What I have noticed for a while now is a lot of people seem to be getting stuck in chat rooms.
Well at least I think they are.
I have spoken to people that I know with no reponse then locked at their profile and it says they are offline.
Or can people show themselves as offline?
I have looked to see if you can and I can't see that you could do that.
Are others finding this?
Should we just ask for them to be booted?
This wasn’t the people of Frances opinion but of one person’s perspective but that is what happens normally in life a lot of people would generalise and categorise, then attack.
We avoid looking within ourselves as we might feel a little uncomfortable.
Just blame others instead not just in this country but many others too.
I believe what we should do is listen to others take any valid points on board, then think before we react to whom it might affect.
With every action in life, where a third party has involvement (this is in most things we do, think or say) if we just consider for a moment the implications on others we would normal find there will be something or someone that will be affected.
What I find a lot is people would not look at the bigger picture.
Take the worlds situations at present (as an example there are many) we can’t be greedy and expect no negative consequences; I am not clever but could see it happening years ago.
Like most of what we do in life there is an effect happening somewhere.
Hopefully good might come out of it, I live in hope
If only selfishness was eradicated the world could be a far better place I believe.
I don’t like to see any terms used within adverts, in the chat rooms forums or some usernames with slut, whore, slag, within them, as I feel shows total lack of respect. But I let others get on with their lives as each to their own.
What I find here to use such terms is that it is open for all to see, what goes on in private can be very arousing in the moment, but that has to be after respect and trust is established and all are aware how far to go with it, so all feel comfortable.
I do believe most men would like to think their woman at times can act like one, but for them to broadcast it to all to me would be a total turn off.
I am blessed to have an almost 18 year old son that is a pleasure to be around has charm wit and a lovely considerate nature.
But as there always seem to be a but, he has not found yet apart from a sport that one thing that ignites his fuse until recently a subject that has just woken him up, I feel he has just wasted the last two years at college and we are back to square one.
Where do we go from here?
We are happy to support him in this but I feel can he really start from the beginning again?
Being our first, I feel a little lost where to turn to find out his options.
I don’t know if getting the qualifications he is studying for would help him to move on to higher education to be able to study the subject that has igniting him, because he is very much at the beginning and just starting with it.
O it’s hard being a parent and I feel sorry for first borns as they are out guinea pigs to a degree, we just want to give him the best we can.
Can anyone offer some ideas please?
I never went through this system I left school at 16 it is all so confusing.
That would be quid geezer 
