We have always either met at home, or been invited to their houses, both have been fine. As other have said it is about the level of trust you establish first. We have never met at a hotel,I guess I have always felt it might not be as warming and inviting as meeting in a home. But not yet trying it I can not compare the two.
There have been lots of threads over time about preferences about who you would have sex with. I was wondering do people have preferences when knowing what they want out of meeting for sex. What I would like in a meet is to feel a man would want to meet me as he would like to enjoy sex and all its pleasures with me, because he in fact enjoys my company and it is me he would like sex with, and not just because I am a woman on a swinging site up for meeting.
I personally didn’t come here to have a shag, but that is my preference I come to enjoy great sex with people I also enjoy as friends where when trust and respect has been established are happy to explore each other boundaries etc.
Do you have preferences in what you would like to get from meeting people for sex?
I have been using the forums for a while now and mostly pop in every day to see what the lasting threads, posts are, sometimes just flick through have a read and out again.
Other days something captures me it could be a good fun quick banter kind of day, where I feel all are having a giggle and a laugh, the responses are quick and random so you feel like sticking around for the laugh.
Other days there is a sense of coming together a feeling of people offering help, or just a nice calm feeling about the forums.
On other days there is a changed atmosphere where tempers seem raging and insults flying, it always seems on these days the number of people at the top of the page increase, there is a sense of people wanting to read what is going to happen, who’s going to say what next.
What threads do you enjoy following what makes you stick around longer?
I am not offended by the use of any word, as bought up by a father that used them regularly became hearing them second nature.
I don’t understand the use of using them, all I feel it shows in most cases, is the inability to express your self in a more logical manner with the use of the wide English language we have to hand.
But saying that I have met a guy that says the occasional swear word in the right context, and in the way he says it with the voice he has I have felt it sounded very sexy.
I think within life we all have things we could be proud of ourselves of achieving and have a feeling of accomplishment.
When I feel this way, I keep it very much to myself, I don’t like to tell others of my achievements as that could then be seen as bragging, that you have an arrogance.
This is so strange as it is not seen that way when other comment you and praise you for your successes, although in truth when this has happened to me and I get recognised for things I have done, I get very embarrassed when others comment.
I was at an awards ceremony the other day when I was put into the lime light and thanked for my achievement and had to go on stage and accept an award for my efforts, I felt so embarrassed and wanted the floor to open me up and swallow me. I do things because I want to it’s isn’t about recognition but its what, I enjoy to do.
I told my hubby how I felt and he said you should be proud, but I don’t see it as being proud about something.
I can feel proud of my children’s achievements and often tell family members of what my children are achieving, I remember once telling my mum of my son’s achievement in sport the fact he had been accepting at a district and London level within his sport as I was proud. My son after hearing said to me Mum why are you bragging to Nan.
So is it ok to feel proud of others achievements?
Is it seen as bragging to talk about our own achievements?
hwoar: 
I think hes going for the world record of sh locked threads 
you are such a charmer 
