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Tiger_25
3 weeks ago
Bisexual Male, 44
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Quote by 4wheeldrive
And some people wonder why more and more women prefer the older more maturer guy
No No No don't rule out us young guys just because of one tosser. It does get hard to defend young guys when stupid comments are made like this (and they do tend to always come from young boys, I won't say men), but some of us are good guys with a lot to offer.
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Quote by tweeky
Well from memory a teaspoon is an average amount so whats a large amount? For me a Teaspoon? depends how long since I last did it.4 days is suggested period of time to build up to full potential.
As for shooting,well I never have realy I am a dribbler. I only shoot if I get incredibly aroused or have had sex frequently so thats whats left is thin.
Mr Tweey
I'm surprised a teaspoon is considered an average amount - I think I'd be a bit more than a tablespoon. It shoots out a fair distance unless I'm really dehydrated and then it struggles to travel at all.
Thanks for all the words of support. I did spend the day beating myself up about it, but I'm not going to give up with this swinging lark. I think Pete was right, I'm a very chilled out type of person and the fact they gave me a dress code on the day does show that they aren't my type of people.
I'm sure there are plenty of swingers out there that I'd get on well with, and I've been encouraged by the comments here. Thanks again.
I'm sure there are plenty of swingers out there that I'd get on well with, and I've been encouraged by the comments here. Thanks again.
Quote by duncanlondon
Was there a venue requiring a dress code discussed/arranged? Or was it a request for role play/ fantasy?
Its possible they were just as nervous and used the dress code thing as a means of 'sniffing' you out. But it is enormously frustrating to be made to jump through hoops just before a meet.
Try and get over asap. It will be forgotten about soon enough. The try again. Good luck, have fun and take care.
It was just at their house - and that they didn't want jeans or trainers. The email about the dress code only came through this morning and tbh what I was wearing already I'd wear to smart bars/clubs and restuarants etc...
I apologise to all the single guys for contributing towards giving us all a bad name. I wouldn't blame anyone for being angry, for ruining it for more reliable people. This is the 1st time I've ever messed people around and I agree that I'll have to change the way I meet people if I can't go through with it.
Put it this way I've just remembered that I've advertised myself as being reliable - we all know that's a load of crap so I better go and edit my ads.
Put it this way I've just remembered that I've advertised myself as being reliable - we all know that's a load of crap so I better go and edit my ads.
I've just emailed to say that my nerves got the better me, as I'm genuinely sorry for letting them down.
The dress code thing was probably the last straw in my uncertain mind - and you're proabably right maybe the swinging concept is more of a fantasy for me. If I'm that nervous about meeting a couple - maybe its not for me.
The dress code thing was probably the last straw in my uncertain mind - and you're proabably right maybe the swinging concept is more of a fantasy for me. If I'm that nervous about meeting a couple - maybe its not for me.
It's official. After arranging to meet a couple this morning(and I placed the ad) I completely lost my nerve and pulled out. It was my 1st time with a couple and I was both nervous and excited. I've met single females, but have never been so nervous about a meet. I haven't had much correspondence with this couple other than sorting out the arrangements. I booked the day off work, got myself ready, checked my emails - and that's when I bottled it. They sent me an email saying no jeans or trainers. This is what I always wear and what I feel comfortable in. For some reason my nerves got the better of me, and it all seemed to get too serious rather than a bit of fun which is what I was looking for. I emailed to say I always wear jeans & trainers, but they never got back to me. I'm really cheesed off with myself (probably not as much as them) as I hate timewasters, after being on the other end of them, but in reality I'm no better than them. The couple were off work all week, but that doesn't excuse me pulling out.
It does make me wonder if I'm cut out for the swinging scene and meeting couples as the last thing I want is to waste anyones time. I'll probably be more nervous the next time anyway after bottling this one. I don't know whether it was because all my previous meets I'd had a bit of chat with beforehand, and got to know them a bit. I'm making excuses really when there's not for some thinking before carrying on.
It does make me wonder if I'm cut out for the swinging scene and meeting couples as the last thing I want is to waste anyones time. I'll probably be more nervous the next time anyway after bottling this one. I don't know whether it was because all my previous meets I'd had a bit of chat with beforehand, and got to know them a bit. I'm making excuses really when there's not for some thinking before carrying on.
