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Trapper
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · Leicestershire

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Thanks for your replies everyone.
I have to admit, those two hours i spent with them yesterday did me
the world of good and i can see them again in two weeks.
Bet these next two weeks go vveeerryyy slowly.
Hiya,
The day was a complete success!
The kids were so happy to see, and me them.
They had lots of fun and they were constantly holding my hand,
although i only have two so one had to go on my shoulders (not the 9
year old )
Took lots of photo's and little videos
I now have to plan for my next visit in 2 weeks time.
Thank you all for your advice and support, truly
appreciated!!!
just seen your edited post Alex, cant bring them back to my house, not allowed as yet and any way i live 3 hours away and i only have 2 hours with them sad
hiya Alex, thanks for that.
The stress you go through is outta this world, you could never put it into words for someone.
How my friends have put up with me being down and moping about i'll never know.
But out of something bad always comes something good as they say.
Hopefully after tomorrow and can start to get my life back!
Thanks for your advice and ideas Jane, i've taken them on board.
It will all be over before i know it, 2 hours is nothing but it's better than
what i have now.
Might have a little trouble sleeping tonight so i think i will have a few ales,
medicinal purposes of course!
Thanks Staggy, i'll be okay, i quite like trains anyway.
Only take 2 and a half hours, so not too bad.
Gives me time to compose myself.
Cheers Mike, i am dreading the parting to be honest, my middle daughter has always been
very emotional and fragile, she will be the worst tomorrow....or will it be me!!
Thanks Staggy, unfortunately, cant have a car picnic, she took the car aswell sad
I've got my bag packed and sitting here watching the clock lol.
Just hope my train isn't late!
Thanks easy, thanks Cheeky.
Got me a tesco's throw away camera and taking my digicam also
for good measure.
Hopefully in the near future i can actually have them for weekends
from time to time.
What a bloody good idea, im sure my budget can stretch to a few loaves of bread.
Got to find a duck pond first though as i don't know the area at all.
Think it's forecast rain all weekend, might need that brolly.
Thanks Staggy. biggrin
Thanks Sassy, i've been on tender hooks all day waiting for a text message saying she has changed her mind!
Fortunatelythat hasn't happened.
im really pleased for you trapper
trust me i do know how you feel on this subject many years ago i went through the same with my ex-wife so i can sympathise with your plight.
obviousley not knowing the ages makes it difficult for suggestions you could always take them see a film, bowling and a burger.
i always found the best thing to do was to ask them what they wanted
hope this helps wink lol :wink: :lol:
Thanks, i decided against the cinema as this is my first time i get to talk to them properly and i cant do that in a cinema.
The ages are 9,5 and 3.
I'll be exhausted when i get home.
Thank you, it has been a very hard battle mentally, i amazed i have got through the ordeal, i must be a stronger person than i thought i was.
Most of the time i find myself just pacing up and down the living room like a tiger in a cage.
The stupid thoughts that go through your head at times like these dont help.
Fortunately for me my friends around me have been absolute rocks and that has helped me tremendously.
Every minute that has passed this week feels like an hour.
I feel like a kid on xmas eve!!
For a long time now i have battling through the courts to get access to my 3 daughters since my partner broke up with me.
Every day without my kids has been an absolute nightmare, couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, lost 3 stones in weight etc etc.
Anyway, the good news is that i finally get to see them for the first time this year tomorrow afternoon.
I have to travel over 100 miles to Hereford to see them and i only get two hours with them
for now.
I know two hours will fly by but if anyone has any ideas as to how i can keep them
occupied for that ammount of time in a town i know nothing about i would appreciate it!
The thought of sitting in a mcdonalds for 2 hours drives me nuts!
Been my nickname since i was about 5 years old, even my mom calls me it now!!