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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
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Quote by Lost
Someimes though don't you just wish you could take one or two of the kids and give them a chance by having them in your own environment OK tough to start with but i'd love to do that.
Luckily lost some of these children are saved from the cutches of mindless parents, some are placed into loving and caring foster homes and grow from being out of control to understand some people do care about them. It is hard work but can also be very rewarding.
Quote by Sara_2006
working in an environment that involves children we have a large number of volunteers that help with coaching the children but each and everyone of the volunteers are CRB checked and because they are volunteers it is a free service ... if it was for a paid job then the CRB checks have to be paid for
i feel that if it remained free and was better advertised that volunteers CRB checks are free then more checks would be done by schools .. but also it can take weeks for the results of the checks to come through and if you are only volunteering for a short period of time then the check might not come through in time as for each volunteer venue must have their own check done ... you cannt use a CRB check from 1 job to validate another
This is the bit I can never understand why not, there should be a way to flag someone that sinse their CRB check was first carried out, has now have it revoked. A way to check on the spot.
Quote by kentswingers777
Right so you obviously have done nothing then....that's fine.
Kent you know little about me, and what I have or have not done, you are the one thats complaining, what have you done?
Secondly...are you really telling me that you would give up your life as you stated above to save others?
Hmmmmm....you then say " your family and friends would understand ". Not wishing to doubt your very honourable intentions Minxy but....am sure your kids may have a different outlook on that, plus also let's be honest here, it is very easy to make a sweeping statement like that, when there is no possible way that would ever happen.
Kent my kids understand very well my thoughts and feelings towards others, and how very lucky they are in the scheme of life. They have a roof over their, heads, food in their bellies love, and warmth. Anything beyond that isnt a need, its a want. I bought them up not to want but consider if things are a need, they realise that there are many not even getting the basics to survive, and lucky to say they understand this fact. When 12 year olds start saying to you, so many people are so selfish, I am happy my children don't think they are the most important beings. Yes it is very hard in todays society to raise children in this way, but I have stuck by my core principals and havent sucum to temptation of greed.
I never called it a jungle Minxy....that is what it has become known by, I have merely used that expression as that is what it is known as.
Ok so that fine then to carry on the trend!
I believe the people of this country should come first as a country and others second. That is not to say we should not help others, which we do to the tune of millions every year. I believe it is Governments who have the responsibilty to help other countries, and not individuals.
Kent what so the government should assist other countries, so what happens when they are lead by corrupt govenments we just forget about the individual people that live there?
Sorry I see that as a very blinkered view.
Yes there are some wonderful people out there who help others all the time, and to them I say brilliant, but don't expect everyone to have the same opinions on this. They are scroungers out there in France, who want nothing from us other than the benefits we shall heap at them, at a very time when plenty of people over here, are struggling big time.
I too have stuggled, I don't deny it is hard at times, but I still have never seen my stuggle as anything like parents stuggles in other countries, sometime at time of stuggle we have to consider that. It might put life into prospective a little, also through our stuggles we come out stronger, Life isn't easy, as you have so often put, things are not dished up on a plate. But the one thing I always knew my kids would not starve.
Try going to your local hospital and finding out how overun they are, the lack of money and we are expected to take these people in?
I agree, but we have hospitals, we have medical care, I believe its peoples expectations and lack of patience that expect them to be better. You hear the story of someone on a trolley waiting for assitance, its happened to my own father. But I beleive we are lucky we have anything at all.
Sorry lets get our house in order first, to look after our own over here, then by all means help others.
I think you will find there are measures in place for that, but I guess for some they always want more.
The Red Cross are looking for helpers Minxy over in France...now where's the number for Easy Jet.
I shall ignore your condescending attitude
Quote by kentswingers777
Minxy if you are so concerned about mans fellow plight against fellow man, there are many things you can do to help.
From raising money to even going out to say Africa to help. Have you done any of that at all?
You cannot feed the world Minxy. Yes Governments mainly those of the fruitful West spend billions every year in aid. Remember Geldoff? Whilst that raised millions of pounds, in the long run, those problems are still happening.
IF it was a case of having the money to staff hospitals correctly, and no waiting times for sometimes life saving operations, and we had no problems then of course things could be different.
IF it came down to operations or paying for some others say in Africa, which would most choose? I think most would choose to put themselves and their families first. Nothing wrong in that.
No point saying we should do this and that, without doing something yourself first.....unless you have?
Kent what you have said is like me saying would you give up your luxuries to assist in the operations so needed by someone that is dying.
I am talking about this country as a whole the western society in general to take a thought for others show some empathy instead of calling everyone that is not from these lands scrounger, or as I take from the title of your thread jungle animals.
I have always felt this country as a whole is educated and by now should be looking at the flight of some of these people and showing some empathy towards them.
I for one would go to any means if my life and families lives were in danger and or we were starving. It is basic survival and one we take for granted.
Kent if I needed a life saving operation that costs thousands or that money could be used to feed a thousand starving children, I would sacrifice my life of 45 years for them my family and friends would understand why I done it as they know me better than anyone.
Kent I have lived and learnt if I understood half when I was younger than I know now, I would have happily gone on a different path in life, not that I regret the life I have now but feel I could be doing so much more with it. But I do what little I can for the sake of others, and my offering is done as I have empathy for fellow humans no matter where in the world they come from.
Until corrupt governments and starvation is eradicated globally these problems are never going to go away.
Kent you say look after our own. I believe nobody is starving in this country, and while I feel that, I can not deny others the basics of food and shelter, when we have the ability of so much more than the basic in this country.
I watched a programme the other day that showed the plight of men leaving their villages and families behind in Africa to cross the dessert on foot to Libya, there were human remains just laying across the dessert a lot don’t make it, the heat and lack of water takes their lives. Their families’ not knowing if they have made it or not. It saddens me greatly.
Yes they all leave to want to come here, here where the chance of work and money to feed their families is the aim.
I often wonder how many men would put their lives on the line like that in western countries, where we take everything for granted.
I would just like some to think a little when you say you work for what you have, other don’t have the chance to work to even feed their children in other countries. If these men were lazy or selfish I think their minds would be saying, stay where I am and fend for number one.
This is just one example there are many others.
Kent you say look after our own. I believe nobody is starving in this country, and while I feel that, I can not deny others the basics of food and shelter, when we have the ability of so much more than the basic in this country.
I watched a programme the other day that showed the plight of men leaving their villages and families behind in Africa to cross the dessert on foot to Libya, there were human remains just laying across the dessert a lot don’t make it, the heat and lack of water takes their lives. Their families’ not knowing if they have made it or not. It saddens me greatly.
Yes they all leave to want to come here, here where the chance of work and money to feed their families is the aim.
I often wonder how many men would put their lives on the line like that in western countries, where we take everything for granted.
I would just like some to think a little when you say you work for what you have, other don’t have the chance to work to even feed their children in other countries. If these men were lazy or selfish I think their minds would be saying, stay where I am and fend for number one.
This is just one example there are many others.
Quote by deancannock
This is exactly the kind of thing when you have a leftie namby pamby, tree hugging bunch of idiots in power.
How many times have we all heard crazy things that SOME think is perfectly acceptable?
I am all for tighter restrictions to catch and imprison child molesters, which are nowhere near tight enough. Castration is the way to go, not to penalise people in a small minded leftie nutty way. Castration will make em think twice maybe.
People like Polanski ( mentioned in another thread ), should be arrested, charged and convicted to a long prison term.
Don't be fooled by the payment bollocks, as I remember the same nutters saying all this about smoking. Ya remember it will be voluntary to start, then it turned into certain places and then as I knew they wanted all along...a blanket ban.
This is no different. If people put up little resistance they will start going after people who fail to mention the fiver they were given towards petrol.
I do not trust these people, I do not like these people, and this is what you get when you become all hip hop and allow the lefties free range to bring in all sorts of mad legislation....you have been warned.
and I wonder who will be the first one complaining when some evil git molests a kid..whilst taking football lessons ? Wonder who will be the first up in arms saying where was the council checks......someone should have known ?
If protecting kids is leftie namby pamby tree hugging...then I for one am proud to throw my arms round nearest Oak
I think you will find Dean, anybody running football teams where there is children contact in this way has to be CRB checked. So that would be the parents responsibility to make sure checks are up to date. Or the club that have such volunteers in place are responsible to make sure such checks are done. The ISA is another body where we are told parents, as generally it is them that offer a lift to take other children to matches etc will be expected to be ISA registered.
I think you are misunderstanding what I am saying.
here.
I for one am in not way against CRB checks I have mine in place. This is just another body that wants to keep tracks too.
Next we will need to register with a body to clock in and out of our house.
guess minxy it can be read in the way people want it to....but i quote below from the link you posted...it says needs to be registered if doing a regulated acitivity with children.
"What is regulated activity?
Regulated activity is any activity which involves contact with children or vulnerable adults. This could be paid or voluntary work.
Such activities include:
Any activity of a specified nature which involves contact with children or vulnerable adults frequently, intensively and/or overnight.
Any activity allowing contact with children or vulnerable adults that is in a specified place frequently or intensively.
Fostering and childcare.
Any activity that involves people in certain defined positions of responsibility"
I would not consider giving next doors neighbours lad a lift to the footie to be intense or frequent contact.
Dean you would not consider this to be the case, but we as a club have been told it is going to be the case.
That is what I am saying the reading of the document I sent makes things open to others interpretation.
If you hired a mini bus and offered to drive the team every week...I think it would. I do think it needs further clarification. But still personally think it is well intentioned. People are so quick to say how the hell did he/she have contact with kids, knowing his background, when something goes wrong !!
Normally you would find at a club that has such luxuries at a team mini bus the driving would possibly be the manager, in which case he would be covered by CBR checks
"What is regulated activity?
Regulated activity is any activity which involves contact with children or vulnerable adults. This could be paid or voluntary work.
Such activities include:
Any activity of a specified nature which involves contact with children or vulnerable adults frequently, intensively and/or overnight.
Any activity allowing contact with children or vulnerable adults that is in a specified place frequently or intensively.
Fostering and childcare.
Any activity that involves people in certain defined positions of responsibility"
I would not consider giving next doors neighbours lad a lift to the footie to be intense or frequent contact.
Dean you would not consider this to be the case, but we as a club have been told it is going to be the case.
That is what I am saying the reading of the document I sent makes things open to others interpretation.
If you hired a mini bus and offered to drive the team every week...I think it would. I do think it needs further clarification. But still personally think it is well intentioned. People are so quick to say how the hell did he/she have contact with kids, knowing his background, when something goes wrong !!
Normally you would find at a club that has such luxuries at a team mini bus the driving would possibly be the manager, in which case he would be covered by CBR checks
Quote by deancannock
Sorry dean I believe you to be wrong, I am secretary of a sports club and we have been told, all volunteers have to be registered, even if they are mothers or fathers of other children and are just offering to transport other peoples children to a game. There has been uproar as it would seem 1 in 4 of the adult population will have to register.
Also while we are on the theme of registration, did you also know by law if you are holding a raffle offering a bottle of wine as a prize, you have to apply to the local government for a “Temporary events notice†cost each application is Around -to depending what local authority you come under. So all schools and charities have to apply for this even if you are trying to raise money for a good cause.
All these new registrations are a way of earning an easy buck.
