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Wall flower or room walker?
As a single male I have no choice in the matter. It's walk or die. Sounds simple doesn't it? In realality it's some thing else. It's damed hard work and scary too.
Been to two munches now, both at the same venue with the same host. Both times there was a difinate boundry between terrified newbies and seasoned players. The second time being much more noticeable as the players had arrived from their hotel and gave the impression that they were there to socialse together before returning to the hotel to play.
I tried to speak to some of the players I met in the chat room. 'Come and speak to us' one fem said ' we don't bite'. I did and was cut dead. Not good to say the least especially as the rest of the female memebers did the same. Did it say Leper on my namebadge? However I did speak to one of the male members of the group, and had an intresting conversation so not all was lost.
On the first visit I noticed name badges for newbies and enquired about this with my host. They simply attempted to stick a badge or two on me which failed and then abandoned me. My hopes of haveing some of what was said of munches in the forum about help and guidance was dashed on the rocks. I presume the hosts have never read this.
At no point during the two munches did I ever see a seasoned player approach and speak to any newbie. Due to this I feel forced into a position whereby I have little option but to 'bounce' people in order to meet them. I don't like it and if there is a better way then I would like to know. Felt I bounced Mikeandlucy, who wrote earlier in this thread, and would like to know how they felt about this.
I wonder who many new people to the scene and munches abandon their dreams of being part of this lifestyle due to apparant indifference towards them by seasoned players?
I attended a social elsewhere and had a great night and met a lot of people, so many my head spun. Why the differce you may wonder. Simple. A lovely lady spotted I was new, alone and a litle lost. She took it upon herself to take me by the hand, literally, and introduced me to members of the group. The group then knew who I was and spoke to me as we trailed our way through a number of pubs. I am still in contact with some members and learned a lot about the scene in their locality.
Seasoned players and munch hosts must be aware what it must be like when you are new to the lifestyle after all they were new once. I would like to see better interaction between seasoned players and newbies and think that there should be more hand holders at munches for newbies to help them get over the first and difficult hurdle of introdutions. Not every one is a sophisicated socialite.
To seasoned players I say 'Hold out a hand'
and to newbies 'hard as it is don't get disheartened, keep going. The longest journey starts with one step'

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I know I'm a bit late, but can I squeeze in too?

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ok just realised i must have a thing for guys in drag cause guy pearce in priscilla queen of the dessert just turns me on big style

ok any ideas how i can persuade mr b to drag up for me :rascal:

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sorry hun, cant make this one, will explain when i see u in room xxxxxx

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hi dont think we going to be able to make it unless we can get a lift as we cant get there and bk

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Loved it! But still think that Keith and Paddy should have won....They rocked

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He has an amazing body in that black leotard! His shaven legs are strangely erotic!!!

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Still think the highlight of the hours that I watched was Catherine Tate as Nanna
btw am I the only one who thought Carol Vorderman looked like a slapper? :shock:

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Yes
I always thought Eddie Izzard was a bit of alright even wearing make up and a skirt

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I got latex examination gloves. Will they do?

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Please may i have a hug too?????

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I got latex examination gloves. Will they do?

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Cold hands DG :shock:

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Im the same Minxy, its official you Bouncy and I are "The Nutters on the Bus"

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I moved from a busy town about 2 years ago where it was normal practice to put your head down and just keep going. After moving to a small village, where everyone i passed in the street had a cheery hello for me it I enjoyed being the first to say hello to anyone and everyone (hmmmm sounds like the chat rooms .)
It took my little boy a while to work it out - i remember him saying to me one day "Mum - why do you say hello to everyone??" - my answer "Cos its only polite and it is great to speak to new people"
I've since moved out of that village to a much smaller place and even now if we are spotted around the old place people i barely knew except to say hello to are asking where we have gone because they've not seen us around lately which in its own way brings a smile to my face.
But after my ramblings, back to the point of the thread - i'd like to say hello to Bouncy, hope you are going to have a great weekend x