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Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 50
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I believe there are 17 single males on the list before yourself Davey and Try as already stated earlier in the thread, that unless there is a sudden influx of single females - Its unlikely anyone else will be going on the list.
 I too wish there were other single females wanting to come... I'd need to share costs if I stayed over and could do with an companion for evening too, its a bit nervy coming back after an age away x

I might... as long as your man is allowed to Slip me a Length!! ;-)
 
Don't be daft Xs, I've been here over 9 years. Returned in the last two as a single fem - was absolutely crapping myself and put myself down for 2 socials, knowing no-one! Having travelled to Macclesfield (took me 6 hours as I seemed to be permanently stuck in traffic.. and 3 weeks later Coventry!). I turned up only ever having  chatted to people in the chat room! Please do come along, the crowd at cov are great. My advice as a fellow single female, is to come on your own and book a room of your own. That way your under no pressure to play and can retreat to the safety of your own room and your not relying on anyone for anything. Having said that it is just a social and as you know nothing happens at the event itself, anything that happens after is a bonus... Dips your toes in, come say Hi kiss Pull those big girls panties up and dive in! xXx
 
Haha Boobs.. I love it... Thank You x
As said tho, I used to be a regular, over 5yrs & Chatted regularly on chatroom, I knew everyone lol & they knew me. I've ventured back in there & recognise only a few names... I've interrupted convo's to join in several times but only had a hello back & no further.. Haha just feels so hard alone as I always used to be with a mate.. That was just safety so I wasn't stood alone etc But I May just come, you must find me though if I do... I'm sooooo nervy lol xxx

 
If you decide to go will it be the Friday and Saturday? Or Just the Saturday? I am more than confident if you just come to the venue, you will be fine lovely. xxxx

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we would like to book in please.  First one for us.   How do we pay please?

 
Maybe message Try directly? If I see them in chat I will tell him there is someone else wanting to be added xx

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I need some help with the wife as she is on the fence about meeting up with a man. we talk about it and we play games in the bed room and send stories about doing it but she will not commit 

 
Don't force the issue, she will play as and when she's ready  (that's if she ever is!). You sound more enthusiastic about playing the swinging field that she does to be honest. Like others have mentioned browse the forum and chat etc together. Maybe cam together in chat and see how she deals with the attention you both will receive.. If she can't cope with that, then maybe this is not for her? x

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heart.pngFast and Furious 7 inlove.gif I just love a bit of vin...
 Love all the Fast and Furious films but that may have something to do with the very sexy cast bounce.gif

 
LMAO I'm with you on that one!

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Shawshank

 
OMG I can't believe I didn't put this down, it is by far one of my favourite movies!

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I believe there are 17 single males on the list before yourself Davey and Try as already stated earlier in the thread, that unless there is a sudden influx of single females - Its unlikely anyone else will be going on the list.
 I too wish there were other single females wanting to come... I'd need to share costs if I stayed over and could do with an companion for evening too, its a bit nervy coming back after an age away x

I might... as long as your man is allowed to Slip me a Length!! ;-)

 
Don't be daft Xs, I've been here over 9 years. Returned in the last two as a single fem - was absolutely crapping myself and put myself down for 2 socials, knowing no-one! Having travelled to Macclesfield (took me 6 hours as I seemed to be permanently stuck in traffic.. and 3 weeks later Coventry!). I turned up only ever having  chatted to people in the chat room! Please do come along, the crowd at cov are great. My advice as a fellow single female, is to come on your own and book a room of your own. That way your under no pressure to play and can retreat to the safety of your own room and your not relying on anyone for anything. Having said that it is just a social and as you know nothing happens at the event itself, anything that happens after is a bonus... Dips your toes in, come say Hi kiss Pull those big girls panties up and dive in! xXx

I believe there are 17 single males on the list before yourself Davey and Try as already stated earlier in the thread, that unless there is a sudden influx of single females - Its unlikely anyone else will be going on the list.

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Each to their own, its not for us, we respect ourselves far too much to take the risk - what really annoys me is when people say on their profiles safe sex only, then blatantly go on cam without a condom and multiple partners 

On another note with regards to this topic;

i like to view what's going on in the gallery. There is one man in particular who very regularly puts on/up video's. He's bisexual but having viewed his vids he mainly plays with men. May I add multiple men! I have yet to see him play with the same man twice and not once in his videos has he practiced safe sex. Regardless of his sexuality which has no baring on the topic in hand, although I find watching his video's sexually exciting. I am f**king horrified, that a good portion of the men are married and clearly have no respect for the health of there current partner. Do these people think there immune from STI's? I dread to think the day he has to begin contacting those he has played withicon_neutral... 
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count me out, swinging days finished people,  have a blast and hope some one fills my sweating dancing shit shag roll lol xx

 
Gutted what a shame x

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is it to late for an invite?


I think I know the answer but no harm in asking 
 
  There is a MALE reserve list with 17 names on it before yours so unless we get a sudden surge of single females and couples coming, you will be added to that

 
17 jesus wept lolicon_eek

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is it to late for an invite?


I think I know the answer but no harm in asking 

 Single men are on a reserve list at the moment, as the single guy spaces have filled.

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works for me, i could give D a bj whilst he is washing up no probs ecstatic.png

 
FLMAO, I would happily pay one in blow jobs if he cleaned the house...

That not everyone you class as a friend, is actually worthy of your time...

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I loathe categories and stereotypes of any kind - try measuring against a sky remote, thats classed as VWE *guffaw*

 I personally like it measured against a beer bottle rotflmao

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Yesterday i learnt that my tolerance to bull shit is getting lower by the hour. Smile and move away from the idiots happy.gif happy.gif 

 Just yesterday? Lol xx

Chat to each other and see what you both want from the marriage

Your on a swinging site without your wife, effectively as a single male..... Pot, Kettle, Black? What's the difference your. Org cheating on each other...

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PayPal details have been sent out to everyone so check your mail

 
Money sent thank you xx

Discount code for Travelodge for 26% off if you book by tomorrow... Code BOXINGDAY

Clearly it doesn't like my symbols lol so it's stays between 1st January and 26th February lol

26 percent discount code for Travelodge stays between 1-1-17 and 26-02-17 BOXINGDAY

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Well if there's any space left I suppose I had best come along to see Mav being cuckolded by Eyes haha.gif
 
haha.gif she makes him leave his sox on happy.gif 
Be good to meet you mell xxx

 
Don't I am still laughing at them talking about it at Xtasia...

I had no idea you were that close to me! Never been, xtasia was first experience, will do more but will also make more of an effort to say more than Hi/bye over breakfast the next time lol xx

Still laughing at being given a S/M pair of bad girl pantsrotflmao.gif like them fuckers will ever fit me Pah ha ha ha... Would make a lovely alternative to a gobble bobbleblast.gif

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It was a different experience for the single men.  I understand why - they have regular members who come on couples nights because they expect there to be no single men.  We were tolerated, not welcome.  It was clear the staff didn't really want us there.
We were left waiting in the quiet room for the others to come and join us.  They never did.  There was porn playing on the TV in there.  When I arrived it was three men and one rather passive woman, who was expected to simply respond as the men thrust bits of themselves at her.  It was all about what the men wanted.  Her pleasure wasn't considered at all.  In a later one, a man snuck into a woman's bedroom and started touching her while she slept.  That was a bit jarring after being told explicitly that consent is essential.  If you're looking to set a mood, you need to consider the mood you're setting.  There must be better porn out there somewhere.
So I spent an hour or so watching the fish, before being told that we might was well just go down to the bar and dance-floor.  Now, I realise that I'm alone in this, and others like the loud music.  But I go to socials to socialise, and that's impossible if I can't hear anything that anyone says.
I left early, and am not tempted to go back.
This isn't a complaint (apart from the porn - I thought we were past that kind of objectification).  Life is full of risks, and sometimes things don't work out.  It didn't work out for me.  Others enjoyed themselves, and that's great.

 When we came in, that was not the way it was painted to us. We were told *Most of the SH lot* were meeting in the chill room. Not that the single males were asked to wait there. Although that now makes sense, why the single females were asked to pretend they were with the single males, in order to avoid upsetting the regulars. At one point I looked in and couldnt see anyone familiar so came down  to the bar, which is where I saw most people so remained there. Lmao although going up the stairs is not my forte, as I tripped and practically flew out to go home lol x