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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom

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Until starting this journey of playing with strangers we had never used a condom while having sex as I have been with my husband since I was 15.
When we play we always play protected, I have been asked does it feel different for a woman I can honestly say it doesn’t feel any different for me.
Maybe it feels different for a man! dunno
So I would just like to and the men and woman out there.
Do you Think it feels different?
Or is it a just men, that feel it is?
Do other woman, find a difference?
Until starting this journey of playing with strangers we had never used a condom while having sex as I have been with my husband since I was 15.
When we play we always play protected, I have been asked does it feel different for a woman I can honestly say it doesn’t feel any different for me.
Maybe it feels different for a man!
So I would just like to and the men and woman out there.
Do you Thing it feels different?
Or is it a just men, that feel it is?
Do other woman, find a difference?
Does protected and unprotected sex feel different?
Until starting this journey of playing with strangers we have never used a condom while having sex as I have been with my husband since I was 15.
When we play we always play protected, I have been asked does it feel different for a woman I can honestly say it doesn’t feel any different for me.
Maybe it feels different for a man! dunno
So I would just like to ask the men and woman out there.
Do you find it feels different?
Or is it a just men, that feels it is?
If you are a man and it feels different how does it from unprotected sex?
Do other woman, find a difference?
Quote by Sxygent
we live in one of the richest countries of the world!
We have the NHS and many social benefits to hand.
Whether we are upper class or working class shouldn't really matter. Take a look at the rest of the world and the poverty that people live in. They have no class and no interest in it either!
They're only interest is survival and millions don't acheive this.
How lucky we are to be able to discuss class!!!!
Our ignorance to these facts gives us no class at all, every man should help his fellow man, there's enough of everything on this planet to feed and provide good health for all!!

Great thought provoking post and so true!
I feel I know where you are coming from here and I agree with all that you have said.
I would only disagree with the part I have highlighted as of course there is class I know the people that live in poverty are out for survival but there are many rich living in such country’s you only have to look at the corrupt governments to see that.
I have been a member now for about 18months and started using the chat rooms a year ago now. At that time I found myself gradually using the rooms more and more as the banter and fun was a good laugh. We have had some great evenings in the chat rooms and a real good laugh. I believe I became hooked and was going on most days and nights when I was at home and kids were not about.
Back in about March I was introduced to the forums it took me a while to get settled in here, as a lot of people seemed a little nervous about me for a while, a stranger asking questions, I was even asked on a few occasions if I was a reporter! rolleyes lol
But once I kind of felt accepted I steamed ahead and found again I was hooked.
Now I am happy to use both the chat rooms and the forums when I feel like it I have cured I believe my addition. I don’t feel the need to have to do either but just now enjoy popping in.
So yes I think I have had an addiction which is strange as I don’t generally have that type nature.
Do you think you have ever been hooked on SH?
Does it just draw you in?
Willow I didnt know you were that old! innocent
But it sounds better than having a sing a long around the piano or a game of bingo! lol
Sara,
So sorry to hear about your friend, whatever she decides all you can do it offer support.
I have been somewhere similar to where your friend is I was told my baby had down syndrome It isn’t a pleasant time to have to decide but sadly my decision was taken away from me by natural causes.
I am thinking about her it isn't an easy path ahead,
Just be there to support her that is all you can do as a friend.
Quote by Lost
F*cking mobility scooters on the road - thinking about it on the path too confused In fact if they made a decision on which part of the highway they owned then i'd not whinge, I'd be satisfied.

Lost take a look at this link it explains it all for you it all depends on their speeds. wink

My dads has one so we had to make sure he was using it correctly.
Quote by Lost
I do things to please others all the time. I would guess others do too. Isn't that whats called give and take?

I know what you are saying, I agree to a point.
We all do things for people close to us that we sometimes feel a bit of I bind, but do it anyway.
But my question was more about in the swinging playing sense. I do believe in give and take but I don't think when meeting anyone anything should be expected. Just because you said you might consider it doesn’t mean they should expect it.
Quote by flower411
As you know Minx, mrs f does like anal sex, so although it`s not something I`m keen on, I do indulge on occasion because she loves it so much !! rolleyes
To be honest it`s easier to get someone in to do it lol

I think you are to scared to say you do too! lol
Quote by CBnRed
But you are still here!
Or are you?

Here again, briefly..... feeling like a jack-in-the-box!
Up and down with a spring shoved somewhere? lol
Quote by CBnRed
I wasn't here but I am now, though I'll soon be off again.... work awaits!
Was that confusing enough? wink

But you are still here!
Or are you?
Quote by tempteduk

I guess if I met someone with expierance and knows what they are doing I would try anything once.

Quote by Theladyisaminx
I have found not every guy is able to achieve that level of excitement and relax me enough to obtain them both either.
So I feel privileged and grateful to the guys that have achieved this for me.

Problem solved? ;)
:shock: oooerrrrrrrrr Is that an offer? :rascal: lol
Quote by Sassy-Seren
No way am I the biggest flirter!
I'm a proud flirt but not the biggest :smug:

You are a good one to! wink
could you give me some lessons please? lol
In private? :rascal:
See you are at it again! :P
Keep up the good work! wink
I was talking to a guy a while back that asked if I had tried something I haven’t tried before, I said I haven’t thought about it, but maybe in the right conditions I might try.
I think he took that that I would so I had to tell him I was not interested as I would never do anything or be pushed to do anything I wasn’t totally comfortable with.
He hasn’t spoken to me since so was glad I wasn’t pushed into something I might have later regretted.
This could also relate to everyday life.
Have you had this happen to you?
How would you deal with this?
Quote by Sassy-Seren
No way am I the biggest flirter!
I'm a proud flirt but not the biggest :smug:

You are a good one to! wink
could you give me some lessons please? lol
I have read a lot about a type of diet that makes sence to me.
Have a read of this article and see if it does to you!
I know of a case where SS stepped in to take a father to court for smacking his 15 year old son, after said son was smacked for lying to his father and stole from his mother for cigarettes after all other disciplines failed the father smacked him, SS brought this case to court I was there on jury services, case was thrown out of court. But this would have cost SS a lot of time and effort.
I believe their time and efforts would be better spent protecting the very vulnerable children as in this case.
Maybe then their work loads wouldn’t be as big.
Quote by tempteduk
Thinking back about it I can see what you mean. Ejaculating is like being on a wave, and you want to keep riding it for as long as possible, not wanting it to stop. Certainly fits with my experience. I guess that sometimes it coincides with fisting which seems to be an activity which leaves women utterly exhausted, so that the two have always been combined in my mind. Something worth thinking about.
Intrigued by the nipple stimulation alone working Bouncy. Do you have very sensitive nipples, or is it quite a lot of work on them that has you orgasming from them being played with? Will hold my hands up to never having done it.

I have never tryed fisting I have heard you could do some bad damage if it isn't done correctly so I have been worried about trying. I guess if I met someone with expierance and knows what they are doing I would try anything once.
Quote by bouncy332
minxy my sweet your the biggest flirt i know wink

:shock: I havent done anything honestly! surprisedops
Bouncy after you were flirting the other night in the chat room with another certain memeber of the forums, I will not say a thing! lol
You made me do it! lol
So I have to pass that nomination back to you hunny! :P
oi oi oi i was just sat there all innocent like it was u ya naughty girl smackbottom smackbottom
rotflmao rotflmao Ok I will say I am partly responsbile but you can take the other 50%
Although he is a pretty good tease himself and he didnt complain lol
I think he loved us ganging up on him to be honest!
Was a good laugh to see him smiling like a cheshire cat! lol
I dont think he knew what hit when we got going! lol
Quote by tempteduk
Very much a question, just seeing if I understand the post. From my experience when women 'squirt' they tend to have a far more powerful orgasm then usual. Maybe it's just because so few do it that when it happens it's so out of the ordinary it feels more intense. Can you get blase about orgasms?

I gather you might have achieved both on a woman!
Ok I will try to answer your question then.
I have always found clitoral orgasm to be easy to obtain and after they take longer to recover from, as it feel your whole body is affected.
But with an internal one where squirt/gushing is obtained I get a wow feeling a feeling of not wanting it to stop you just need that person closer.
I personally could never feel blasé about either as I find they are something special to enjoy and remember, it isn’t everyday they happen. I have found not every guy is able to achieve that level of excitement and relax me enough to obtain them both either.
So I feel privileged and grateful to the guys that have achieved this for me.
Quote by tempteduk
You find squirting less intense then a clitorial orgasm Minx?

Is that a question or a statement? lol
Quote by bouncy332
minxy my sweet your the biggest flirt i know wink

:shock: I havent done anything honestly! surprisedops
Bouncy after you were flirting the other night in the chat room with another certain memeber of the forums, I will not say a thing! lol
You made me do it! lol
So I have to pass that nomination back to you hunny! :P
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