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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire

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didn't even know we could change clour till i read this blink
gone for my fave purple:happy:
Quote by MadMax
Thats an odd one we tested it in all major browsers on PC and Mac, what browser and set up do you have?. Need to get you sorted before the lights get turned out wink
Could be a funny service pack of IE6

love love love your avatar sorry to go off topic lol
Quote by kentswingers777
Should we bring our troops home?
What a hard question to answer in this house.
As many of you know mrs777's son will probably be out there sometimes next year at 18 years of age. The army has turned him into a man in 12 months, and his whole attitude is different.
He loves the army life but realsies the dangers that may lie ahead. He is ready for the challenge.
As for us the fear and trepidation that lies ahead, we try not to think to hard about it, for obvious reasons.
It seems this Government have lost their way in this tragic conflict. They seem to have lost their long term objectives, and their initial aims.
There was an ex army Major on the radio the other day, who said the main reasons we are out there, is to stop the training camps on the Afghan/Pakistan borders, from training terrorists who will in time bomb the west. He said that is a major reason why we must stay until that region is safe.
That to me seems a logical enough reason, but the time scale could be years, if at all.
The whole region was/is in a dreadful mess. Pakistan have launched their own offensives against the Taliban, but as this Major stated....the Taliban will never win on the ground. They neither have the man power or the resources, but they have one advantage and that is fear over the Afghan people.
Until that fear has been eradicated which could take years, the slaughter of our troops and the American troops will continue.
I am in two minds over this issue. Before our Son joined the army I was 100% in favour of going in, but obviously now we have someone close to us going there, it changes your viewpoint.
But on the whole I am in support of our actions, and support the armed forces 1000%.
All I prey for is that a minimal ammount of our superb troops lose their lives.
I only wish there could be some kind of timescale to bring them home, but at this stage nobody knows how long we will be there.
Most of the troops out there think they are doing a worthwhile job, and it will change things for the better, I hope so for the sake of all those who have /will lose their lives.
Keep them safe.

you must understand fully how i feel perhaps even more so as your son will go much much sooner than ours i hope with all of my being he returns safely :rose:
Quote by Kaznkev
the bnp get votes in this country cos of a lack of class conciousness,divide and rule has always been the way of the elite and the oxbridge boys now running the bnp have learnt that lesson well
First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak out for me.

thought provoking
Quote by gulsonroad30664
bouncy, first of all, you have to come to an informed opinion of your own. you are bombarded everyday by all of the media with the justification for our forces to be in afghanistan and why they were sent. so you must research alternative veiws outside the mainstream media and make a judgement for yourself. all i would ask you to consider first is :- in whose intersts does it serve ? does it serve the interest of you or anyone else paying for it ? is it to catch the bogey man osama bin liner ? is it to defeat the taliban (afghans) and stop worldwide terrorism? or is it to pacify (terrorise) the locals to servitude while an oil and gas pipeline is built from yhe caspian sea to the gulf ? are there geopolitical interests at stake instead of the lies and bullshit we are fed on ?

these are my questions but how do i get the answers?
we are fed bullshit constantly i mean take the fact we went into iraq cause bullsit blair had seen evidence of weapons of mass destruction that were a threat to us directly that in fact it turned out he never actually saw after all
so how to find truthfull answers to my questions?
Quote by Kaznkev
I am afraid as a pacifist,raised as such on my grandas knee ,my feeling is that if people join the army they must accept death as a possible consequence of enlisting
I know it sounds harsh,but the point of being a soldier is to kill or be killed,to then complain strikes me as slightly odd
of course i have immense sympathy foe anyone who looses a child,I would be unable to cope should anything happen to mine,but to support the military untill it means danger seems dunno

oh i get that totally hun i always have n always will i always used to say when others asked wasn't i scared my son could die that yes scared but supported his choices as they went into the job with thier eyes wide open and were trained to do thier job but recent events are making me worry that although they are trained they certainly aren't fully equipt and are they really truelly fighting for queen and country i'm not convinced of that at all
coming from a forces family i have always supported our troops in everything they do maybe blindly not really understanding why they are wherever they are at any given time but feeling that they must be there for a good reason maybe i'm just too trusting of the powers that be that make these decisions but i now find myself feeling more and more disillusioned with why our troops are in afghanistan can anyone explain to me how it can be justified that our sons and daughters are still there or even why they were there in the first place
i ask this as our youngest son intends to join up in the future and i am trying very hard to be fully supportive of his choice. i am clinging onto the fact that he still has a year of A levels to go and then hopefully uni and then sandhurst for officer training then he will hopefully train to be a helicopter pilot which will mean it will be 8 years and make him 25 before he has to see any action and hopefully no longer in afghanistan by that time although i'm sure they will of found somewhere else to send our troops i know i could never b lucky enough for him to only serve during a time of absolutely no conflicts whatsoever and this is only plan A, plan B is to just join up if results aren't good enough so worst case senario is he could be out there this time next year which frightens the life out of me
it was brought crashing home to me when i found out on sunday that one of the guys injured (shot 6 times but thankfully doing ok) in the shotting that killed 5 of our lads last week was a lad that is my sons friend from cadets it has brought it way too close to home for me and now all i want to do is beg my son to forget joining up and find a new career choice
i just want to see our troops all come home i don't want to see another killed out there or anywhere else
am i being unrealistic would them coming home put us at risk? would it make all the lives lost so far meaning less?
i guess i'm looking for reasurance here, should i still be fully supporting our troops and those that put them there or should i be shouting fromm the rooftops to bring them home?
ours came from when we used a contact phone line back in the days before we had the internet where i used to describe myself as a big bouncy blonde so when we joined our first swinging site 6 years ago and had to come up with a name i went blank then bouncy popped into my head so went with that but it was already taken it threw back a few suggestions bouncy332 was one and as our ages were 33 and 32 i went with that
a few peeps use our real names on here and i don't really mind i guess found it odd to start with as we were so used to mr b and mrs b being used and i very very rarely use others real names not even those i know incredibly well socially if i do use them its a slip up not intentional
good to hear they r both on the road to recovery got everything here crossed for both of them hope to see them both back on here real soon missin them loads:rose::rose:
not keen so far much prefer the old style is this a trial to see wat we think or is it gonna b here for good?
our youngest lad for making me so proud i thought my heart would burst yesterday in his rememberance parade and doing a beautifull reading in church with fabulous clarity and meaning
he is growing into a fine young man
269 but then we r in a village if i up it to a 10 mile radius which takes in closest town there is 3,474 so best get buying condoms :shock:
omg yes i pack lots of just in case stuff
in fact i'll take more for a weekend away than a week away i guess a week i plan more but a weekend is just chuck everythin in just in case lol
Quote by brucie
elaborate. spell it out you mean?
you hook up with a girl. see her a couple of times. want to move on but dont have the balls to say it.
manipulate her so that she wants to move on from you.
and she feels bad about it...
not suggesting i would do this, just a hypothesis.

ah right got ya cheers
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
If Derek Acorah says it's true that's good enough for me....I do think it's time he got possessed by someone other than a scouse spirit though

rotflmao
Quote by brucie
yeah but have you ever thought that some people may want to become quickly unattractive?

no never crossed my mind do elaborate
Quote by Anoush
In terms of the paranormal, I am a complete non-believer.
Things that I dont believe in include -> Ghost, faries, magic, water divining, gods, spirit chanelling, ouija boards, fate.

with ya on that one :thumbup:
Quote by Anoush
this might be an unpopular view, but I kinda agree with brucie.
Its entirely the individuals responsibility to make themselves attractive In whatever that is. Good looks, smells nice, speaks well, money, great personality the whole package.
If you have all of those things, and you are sitting at the top of the tree, then it makes sense that people are going to want you, no?
I not saying anything about brucie. Just saying that there is no reason apart from how I am presenting myself ( in the forums / in the chat rooms, nice guy / nasty guy, sexy / ugly.) for metting people or not.
some people are just immediately "attractive", no?

yes your right some are immediately attractive but its amazing how quickly those people can also become incredibly unattractive too just like how someone not immediatly attractive can over time become incredibly attractive too
anyhoo its all subjective
Quote by brucie
"it never happens over night"
hmmmm actually it does. the harsh truth is that if you got you got it if you dont you dont.

and i'm guessin you've got it dunno
i believe there are other life forms out there it would b very arrogant to think we r alone
i'm not suggesting they would b anything like us or even that they would look anything like the little green men of comic books but there is a very vast universe out there bigger than we could even begin to comprehend so why should there not b other life forms out there
so i'm with robbie on this one although not convinced they visit us they might b just as unaware of us as we r of them
Quote by kentswingers777
mr b here now shes had her say il have mine they should of all been shot at birth the twins the judges and all those that vote for it i cant believe that crap was on tele and i had to watch the rugby highlights the day after the match oh and while im ranting thank god for the boxing sanity prevailed

oh right its all such crap u sit happily watching it giving a full n frank critique on the lot tut rolleyes and i mean come on man its miles better than the stuff you make me endure like the profesionals and the sweeney (bloody stuck in a tv timewarp) :shock:
and kenty dear boy if you think that gettin sky would stop mr b moaning then u couldn't b more wrong it would just give him more to moan about he makes the grumpy old men seem cheerfull bloody good jod i love the moany ole bugger lol
There was me thinking I was the most miserable sod on SH. lol wink
funnily enough kenty i have often thought how well you two would get on i see you both chin waggin for hours puttin the world to rights rolleyes
:giggle:
Quote by Sexualdude
Some good advice above from most (not twinkle toes). My advice would be firstly, don't take all of this too seriously. As most have already stated us guys are probably in the lowest demand but highest in terms of numbers on here. As a result you may find for every 20 messages you send you will only get a response from 1 person and even that will be a no thanks. When you start letting this get to you is when you start coming across as pushy. It's just one of those things and you have to accept that you're not for everyone.
Secondly, the chatrooms are a really good place to have a chin wag and, even better, if you get yourself a cam and actually pop your face on there rather than Mr Johnson getting stroked, then people respond to that well too. The number of people I met went up massively when I started using chat with my mush on cam, not cos I'm Brad Pitt-alike, but a decent, normal guy who just so happens to enjoy 'swinging' (yup brucie you read that right wink )
Anyway, good luck fella and maybe see you in chat some time.

very good advice there dude
we have met up with guys i wouldn't normally look at twice in a vanilla situation but through chat and getting to know them as top blokes and seen thier personalities shine through we met them and have so far not been dissapointed also guys we have met in person at socials that had we just looked at their adds we would never of played with but once we got to know um we gladly had fun with um
there is definatly a place for single guys in swinging as there r lots of couples like us that enjoy having another guy or 3 join us its not just about couples swapping so hang on in there 5t3v3 just b patient as it never happens over night get yourself out there meeting peeps n chatting loads