a friend just went to a party at the weekend where you went as something begining with the first letter of your name
ie: corrie was a can can girl, rebecca was a rubics cube, frank was a flasher
some of the costumes were amazing
not sure if this would work for chams though
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bouncy332
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BBW was a term coined in the good ole USA to try and give a positive spin on being a fat bird it is widely considered to be a woman of a size 18 to 28 over a 28 is considered an SSBBW (Super Size BBW) although that one never really took off over here as much as BBW did thankfully
lots of big girls don't like the term BBW as they feel it would look concieted to call themselves beautifull but it was never meant in that way it was purely meant that others can actually find big to be beautifull
i do use the term myself but its quite simply so no one feels they could be mislead and know what to expect upfront that simple
lots of big girls don't like the term BBW as they feel it would look concieted to call themselves beautifull but it was never meant in that way it was purely meant that others can actually find big to be beautifull
i do use the term myself but its quite simply so no one feels they could be mislead and know what to expect upfront that simple
Sex God
hey guy
i require your help please
we organise the BBW BASHES and are having the next one in feb and it just happens to fall on my 40th birthday :bounce: now as its a special one i wanted to come up with a good theme but i'm really struggling so does anyone out there have any good ideas?
the ideal ideas are ones where peeps don't have to spend a fortune but still can join in if they fancy
all suggetions are gratefully recieved
cheers guys
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i require your help please
we organise the BBW BASHES and are having the next one in feb and it just happens to fall on my 40th birthday :bounce: now as its a special one i wanted to come up with a good theme but i'm really struggling so does anyone out there have any good ideas?
the ideal ideas are ones where peeps don't have to spend a fortune but still can join in if they fancy
all suggetions are gratefully recieved
cheers guys
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
hey you sexy bunch ty soooo much for making it one of the best bashes to date had a truelly wonderfull time and it was fabulous to see so many getting into the festive spirit
thankyou again you all make it worthwhile organising
will be posting the next one real soon its in feb for my 40th birthday eeek need to come up with a good theme so any suggestions pm's welcome
thankyou again you all make it worthwhile organising
will be posting the next one real soon its in feb for my 40th birthday eeek need to come up with a good theme so any suggestions pm's welcome
Sex God
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Quote by Dave__Notts
ooooo custom made thats interesting how do i find out bout that please duncan?
i have the strapless one bend over boyfriend but bein a fat bird i end up with a little cockso i'm looking to get a strapped one so if anyone can recomend one that fits a size 26 i'd be very gratefull
I have one that will fit
Oh bugger :doh: you meant strap on
Dave_Notts
oh i say
Sex God
ooooo custom made thats interesting how do i find out bout that please duncan?
i have the strapless one bend over boyfriend but bein a fat bird i end up with a little cock so i'm looking to get a strapped one so if anyone can recomend one that fits a size 26 i'd be very gratefull
i have the strapless one bend over boyfriend but bein a fat bird i end up with a little cock
so i'm looking to get a strapped one so if anyone can recomend one that fits a size 26 i'd be very gratefull 
Sex God
merge or no merge you will never keep everyone happy
it was split up because of the moaning about the CA threads and the JFF threads getting in the way there was even a thread about it (no i can't find it and boy i have looked gone crossed eyed tryin to find it ) and now we got peeps moaning they want it all merged again
so it just goes to prove the old addage "you can't please all of the people all of the time"
i still say get CA back in here but like i said thats just my opinion
it was split up because of the moaning about the CA threads and the JFF threads getting in the way there was even a thread about it (no i can't find it and boy i have looked gone crossed eyed tryin to find it
) and now we got peeps moaning they want it all merged again so it just goes to prove the old addage "you can't please all of the people all of the time"
i still say get CA back in here but like i said thats just my opinion
Sex God
sorry to drag this one back up but found it looking for something else
just wanted to bust the easy solution myth surrounding gastric bands
i have been a big girl (fat bird) for many many years and yes i am very comfortable in my skin never had a problem with my wobbles although did try to loose a bit on many occasions for health reasons generally i would loose around 2 stone feel better think well thats all i need to do and then before i knew it at leats 3 stone would creep back on and over the years my weight just crept up and up and up until around 3 years ago my back gave out iy got so bad i couldn't walk further than 100 metres without pain and a busy day t work would leave me practically crippled it was effecting my life so much it was starting to worry me i would have to give up work which for me is my worse nightmare i love working
then last christmas i saw my uncle and his weight had made him so ill it was scarey and also a friend that was in hospital dying (thankfully she pulled through) caused in a round about way by her weight and it was my scrooge moment it was my christmas future and the moment i decided it was time to make a change
now i guess you will all feel i should of been able to do it by myself if i felt that strongly but you don't know me and i most certainly do know me and i know full well that i will be full of good intentions and will shift a good chunk on my own but then slowly but surely i will slip back to bad habits
i am a "fuck it" person its a downfall of mine so many diets have ben broken as i loose sight of why i am doin it and then that bottle of wine or bar of chocolate is calling to me and i just go "oh fuck it i'm not unhappy in my skin so why change it"
now knowing this fact i decided this time if i was to make a change that would be permanant i would need some help so after a lot of research i decided to go with the gastric band
i know a lot of people think this is an easy option but trust me its far from an easy option it took an awfull lot of soul searching before i decided to go ahead with it i mean all these years i have shouted about how happy i am as i am it now looks like i'm a liar so i was very worried about how others would judge me but then thankfully my "fuck it" gene kicked it n i decided i don't care how others judge me luckily
so on august the 15th i started on my journey toward getting my band fitted that was the date i started my pre op diet which was the hardest diet i have ever ever done i had to stick to 1000 calories a day and i really ahd to stick to it as it is to shrink my liver ready for the op as if i don't shrink it enough then then they can't do the op well in 5 weeks i managed to loose 2 stone then on september 24th i had my band fitted i was amazed i was only in hospital for 11 hours couldn't believe i was going home the same day but i did
i was quite sore for a week or so but no real pain and had to stick to a liquids only diet for 4 weeks then a puree diet for 2 weeks then a soft diet for the final 2 weeks which trust me was the hardest thing i have ever had to do, i am now eating normal food now and enjoying all the tastes and textures but i will never be able to eat the same way i did pre band
i will never be able to take a day off as i could if i was on a diet i will always have to be good, recently at a social we went for a meal on the sat afternoon before getting ready and i pushed it too far and ate too much now normally this would of meant starter main and pud leaving me feeling stuffed well not any more pushing it meant eating a whole main course that was all and it left me in pain and feeling very silly for pushing it i ended up having a bit of a cry and having to have a lay down before getting ready then feeling uncomfortable all evening at the social so that most certainly was a lesson learnt
since i started in august i have now lost 4 1/2 stones and it has made a massive improvement to my health my back is amazing i can now walk n walk n walk forever work is a doddle no matter how busy i am i don't get my back pain at all and i go swimming almost every morning swimming a good half mile somedays i get time to do a mile and even managed a mile n half the other day i love it, i did try the gym but i was struggling for the time to commit to it but i fully intend to find one closer to home in the new year when my memebership expires at the one i go to at the mo so i can give much more time to it and also would like to try zumba classes as i know full well that even though my band will only allow me to eat small ammounts i still need to exercise regularly if i am going to get healthier in every way
so my point to all this babble i hear you cry
a gastric band is not the cheats way it is the hardest i have ever had to work at loosing weight i have to use more self control than i ever thought i could have as i can only eat small portions i have to make sure only good food goes in not junk food and i have to make certain i exercise loads or else i'm gonna be saggier than ever this has been the hardest i have ever had to work at loosing weight and i can never ever say "fuck it" this is it for life i can't give up or back out i have to keep going every day no matter how i feel
so its not an easy option it is not a cheat it is bloody hard work but i know it will be worth it in the end when i no longer have to worry about back pain hopefully ever again fingers crossed
and if you made it to the end of my rammbling well done
just wanted to bust the easy solution myth surrounding gastric bands
i have been a big girl (fat bird) for many many years and yes i am very comfortable in my skin never had a problem with my wobbles although did try to loose a bit on many occasions for health reasons generally i would loose around 2 stone feel better think well thats all i need to do and then before i knew it at leats 3 stone would creep back on and over the years my weight just crept up and up and up until around 3 years ago my back gave out iy got so bad i couldn't walk further than 100 metres without pain and a busy day t work would leave me practically crippled it was effecting my life so much it was starting to worry me i would have to give up work which for me is my worse nightmare i love working
then last christmas i saw my uncle and his weight had made him so ill it was scarey and also a friend that was in hospital dying (thankfully she pulled through) caused in a round about way by her weight and it was my scrooge moment it was my christmas future and the moment i decided it was time to make a change
now i guess you will all feel i should of been able to do it by myself if i felt that strongly but you don't know me and i most certainly do know me and i know full well that i will be full of good intentions and will shift a good chunk on my own but then slowly but surely i will slip back to bad habits
i am a "fuck it" person its a downfall of mine so many diets have ben broken as i loose sight of why i am doin it and then that bottle of wine or bar of chocolate is calling to me and i just go "oh fuck it i'm not unhappy in my skin so why change it"
now knowing this fact i decided this time if i was to make a change that would be permanant i would need some help so after a lot of research i decided to go with the gastric band
i know a lot of people think this is an easy option but trust me its far from an easy option it took an awfull lot of soul searching before i decided to go ahead with it i mean all these years i have shouted about how happy i am as i am it now looks like i'm a liar so i was very worried about how others would judge me but then thankfully my "fuck it" gene kicked it n i decided i don't care how others judge me luckily
so on august the 15th i started on my journey toward getting my band fitted that was the date i started my pre op diet which was the hardest diet i have ever ever done i had to stick to 1000 calories a day and i really ahd to stick to it as it is to shrink my liver ready for the op as if i don't shrink it enough then then they can't do the op well in 5 weeks i managed to loose 2 stone then on september 24th i had my band fitted i was amazed i was only in hospital for 11 hours couldn't believe i was going home the same day but i did
i was quite sore for a week or so but no real pain and had to stick to a liquids only diet for 4 weeks then a puree diet for 2 weeks then a soft diet for the final 2 weeks which trust me was the hardest thing i have ever had to do, i am now eating normal food now and enjoying all the tastes and textures but i will never be able to eat the same way i did pre band
i will never be able to take a day off as i could if i was on a diet i will always have to be good, recently at a social we went for a meal on the sat afternoon before getting ready and i pushed it too far and ate too much now normally this would of meant starter main and pud leaving me feeling stuffed well not any more pushing it meant eating a whole main course that was all and it left me in pain and feeling very silly for pushing it i ended up having a bit of a cry and having to have a lay down before getting ready then feeling uncomfortable all evening at the social so that most certainly was a lesson learnt
since i started in august i have now lost 4 1/2 stones and it has made a massive improvement to my health my back is amazing i can now walk n walk n walk forever work is a doddle no matter how busy i am i don't get my back pain at all and i go swimming almost every morning swimming a good half mile somedays i get time to do a mile and even managed a mile n half the other day i love it, i did try the gym but i was struggling for the time to commit to it but i fully intend to find one closer to home in the new year when my memebership expires at the one i go to at the mo so i can give much more time to it and also would like to try zumba classes as i know full well that even though my band will only allow me to eat small ammounts i still need to exercise regularly if i am going to get healthier in every way
so my point to all this babble i hear you cry
a gastric band is not the cheats way it is the hardest i have ever had to work at loosing weight i have to use more self control than i ever thought i could have as i can only eat small portions i have to make sure only good food goes in not junk food and i have to make certain i exercise loads or else i'm gonna be saggier than ever this has been the hardest i have ever had to work at loosing weight and i can never ever say "fuck it" this is it for life i can't give up or back out i have to keep going every day no matter how i feel
so its not an easy option it is not a cheat it is bloody hard work but i know it will be worth it in the end when i no longer have to worry about back pain hopefully ever again fingers crossed
and if you made it to the end of my rammbling well done
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I stick by what I have said in many previous threads. This is not a Current affairs forum, there are plenty of places on the web to debate current affairs should you wish to.
Yeah but there are probably very few where it would be acceptable during a conversation to suggest popping round for some gratuitous sex.
On most current affairs forums I should imagine it would be taken the wrong way if someone was to suggest fucking someone up the arse ....whereas here
:giggle:
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Quote by tweeky
Back to normal as in as it was years ago is as it is right now.
Quote by Dirtygirly
Back to normal since I've been here!
Seem to have said the same thingQuote by bouncy332
love it much better flowing or at least looking that way
also with DG on bringing in the CA i know there used to be some forumites bleeting on about not liking them but i said it before they split it and i stand by it still if you don't like such threads just don't open the buggers
over the years there has been a few threads i have never even opened as the title told me straight away it was not for me and it would get me wound up so i avoided it plain n simple
but also agree again with DG that it is nice to read um from time to time as you actually learn summat sometimes my opinion on some things have actually been altered even if only slightly by things i learnt in such threads but yet with them in a separate forum its as rare as hens teeth i even go in there
I stick by what I have said in many previous threads. This is not a Current affairs forum, there are plenty of places on the web to debate current affairs should you wish to. The types of thread in the CA hardly ever existed prior to the creation of the CA forum. In one way I would be for the merging of the CA forum as that means closing it down
I dont think a CA forum should be on the list of forums in a swingers community. The problem with that is now that the CA community has formed and there are posters who like to post in there then closing it will bring the threads in here 
Yes I dont have to read them but it is not only me thats affected and and I am also affected by not reading them :shock: Thats because others who may not have read them tucked away in the CA forum will read them in the cafe. They are then more prone to becoming part of the bickering squad that goes on around some of those threads and often carries over into cafe threads. I think the best way to look at this is if the CA forum was not created a few years back would we now be saying lets make the Cafe title
The Cafe
General discussion and chit-chat and current affairs. Post anything here that is NOT a Meet Up or about Dogging.
I think not.
been using these forums since mid 2005 hun and there has always been threads that would come under the title CA and there has always been bickering yet i still feel it was better when it was all merged into one but that is just a personal opinion
