviously employing total stealth by following about six feet behind us in a totally deserted area of Shropshire..............
So, we decided to visit the local Morrisons supermarket (about six miles away) and he still followed! But to his credit he did decide not to park next to us when we filled up with petrol. We also bought a nice bottle of wine while we were there which took us a good 15 minutes. On leaving the supermarket he STILL followed us! So we took the scenic route home which included going round a few roundabouts, some of them going round-and-round and after a particularly slow drive down a 60mph road he decided that it was probably bedtime and left us to go back to our place.
OK, let's summarise. He saw a couple going for a walk and followed them to a supermarket, watched them buy petrol and wine and then drove round a roundabout with them for a while. We had a nice walk, bought some decent plonk and listened to a CD on the way home.
I think we win
J&D
Thanks DD. I have to admit that the analogy of comparing dogging with kung fu slightly escapes me. Probably due to the fact that we were both about age six or seven. But the example still stands, I guess.
But apart from the immediate (and humorous) comparisons I have to agree with your your thoughts - dogging has become a fashion and one which attracts people who are just in it for the quick fix and will soon find out that they are sorely disappointed by just turning up at a car park ans expecting things to to happen. More likely they will park up and watch a load of young men appraise the various benefits of chromed alloys.
I have nothing wrong with chromed alloys, or the young men that like to look at them, but why do they have to go to remote carparks to stare at each others vehicular appendages?
We have been out over the past couple of weeks and seen (and appreciated) so many shiny wheels and crap spoilers that it just makes us laugh and we feel slighlty guilty that we are so out of date. However, we just move to a different spot in Shrophire and do our thing without 'the kids' being around us.
Just our thoutghts.....................
J & D
But apart from the immediate (and humorous) comparisons I have to agree with your your thoughts - dogging has become a fashion and one which attracts people who are just in it for the quick fix and will soon find out that they are sorely disappointed by just turning up at a car park ans expecting things to to happen. More likely they will park up and watch a load of young men appraise the various benefits of chromed alloys.
I have nothing wrong with chromed alloys, or the young men that like to look at them, but why do they have to go to remote carparks to stare at each others vehicular appendages?
We have been out over the past couple of weeks and seen (and appreciated) so many shiny wheels and crap spoilers that it just makes us laugh and we feel slighlty guilty that we are so out of date. However, we just move to a different spot in Shrophire and do our thing without 'the kids' being around us.
Just our thoutghts.....................
J & D
After being back from work for a couple of hours and looking at the replies to my post I think I have an obligation to reply..............
I never expected quite a response to my post to be quite so vociferous (in a good way ) I know that when I mention it to D she'll be quite surprised, lol.
To respond to the comments; thank you everyone for the positive comments and I can understand them all but still have a slight problem with the way dogging locations are advertised on the net/newspapers/wherever. It seems that these are not private to couples and singles who are interested in 'public displays' anymore; they are advertised by any type of communication that there may be. This is no bad thing entirely since the type of forum (ie, SwingingHeaven) does it's very best to provide a service just for that, but personally think that it might be a little too open to abuse.
It seems to me that anyone can simply create a false address and then say whatever they like on the forums...........we have all seen the typical "I'm a bloke and I want a blow-job" adverts. Maybe there should be something a little more private? Possibly a seperate part of the forums which are for only those who are recommended by others? I don't know if that would work.........(Mark????? What do you think?)
Whatever happens, we'll still be going out after visiting the local pub on Friday's to have some al-fresco fun, even if there's no-one else around
Just my thoughts.
J
(And D's comments are still <snore>. She's just done a 15 hour shift, lol)
I never expected quite a response to my post to be quite so vociferous (in a good way
) I know that when I mention it to D she'll be quite surprised, lol.To respond to the comments; thank you everyone for the positive comments and I can understand them all but still have a slight problem with the way dogging locations are advertised on the net/newspapers/wherever. It seems that these are not private to couples and singles who are interested in 'public displays' anymore; they are advertised by any type of communication that there may be. This is no bad thing entirely since the type of forum (ie, SwingingHeaven) does it's very best to provide a service just for that, but personally think that it might be a little too open to abuse.
It seems to me that anyone can simply create a false address and then say whatever they like on the forums...........we have all seen the typical "I'm a bloke and I want a blow-job" adverts. Maybe there should be something a little more private? Possibly a seperate part of the forums which are for only those who are recommended by others? I don't know if that would work.........(Mark????? What do you think?)
Whatever happens, we'll still be going out after visiting the local pub on Friday's to have some al-fresco fun, even if there's no-one else around
Just my thoughts.
J
(And D's comments are still <snore>. She's just done a 15 hour shift, lol)
Hi everyone,
Just got back from work and been catching up with the various conversations that have been going on here and think I have to mention that the forum has been seeing quite a few visits from new people. Nothing wrong with that, but I do think that new people to the place should maybe lurk for a little while and try and discover just what the crack is before they start to get into debates with other long-standing members (and, yes. I do know that the last sentence might be full of double entendre's, before you suggest it!).
Our experience is quite lengthy since we have been out and about at car parks for a few years now and never really called ourselves 'doggers' until about a year ago when we actually found out that there was a name for it, but since then we've really seen the dogging side of our relationship tail off. We think it was mainly because of the publicity surrounding the activity, which I think no-one could have stopped because of the pervasiveness of the meeja and t'internet. But, I think there is still a place for it. D and myself have discovered quite a few nice little places that we are proud to call 'our own' in the Shropshire area that don't get swamped by boy-racers or police and (only occsionally) give us some great pleasure...............and even if there's no-one else there, we still have fun
So, in short, if the 'real' people want to have fun, they can do - they just have to find new haunts to go to and not tell many people about them. It's kind of like it was before when the web and the mobile 'phone didn't exist and the best spots were just advertised by word of (secure) mouth.
If the newbies on here are worried that their PM inbox isn't instantly full of couples offering a show after placing an ad on here then don't worry: just start chatting on here and you'll get to know some people and then you'll get to know some places.
Simple really.
Anyone care to comment?
John (& D - she's asleep so her comments will be <snore>
)
Just got back from work and been catching up with the various conversations that have been going on here and think I have to mention that the forum has been seeing quite a few visits from new people. Nothing wrong with that, but I do think that new people to the place should maybe lurk for a little while and try and discover just what the crack is before they start to get into debates with other long-standing members (and, yes. I do know that the last sentence might be full of double entendre's, before you suggest it!).
Our experience is quite lengthy since we have been out and about at car parks for a few years now and never really called ourselves 'doggers' until about a year ago when we actually found out that there was a name for it, but since then we've really seen the dogging side of our relationship tail off. We think it was mainly because of the publicity surrounding the activity, which I think no-one could have stopped because of the pervasiveness of the meeja and t'internet. But, I think there is still a place for it. D and myself have discovered quite a few nice little places that we are proud to call 'our own' in the Shropshire area that don't get swamped by boy-racers or police and (only occsionally) give us some great pleasure...............and even if there's no-one else there, we still have fun
So, in short, if the 'real' people want to have fun, they can do - they just have to find new haunts to go to and not tell many people about them. It's kind of like it was before when the web and the mobile 'phone didn't exist and the best spots were just advertised by word of (secure) mouth.
If the newbies on here are worried that their PM inbox isn't instantly full of couples offering a show after placing an ad on here then don't worry: just start chatting on here and you'll get to know some people and then you'll get to know some places.
Simple really.
Anyone care to comment?
John (& D - she's asleep so her comments will be <snore>
) 
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