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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom

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Quote by flower411
I think it would be nice if one member one vote system was put in place if this were the case.
I dont agree with it, but if the high majority of people wanted it, then I guess SH would have no option than to apply it.

Isn`t that how all the mutual building societies became banks ??
Bloody democracy !! rolleyes
What do you suggest if there is a chance of it coming anyway?
Quote by soul_girl
I got £750 in premium bonds and won £250 last year. biggrin

You would never have got that rate of intrest in a bank.
Quote by kentswingers777
My suggestion would be to pick your playing partners better.
Choosing an advert and arranging a meet without a cam confirmation, phone confirmation or a social meet first would probably end in a no show.
Accept that it is you that is letting yourself down and stop blaming the site as it doesn't have a verification system.
KENTY, you are right. This country does blame everything else bar themselves. Oh hang on.......you are in favour of the verification system bolt
Dave_Notts

I usually am Davey. wink
lol You do make me laugh........as in with you and not at you
Dave_Notts
Am sure some do Davey.
:shock:
I do! lol
bolt
How do you know who is a paid memember and who isn't?
Doesn't show on my profile that information.
Quote by TanKinky
I remember climbing trees and being a proper kid that lived outdoors covered in clarts most of the time lol lol

I have never heard this word before, what does it mean?
I googled it and only come up with Stlcky mud full of horse shit,
or genital warts :shock: lol
Quote by medic_1
If verification comes in then I guess that will be another nail in the coffin for us on SH, It just seems that the site is getting more and more complicated and less and less easy to use. The basis that this site is about swingers and the people interested in swingers is becoming secondary to it being another piece of internet faff.
Look at the groups thing ffs 300 odd groups and most of them total bollox. Each one with its own sort of forum effect in it - taking away people from the general forums we already have yet fragmenting the site into itsy bitsy pieces, dross in some cases.
Can you imagine how many are going to dredge up the facy in chatrooms etc if a couple or single are not verified and shout the odds.
I feel after reading this thread that we have been subtly informed that verification is on its way.
Makes a mockery of the endless times representatives of the site have said "this site will never have a verification system" It just makes them all a bunch of liars doesn't it?
This site is losing its ease of use uniqueness and becoming one and the same as a myriad of similar swinging sites some totally free. Do SH feel as if they need to justify their wages/money by tweaking this and that? Nah I don't think so. A cool site it is still but the words skin and teeth come to mind.
Oh yah boo bollox :-(

Lost
I to am also of that oppinion after reading some of the comments.
I get the impression that this subject has been discussed behind closed doors and it will come sooner than later.
medic_1
I think it would be nice if one member one vote system was put in place if this were the case.
I dont agree with it, but if the high majority of people wanted it, then I guess SH would have no option than to apply it.
Quote by blonde
I have always enjoyed a good party with great music, I am a 70's jazz fuck girl at heart but would dance to any old music really even if crap. lol
lol

Steve says you mean Jazz FUNK!!! :giggle:
Bless ya kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Tell steve thanks!! I would never have guessed rotflmao
Minx is now going to hide for a few weeks lol
I blame flower! lol
All I can say is redface redface redface rotflmao rotflmao
Quote by flower411
I am a 70's jazz fuck girl at heart :

Sounds interesting lol
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I drag the lame ducks up to dance lol

There ya go minx !!! One reason why we`ll never meet lol
redface redface O bugger I have done it again, I thought you had changed it lol
I probably wouldn`t have bothered if I hadn`t known you`d think that !!!! rotflmao
I can imagine your face when you realised you`d written it !!! :giggle:
All I can say your image would have been correct!! lol
I can't believe it was you that noticed smackbottom
Put it down to a minxism redface
I was going to edit it but I think it is me o well lol
I feel a opted in or out system is a bit pointless really as some will see the opting out as being timewasters.
I joined this site am we can remain decrete, that is the way I like to be.
I know some people don't mind others knowing that they meet and would even make things obvious but I for one like to remain private in what goes on in my private life.
I base my judgement on gut reaction and as flower so rightly put if it let me down I have myself to blame.
Also bear in mind, a meet might be good for one but not for another.
We might not all like the same things so having a genuine meet button doesn't mean that person is right for you.
Quote by flower411
I am a 70's jazz fuck girl at heart :

Sounds interesting lol
Quote by Theladyisaminx
I drag the lame ducks up to dance lol

There ya go minx !!! One reason why we`ll never meet lol
redface redface O bugger I have done it again, I thought you had changed it lol
Quote by flower411
I remember all of the above redface
But does anybody else remember Johnny Jarvis ??
Or
The flipside of Dominick Hide ?
Or even Muran Buchanstangur ?
I always seem to be the only one !! sad

Why does that not suprise me rotflmao
Quote by flower411
Every time this subject comes up one of the reasons given for having a verification system is that "it works on the other sites I use" .....
So use those sites, what`s so difficult ??
I honestly don`t understand dunno
And anyway ...we do now have an optional verification system, only it`s called "quickies" rolleyes

Do you fancy a quickie? :rascal:
Supersonic (I was their for the live filming once, what a palaver all the touching up
that was done)
Swap shop (was always fascinated what people swapped)
Take art (Always wanted to send in a picture I drew bur was to shy to)
Jack n ory ( used to like to be read to, saved doing it myself)
I do agree with the op as I feel to write one normally has some inspiration story to tell. I don't know about Leonas as I have read it, but if it can inspire some youngters to follow a dream, as they are the ones likely to read it, surely that should count for something perhaps.
But I agree if I was to read one it would be of someone I am intrested to read about and someone with more wisdom to offer.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
It has been on here several times before, but remains none the less, truly inspiring! lol lol lol

Whoops sorry! lol
Damn it is hard to find anything that hasen't wink
Would it be like a feedback system where by you can have 100% positive feedback?
I wouldn’t like the idea I think it is open to abuse.
After watching this film I felt nothing in life could not be accomplished, it is the will to do it that counts.

I think is a great sorry and I hope you enjoy seeing it as I did.
Innocent programmes like...Watch with Mother, Bill and Ben. lol
Lost in space, can anyone remember the black and white version?
Not here I am toooo young :P
Quote by varca
Sometimes I drink red wine and red bull mixed! It's one of those, you either love it or you hate it things I know, I am a rolleyes :lol2:

there was something about years ago called snakebite I never tried on of those, but some kind of mixure.
Cider and beer I think.
A quick get pissed qickly drink I think lol
Quote by flower411
I once tried this topic.... but before anybody got the chance to reply... it was very rudely LOCKED with a comment of.... 'Nobody is THAT bored'!!!
Some of you may actually remember it? So, i wonder, how did you manage t get this 1 past the jingle jangle of Sgt Bilko's jail keys???!!!
Lil

errrrrm I think he was at a 70's disco last night the music was so great it kept him busy dancing for a while. lol
Disco yeah right - Since when has the Sixties been the Seventies eh? Oh yeah I remember you did play an Abbatrack wink
Disco ???
Was that in the "disoc" room ? lol
Flower :shock: shhhhh I had to leave it like that so you knew where to find me lol
Quote by Lost
I once tried this topic.... but before anybody got the chance to reply... it was very rudely LOCKED with a comment of.... 'Nobody is THAT bored'!!!
Some of you may actually remember it? So, i wonder, how did you manage t get this 1 past the jingle jangle of Sgt Bilko's jail keys???!!!
Lil

errrrrm I think he was at a 70's disco last night the music was so great it kept him busy dancing for a while. lol
Disco yeah right - Since when has the Sixties been the Seventies eh? Oh yeah I remember you did play an Abbatrack wink
I am going to get the music sorted and do a proper 70's night, but I thought the disco lights were great lol
Lost I am with you on the ameretto yuck yuck!
Mine is pernod, I like aniseed but to want to drink it? eeeekkk
Sorry I know I have done a couple of threads this morning but another has just come to me. lol
What can you remember I thought it could be TV programmes, films, groups, moments in time.
I would like it kept light things that would remind others of something to jog their memories and make them smile, or cry and say oooooo noooo not that lol
Ok here goes
Little house on the prairie ( I used to rush home from school to watch this)
The Waltons ( If my Dad came home while watching this he used to say take a leaf out of their book on how to behave)
Porridge ( I used to really fancy Richard Beckinsale)
Captain Scarlet (had to sit through this as my brothers favourite)
Planets of the Apes ( I used to watch at a friends and then run past the bushes home)
Dr Who (Then wake up with nightmares)
Partridge family ( ooooo David Cassidy I still have all his annuals and records)
I would like to say England winning the world cup, or when man first walked on the moon (I was a little to young for these)
So what are you memories to share?
Quote by varca
I'll have you know Roy Wood was a glam rock God in the 70s flipa


I am going to have to give you this one aren't I, they are errrm a tad similar :grin:
Pmsl they look so much like my Dad in the 70's lol
I look back at pictures of him and think what a mess, but guess he must of been fashionable lol
Quote by Wunderhorse

Samantha Fox... :twisted: biggrin
Lovely.
My first crush ever, as a young lad.
The good 'ol days.
Would keep photos of her under me Bed or in a special place that was secret.

one of my hubbies pin ups too!
Plus the blonde one from abba and blondie, he said it was the lips, can't think why dunno lol
Quote by Dirtygirlie
I don't dance. Ever.
I'm not all that impressed at being referred to as a lame duck though! confused

Sorry I don't know where the term come from it just popped up. lol I didnt mean it with bad intent kiss
I'm sure you didn't mean it with bad intent. wink
It's just a little bit of a poke in the eye to be seen as a lame duck just because I don't dance. My dad is exactly the same. I can't think of anything worse. I watch people dancing and I don't feel any urge to do it.
Just because I don't dance doesn't make me bad company which is kinda what a "lame duck" implies. I can have fun without dancing, just like I can have fun without drinking. Doesn't make me lame, just different. :mrgreen:
No harm done though. I like ducks. wink
Some I know are people watchers and like to see other having a good time, my daughter is one of those, she will be able to tell me after a function everything that was happening around me, what earrings some were wearing and someone had lovely shoes, she loves observing and studing people. Me I am just oblivous to all around me, it takes alsorts to make the world go around, and anyway if you were all dancers I wouldnt have enough room too! lol
Quote by varca
Dare not take my shoes off though as there is then not a hope in hell of getting them back on :lol2:

There's been more than one occasion when Sara will take a pair of trainers out with her when we go into town....
I wish I was that organised biggrin
I have walked home many of night without shoes!
oooo those were the days lol