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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire
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Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
time for a revolution me thinks
(oh gawd really must put fidels life story down now :shock: )
Write to George ( twat ) Galloway
, he knows everything there is to know about Fidel. 
i'm not far off knowin it too incredibly interesting guy i might not agree with his politics but i can admire the man best book i read in yonks even if i do need a dictionary at hand to understand half of it :shock:
Sex God
i do love to know the gossip but first hand not second or third thats just tittle tattle and u don't get the facts and i never pass on the gossip i think i'm just nosey n like to know everyones buisness so not sure now if that is gossip does it only become gossip if i was to pass it on?
i just love bein the one that knows love it even more if someone then asks if i know anything about it and i can say no not got a clue whilst smuggly knowing i know the facts
although do find it hard to keep trap shut when i'm being told bout someone else and i know they have all the facts wrong but still don't spill i prefer to say no that doesn't sound right might b best you check the facts before you tell anyone else
have been known to talk about situations not mentioning names and only when i am sure i could not be giving identities away but only if i think it will hepl other parties with a dilema they are having, does that count as gossiping??
i just love bein the one that knows
love it even more if someone then asks if i know anything about it and i can say no not got a clue whilst smuggly knowing i know the factsalthough do find it hard to keep trap shut when i'm being told bout someone else and i know they have all the facts wrong but still don't spill i prefer to say no that doesn't sound right might b best you check the facts before you tell anyone else
have been known to talk about situations not mentioning names and only when i am sure i could not be giving identities away but only if i think it will hepl other parties with a dilema they are having, does that count as gossiping??
Sex God
i totally understand how your mum is feeling i had much the same problem years ago where the abuse i got from people over my size it made me at one point unable to join in any social situations i hated going anywhere the only place i felt confident was at work i know that may sound mad but felt accepted there i am a hairdresser and felt that my clients wouldn't keep returning if they didn't accept me for who i am not wat i look like
my husband kept gently reassuring me i was a good person and he loved me just the way i am and that there were plenty of good people out there that would also accept me no matter wat size i was and slowly but surely i started to believe himso much so i finally agreed to dip my toe into swinging which to my complete surprise brought on my self confidence in leaps and bounds especially once i discovered BBW groups where there were loads of big girls just like me
so i for one think that a group would do your mum the world of good, to find others just like yourself and to know that you can feel good about yourself no matter wat you look like is a wonderfull thing
i now have more self confidence than i ever thought possable and now when i hear the comments people say to try and hurt me it just goes right over my head i no longer care wat others think of my body its my body and i love it and if they can't be bothered to get to know me just because i wobble well then they are the ones missing out not me
so go for it cherry hun i hope you find something for your mum and i truelly hope you get to see her self confidence soar
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my husband kept gently reassuring me i was a good person and he loved me just the way i am and that there were plenty of good people out there that would also accept me no matter wat size i was and slowly but surely i started to believe himso much so i finally agreed to dip my toe into swinging which to my complete surprise brought on my self confidence in leaps and bounds especially once i discovered BBW groups where there were loads of big girls just like me
so i for one think that a group would do your mum the world of good, to find others just like yourself and to know that you can feel good about yourself no matter wat you look like is a wonderfull thing
i now have more self confidence than i ever thought possable and now when i hear the comments people say to try and hurt me it just goes right over my head i no longer care wat others think of my body its my body and i love it and if they can't be bothered to get to know me just because i wobble well then they are the ones missing out not me
so go for it cherry hun i hope you find something for your mum and i truelly hope you get to see her self confidence soar
:rose: :rose:
Sex God
i organise one that is in a club mr p but never as a commercial venture firstly not my club (wish it was i would b minted instead etternally skint :shock: ) secondly i chose to do it at a club as i had a lot of bbw friends that wanted to try a club but were nervous of wether there would b made to feel uncomfortable because of their size so wanted to come with us so we could hold their hands
well after attending another social that was held there mr b and i got chatting about how fun it would be to do one for BBW's and thier admirers then all those that are nervous that they wouldn't be accepted because of their size could go along and check the place out in the comfort of knowing that all those there would be of similar shapes and sizes and the guys going are going because they are admirers of their wobblyness so everyone could relax and enjoy the night in everyway
it was only really ever meant as a one off but it was soooo popular i had everyone asking for another and again yet another one so now i'm organising a third BBW bash
there is no financial gain for us, yes the club gains but then the way i look at it is so do those going cause its a bloody good night
well after attending another social that was held there mr b and i got chatting about how fun it would be to do one for BBW's and thier admirers then all those that are nervous that they wouldn't be accepted because of their size could go along and check the place out in the comfort of knowing that all those there would be of similar shapes and sizes and the guys going are going because they are admirers of their wobblyness so everyone could relax and enjoy the night in everyway
it was only really ever meant as a one off but it was soooo popular i had everyone asking for another and again yet another one so now i'm organising a third BBW bash
there is no financial gain for us, yes the club gains but then the way i look at it is so do those going cause its a bloody good night
Sex God
i think the diff would b that with your vanilla friends you would b throwing a party as its your birthday for example so would be rude to say please come help me celebrate my party but you need to pay £5 for the priviledge whereas a swingers party like the munches arranged here there will b alsorts coming not just peeps you invite because you enjoy their company so why should you foot the bill out of your own pocket if you did and it was popular you could end up with big bills for parties every few months and people taking advantage of your good nature
the exception for me would be if you was inviting an exclusive group of swinging friends to a party at your home then i would be prepaired to foot the bill as it would again feel rude to invite them then ask for cash although would say bring a bottle but would say that to vanilla friends
the bashes i organise does not ask for a fee to be paid to me as i would find the finger pointing of some folk suggesting i would be on the make from it too much to bare they only require a fee paid on entry to the club we hold them at which has absolutly nothing to do with me so my hands are always clean on that front i do not profit from it i just enjoy organising them as they are a great night enjoyed by all, all the payment i need
the exception for me would be if you was inviting an exclusive group of swinging friends to a party at your home then i would be prepaired to foot the bill as it would again feel rude to invite them then ask for cash although would say bring a bottle but would say that to vanilla friends
the bashes i organise does not ask for a fee to be paid to me as i would find the finger pointing of some folk suggesting i would be on the make from it too much to bare they only require a fee paid on entry to the club we hold them at which has absolutly nothing to do with me so my hands are always clean on that front i do not profit from it i just enjoy organising them as they are a great night enjoyed by all, all the payment i need
Sex God
i'm a firm believer in karma and try to live my life accordingly i once found a fiver on my doorstep i knew it wasn't mine or mr b's so knocked next door and asked there and as it happened the guy that lived there had lost it and was gob smacked i had bothered to ask as it was just a fiver
but then a couple of weeks later i was in town in a phone box (pre mobiles yes i am that old lol) made my call then walked off leaving my purse on top of the phone
i realised this around 30 mins later and rushed back to the phonebox in the hope no-one had used it in the mean time, there was a lady in there as i got there and i knocked and asked if there was a purse on top of the phone, there wasn't and as i walked off dispondantly she called after me and said there is a note though saying lost purse go to curries (the shop opposite the phonebox) so in a trotted to b told it had been taken to the police station you have no idea how relieved i was to finally retrieve it
it had been taken there with all my money in it, around £150 which 15 years ago was a fortune to us, by 2 young girls they were still there when i reached the police station i tried to give them £10 to thank them but they wouldn't take it bless um
reinforced my faith in human nature and most definatly karma
my oldest lad also did a good turn when he was around 14 he found a mobile a motorola razor when they first came out and he held onto it till the owner rang and arranged to meet him and gave it back i was so proud he did it all without any prompting from us we didn't find out till after the fact
there are a lot of good peeps out there of that i am certain
but then a couple of weeks later i was in town in a phone box (pre mobiles yes i am that old lol) made my call then walked off leaving my purse on top of the phone
i realised this around 30 mins later and rushed back to the phonebox in the hope no-one had used it in the mean time, there was a lady in there as i got there and i knocked and asked if there was a purse on top of the phone, there wasn't and as i walked off dispondantly she called after me and said there is a note though saying lost purse go to curries (the shop opposite the phonebox) so in a trotted to b told it had been taken to the police station you have no idea how relieved i was to finally retrieve it
it had been taken there with all my money in it, around £150 which 15 years ago was a fortune to us, by 2 young girls they were still there when i reached the police station i tried to give them £10 to thank them but they wouldn't take it bless um
reinforced my faith in human nature and most definatly karma
my oldest lad also did a good turn when he was around 14 he found a mobile a motorola razor when they first came out and he held onto it till the owner rang and arranged to meet him and gave it back i was so proud he did it all without any prompting from us we didn't find out till after the fact
there are a lot of good peeps out there of that i am certain
Sex God
we got together when i was 17 n mr b was 18 and we are just about to have our 20th wedding anniversary in april and i think one of the reasons we have stuck it out this long is the fact that too many people judged us on our age and said the good ole lines "it'll never last" and "give it a year at most"
this made us more determined to work at it and prove them all wrong we have had ups and downs like everyone but when we hit the downs we pulled together to make it through and worked out any differences we had
it made us stronger with each problem we worked through and as each anniversary passed it was like a fingers up to all those that doubted we would last just because of our age
i love mr b more today that i did when we first married 20 years ago and i also love the fact that we will only be 68 and 69 when we celebrate out golden anniversary still plenty young enough to enjoy a new adventure
this made us more determined to work at it and prove them all wrong we have had ups and downs like everyone but when we hit the downs we pulled together to make it through and worked out any differences we had
it made us stronger with each problem we worked through and as each anniversary passed it was like a fingers up to all those that doubted we would last just because of our age
i love mr b more today that i did when we first married 20 years ago and i also love the fact that we will only be 68 and 69 when we celebrate out golden anniversary still plenty young enough to enjoy a new adventure
Sex God
Quote by fem_4_taboo
i think around a £10 a month for licence isnt to bad, but then i guess for 2 channels its quite a lot when you consider what you get on sky.
but then sky does air a lot of crap
but then i have a choice to pay or not.
the thing that really bugs me is if i buy a TV i HAVE to pay a licence, what if i never watch any bbc channels???
xx fem xx
there r 4 tv channels hun plus all the radio channels and the world service and i'm sure somone would b able to tell you of more they do and i think all that for a tenner id pretty good too
