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butters999999
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
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I agree with every thing Judy just said. A few years ago before children and new jobs my husband and I were in the habit of having sex at least 3 times a day more if we could. It became a standing in joke with my friends because they samed to have the knack of phoning in the middle of it.
The guys thought I was damm lucky the girls thought I was abnormal and asked why? when I said because we enjoyed it they said it was impossible to enjoy it if you where doing it so offten it must get boring!
The guys thought I was damm lucky the girls thought I was abnormal and asked why? when I said because we enjoyed it they said it was impossible to enjoy it if you where doing it so offten it must get boring!
Nope I think your right my family (brothers and sisters) hubby and his brothers and sisters and 1 of my closest friends know I’m bisexual oh and you lot on here! But I don't feel the need to tell anyone else so yes I do live a double life as such. I think most people on here do to a curtain extent
:69: Remember some people think you are even living with the gift of having the best of both worlds
.JudyThat’s me! Funny thing is when I'm asked which do I prefer men or women I have to honestly say I don’t have a preference to one sex or the other I have a preference to one person or another. I don’t have a type as such I have been together with tall short fat thin bald flowing locks TV's TS's TG CD Cpls Bi male Bi female Straight Male Lesbians and the only thing they have had in common is a good personality that I can relate to.
Both my parents never knew and they have passed away now. But telling my brothers and sisters was ummm interesting to say the least! I am the youngest of 8 kids there’s 20 years difference between me and my oldest sibling! Now I was worried how the older ones would take it but they were fine “so what†“who cares?†is what I got from them but my youngest brother (43) was very put out with it lolol He just wanted to make sure I never brought any “girlfriends†to family occasions lololol I said to him Paul I’m married with kids do you think I’m going to inflict this family on to some other poor soul? Wasn’t it enough that I dragged Simon in to it! Simons brother and sister know about it but his parents don’t.
I am a bi woman and have been for at least 10 years and yet only 1 of my closest friends knows this why? Because when I told another friend whom I would of considered to be my “Best Friend†(I hate that term!) she freaked out about it, told me I was disgusting, shouldn’t be allowed to work with children (I was a nursery nurse at the time) and if I ever came near her again she would call her husband! Now why did she react like this? In the 6 years I had known her I had never “hit†on her or any of her friends. At the time it shocked me and I became very very guarded over what I did in public in case someone else guessed. For a while I was very afraid of what she would tell people and what rumours would start spreading. She did in fact say nothing to anyone but kept her children away from me and moved with in 6 months (nothing to do with me) Still it was some time before I got my confidence back and thought sod this it’s my life and I will do as I please. My husband has known from day one that I am bisexual and is happy with it. 2 years ago I went out with my 5 closest friends for a girls night out. We got hammered so drunk we couldn’t remember our names! Well in the cab on the way back home it got down to just me and my friend Lisa and she was as drunk as I was and some how we started kissing and having a fumble as you do when your drunk lol Next thing was we got to her house she got out and went in and I went home. The next morning I was full of guilt and remorse for what had happened and I had no idea how to bring the subject up with her. She phoned me and to start off no mention of the incident took place. But after 10 minutes or so she asked me if I remembered what had happened and I said yes and took a deep breath, she then said she need to know was it just the drink or was it something more? So what should I of said? I told her the truth that it was just the drink but yes I am bisexual and waited for the fall out. None came she just said that by the way I kissed her she knew that I must of kissed women before (how??????) and that she was OK with it as long as I promised that I wouldn’t try hitting on her when we are sober lol I told her that I loved her deeply as a friend (which is true) but to get over herself she wasn’t my type lol and that’s how things stand she knows I’m bisexual and is still as good a friend as ever before, I have discussed with her the possibilities of telling the other 4 girls in our very close group and she agrees with me that 3 of them would have no problems with it the other 1 would big time. So my decision has been that if and when I’m ready I will tell the others with Lisa’s help and if the 1 friend whom we think might have a problem with it freaks then so be it, I’m older and wiser and what’s the worse that could happen?
Well my 14 year old went to the NEC back in march to see Busted wait for nearly 2 hours after the concert for them to come out and they did they all had an individual picture taken with her and a group photo and they signed her program There were 4 other girls and they did the same for them too which was great. Daughters gone off them now and is waiting to sell the program on e-bay!!!!!!
I how ever have 15 programs of various ages all signed by Boy George and even met him back stage after seeing in London when I had cancer. And NO ONE is getting their hands on my collection!
I how ever have 15 programs of various ages all signed by Boy George and even met him back stage after seeing in London when I had cancer. And NO ONE is getting their hands on my collection!
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