is it just the cold weather,winter blues ... not sure really this time last year every where was buzzing with people....
is it really quiet every where????
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Sun_Sand_Sex
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
Straight Female, 55
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Hi Jo
Sounds like you had a great time, with a really great bunch of people......what else can i say but keep it up lol......
Hey you never now come summer time we could have a run over and see you all, you seem to be a really nice group of people....
Been reading your posts for a while now...nice reading
Sounds like you had a great time, with a really great bunch of people......what else can i say but keep it up lol......
Hey you never now come summer time we could have a run over and see you all, you seem to be a really nice group of people....
Been reading your posts for a while now...nice reading
well you soon realise that every body its a it, even your neighbours, friends you have known for years...but when they walk up to you in the car park and say" what are you doing here" we reply "the same thing as you"
the see there faces go
he he funny really, does not bother us but it does them ..
i think the more you do this type of thing, the more likely you are to meet people you know...best just have fun and enjoy life..why worry......
just don`t do it with your neigbours..........
the see there faces go
he he funny really, does not bother us but it does them ..i think the more you do this type of thing, the more likely you are to meet people you know...best just have fun and enjoy life..why worry......
just don`t do it with your neigbours..........
Jomu
You might be right, people do just stand around all night and then go home, but there is a reason for this as a couple we know,
Couples when new can be but of by a large group of guys hanging about, they say they only want perhaps one or two guys to watch but, it seems as the term dogging is used you all seem to hunt in a pack so you all gather round, which in turn leaves the couple uncomfortable and then drive off....so then leaves people stood round talking all night as the only couple that was there has gone..
We have been sat in our car watching what happens, as you have to in this game.....
to make sure that this guy that wants to have sex with me has not just been r****ing some bloke 20mins before hand..
i am sure you can understand this is the same for a single guy, you watch the couples to see that they also do not to wierd things....eg not having safe sex..and such like
it is very hard to understand how things work unless you spend some time watching you will never understand it other wise....
as well as the police patroling like you say there is one other thing out there every one should be very carefull of AIDS.....
keep up the good work my friend with the links to all the sites which give the info as to whats out there...waitting to bite...
You might be right, people do just stand around all night and then go home, but there is a reason for this as a couple we know,
Couples when new can be but of by a large group of guys hanging about, they say they only want perhaps one or two guys to watch but, it seems as the term dogging is used you all seem to hunt in a pack so you all gather round, which in turn leaves the couple uncomfortable and then drive off....so then leaves people stood round talking all night as the only couple that was there has gone..
We have been sat in our car watching what happens, as you have to in this game.....
to make sure that this guy that wants to have sex with me has not just been r****ing some bloke 20mins before hand..
i am sure you can understand this is the same for a single guy, you watch the couples to see that they also do not to wierd things....eg not having safe sex..and such like
it is very hard to understand how things work unless you spend some time watching you will never understand it other wise....
as well as the police patroling like you say there is one other thing out there every one should be very carefull of AIDS.....
keep up the good work my friend with the links to all the sites which give the info as to whats out there...waitting to bite...
Quote by donnytv
You must be one stupid couple then, cos fun between friends is not dogging, thats classed as swinging!!!!
Just admit you're not dogging and have done with it,
From now on i'll refer to you as swingers or vanners.
i will allow you to refer to us as swingers.....voyeurs....ok
Giving new meaning to the term "flash mob," the British have invented a new sex craze called "dogging" that mixes sex, exhibitionism, mobs and the Internet.
Dogging combines technology with swinging, cruising and voyeurism. (this quote is from reseach done by the bbc and others)
why are you making your life so hard.....it does not matter what you drive or what you wear or how you speak,colour, race or creed or sexulaitiy there is no law banning any one from doing what they want in the uk........
as you know we have always spoken to you and even helped you when you have asked us for advice.........i thought you where a friend just like every body else i have had the pleasure in meeting and chatting to in around the uk....
i like to call every body i know a friend and hope you can to.....
what does it cost to be plesant and considerate to all out there and know when to walk away......we all need to repect each other and treat people how we would like to be treated our selves........
Quote by donnytv
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D M wrote
hey i have no club as you say..
This one from another thread.....
paulyblade wrote:
sign me up straight away but you'll have to be gentle at first too much work and not enough play might make me peak to early and we cant have that now can we
D M wrote
you are now officailly signed up to the club......
I think i'd be carefull what you say, you have incriminated yourself!
please read the rest of the posting and you will see what it is refering to ...
you are one stupid little man...............
what you are refering to is fun between friends.......
Quote by donnytv
I think the conclusion I have reached in all this and many others that have posted here and the many many PM's I have had supporting what I said is that 'vanners' are not 'doggers' or 'dogging'. I think they should kindly start advertising in the lets meet up section and leave us doggers to do what we know and enjoy, which is the true art of dogging as described on this site!
as you now we have only had the van four weeks to the day....and we do not always go out in our van....we do mainly use our car ...unless we have a private meet with a couple........
i think the green eyed monster is rearing its ugly head alittle........
ps please remeber with out the swingers the doggers would have very little to watch at times.......
well donnytv merry christmas to you
and every one else on swing heaven
it`s not a threat just letting him know we will be having a word with him....he is saying we have pissed people of in donny so we will have to go and see...what ,where, why and who............................ surely you would want to know if you are supposed to have upset somebody???
all i need to do is have drive around the area......im sure to find him
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all i need to do is have drive around the area......im sure to find him
:roll: well snertsmate
i am not aware of ******* any body all....as i have not been in the donny area for quite a while i find it hard to understand...perhaps you could let me know by pm what it is i am supposed to have done........???
mmmm tea club antics in vans not sure thats me, i go out for the adult fun side of life....
the tea van might come in handy though on these cold dark nights , i would be warm and well tea`d up lol
hey i have no club as you say..people come and go as they please...i own noboby nor would i wish to...
oh dear me wait while posh heres about this you slating him for playing his dvd player and watching his porn mmmmmm
AND M HAS NOT STATED ANY THING ABOUT WANTING A VAN SWINGING CLUB IN A PRIVATE FEILD....sounds like chinses wispers have all gone wrong........
and d will be having a word with you face to face about this......
c u soon....pm me if you have something to say...
i am not aware of ******* any body all....as i have not been in the donny area for quite a while i find it hard to understand...perhaps you could let me know by pm what it is i am supposed to have done........???
mmmm tea club antics in vans not sure thats me, i go out for the adult fun side of life....
the tea van might come in handy though on these cold dark nights , i would be warm and well tea`d up lol
hey i have no club as you say..people come and go as they please...i own noboby nor would i wish to...
oh dear me wait while posh heres about this you slating him for playing his dvd player and watching his porn mmmmmm
AND M HAS NOT STATED ANY THING ABOUT WANTING A VAN SWINGING CLUB IN A PRIVATE FEILD....sounds like chinses wispers have all gone wrong........
and d will be having a word with you face to face about this......
c u soon....pm me if you have something to say...
hey
i have never complained about you, in fact as you know you, you have on many ocassions asked us for advice about certain people......and places via pm`s
we have been at this dogging game along time...
you know how it is at the moment in donny for dogging its dead with the help of the boys in blue......
oh but we are ture doggers....we know what its all about...but there are added bounus for having a van.....work it out....
so you think because i have only been a member on here scince september i am a newbie...to sh yes...... to the dogging seen not at all.....
so i suggest you go and do your thing and don`t complain when we do ours.....
i have never complained about you, in fact as you know you, you have on many ocassions asked us for advice about certain people......and places via pm`s
we have been at this dogging game along time...
you know how it is at the moment in donny for dogging its dead with the help of the boys in blue......
oh but we are ture doggers....we know what its all about...but there are added bounus for having a van.....work it out....
so you think because i have only been a member on here scince september i am a newbie...to sh yes...... to the dogging seen not at all.....
so i suggest you go and do your thing and don`t complain when we do ours.....
Quote by KISSING K
know what you mean micheal we travel down to notts or to donny for our fun, but you never know prob bump into you one day.
if we ever find ourselves in herts/london will give you and seredipity a shout , just to make sure you doing your job properly of course
yes kissing k why don`t well have a run down there in our white vans to see if they are doing there jobs propely..................if not we can show them how its done xxx
we can have a doggers convoy...with my offical sticker in my window i can travel in style........offical durex testing veichle.... :wink:
:wink: D&M
hi
can i just say i have noticed that all the single guys out there are getting better....
with there manners and there approch to veichles.....they are much more pleasant and sociable and there is a 90% increase in common sence from the guys....
see ladies you can teach an old dog new tricks :lol:
K i think between us both we have done a good job xxxx
M xx
can i just say i have noticed that all the single guys out there are getting better....
with there manners and there approch to veichles.....they are much more pleasant and sociable and there is a 90% increase in common sence from the guys....
see ladies you can teach an old dog new tricks
:lol: K i think between us both we have done a good job xxxx
M xx
hi there
why should you go dogging in the day time, its not a good idea really you know, granny and grandad can be out with grand kids not clever.....
well here we go again having a go at the van owners........why do you think they have vans they are campervans, could it be its better for playing around in.....yes and its most of the couples with them.... i should now i own one of the said vans in question.....
yes we do talk and drink tea but, as you seem to miss all the action perhaps if you came over and started chatting to us all you may well see something happen
we are all there for the same thing but some people like to do it in comfort ..... :wink: would you not like to be comfortable while enjoying yourself....??
hey .......each to there own...
blid has not lost it`s magic, its just winter time and some people just do not want to dog when its cold....i can not blame them......but i we will still be there for a while yet.....
so next time you see a group of vans together be brave and come and say hello, we do not bite....het you might even get a cuppa :lol:
cheers
D&M
why should you go dogging in the day time, its not a good idea really you know, granny and grandad can be out with grand kids not clever.....
well here we go again having a go at the van owners........why do you think they have vans
they are campervans, could it be its better for playing around in.....yes and its most of the couples with them.... i should now i own one of the said vans in question.....yes we do talk and drink tea but, as you seem to miss all the action perhaps if you came over and started chatting to us all you may well see something happen
we are all there for the same thing but some people like to do it in comfort ..... :wink: would you not like to be comfortable while enjoying yourself....??
hey .......each to there own...
blid has not lost it`s magic, its just winter time and some people just do not want to dog when its cold....i can not blame them......but i we will still be there for a while yet.....
so next time you see a group of vans together be brave and come and say hello, we do not bite....het you might even get a cuppa
:lol: cheers
D&M
Having sex in a car or having sex in a public place is not in itself illegal. To allow a willing person to watch that act can not be illegal. What is illegal is if that act be seen by a third party who is able to report the matter as something that has caused them offence or intimidation. To expose yourself to a willing person is not illegal, but it seen by a third party it could be construed as indecent exposure.
There are laws that protect members of the public from being unwilling witnesses to sexual behaviour or from being harassed or intimidated in their use of public spaces or facilities. So sex in public toilets, parks or places where other passers-by may be offended is illegal.
If you are in a private place or in a location where you wouldn't expect to be spied upon, then you're probably okay. Prosecution relies on a third party onlooker getting upset and reporting you. So, if you want sex under the stars, make sure you pick a secluded spot.
There are laws that protect members of the public from being unwilling witnesses to sexual behaviour or from being harassed or intimidated in their use of public spaces or facilities. So sex in public toilets, parks or places where other passers-by may be offended is illegal.
If you are in a private place or in a location where you wouldn't expect to be spied upon, then you're probably okay. Prosecution relies on a third party onlooker getting upset and reporting you. So, if you want sex under the stars, make sure you pick a secluded spot.
