Quote by Biguy4cpl_surryyour added sam and i promise we wont be gentle lol
but be gentle..its my first meet.. and it will be like losing my virginity...
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 66
Bi-curious Female, 55
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Hi were organising a Plymouth Social for the members of All Southwest Swingers to be held in Plymouth . The event will be on the 28th of Febuary at a venue in a plymouth City Centre public house . The venue will be disclosed a few days before the event to all members wishing to come. For Members who travel there is a Travelodge very close to the venue if you require overnight accomodation . the link to which you,ll find at the end of this message. or you could find your very own accomodation that suits you. most of the members who appear usually like to hit Flares a night club in Plymouth that plays all the 70 and 80.s music only a populer place for most our socials to end the night in. , though that is down to yourselves and can be arranged on the night. the event will start at and we look forward to seeing as many of you as possible. Please dont mess us about and say yes you,ll like to be put on the list if you have no intention of turning up because timewasters dont go down well if you,d like to participate or you,d like. any more info you can call myself Col or Loopy42008 please dont hesitate to ask you can find us in All Southwest Swingers in server 1 look forward to hearing from you
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Quote by Samndave
The credit crunch has hit the house of samndave and have decided that we won't be renewing our subscription when it expires in a few weeks time.
Would like to thank all the wonderful people we have met and talked to on here over the last couple of years, you have been great and helped both Dave and myself through a couple of tough times, most noteable this time last year.
If anyone wants to stay in touch you know what to do.
Many thanks, Merry Christmas and a very happy swinging new year to all the loverly people on SH.
Samndave
Sam xxxxxx
so sorry to hear u guys are leaving us . hope you rejoin soon and rejoin us in our room best wishes col and vinny xx
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Quote by Sixfootsix
Here's a suggestion that I've mentioned in various rooms that many people seem to agree with (and have added to)...
Whispers should be invite, i.e to be able to whisper someone you first have to be invited - and invites can be revoked.
Also maybe people on your friends list should be "auto-invited" unless specifically blocked from whispering.
Personally I think this would cut out all the crap that many people have to deal with!
theres nothing wrong at all with the whispering system this sites got its just down to the lack of manners by mainly single guys who think there exempt from asking before they do it and thats what needs to change no matter what system you got it will be abused
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Quote by woohoo
I can only reiterate what St3v3 and others have said and that is report them.
When I am in chat I sometimes post this message
All the members of this site deserve to be treated with manners and respect whatever shape, size, age, colour, gender someone might be!!
We are mostly all here to have fun and have a laugh and a joke.
So please act like adults and treat them as such because any body who does not do so may find themselves the subject of an ops or admin intervention on their account.
Most people have my mobile number or have an ops or admin on their friends list so that they can tell when admin or a chatroom ops is online and then they can usually take action straight away.
I usually find that it's only one or two who can't act like adults and sometimes the whole room jump on them for spoiling their fun.
So get the room on your side and you will have about 70 odd angry people with you.
And remember Don't let the bu**ers win take action against them ok.
i,m with woohoo and st3v3 on this .as a room host i do come across a fair few over zealous pissheads who leave there brain in the pub when they come home but with the support of the ops and admin if a warning and a boot doesnt help to shut em up then i got no fear about reporting them and seeing a ban put in place. were all here to have fun and to get along and its sad when we lose genuine swingers through the result of mindless disrespectfull idiots but trust me admin and the ops do jump on the perpetraitors as soon as there notified and they do take the offences seriously
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i.m happy with the new look but my friends list is a complete cock up. all them i had my friends on the old list are now in favourites when i click the arrow going through to the next page of them i,m getting repeated names from the previous page i added a person to my friends it hasnt shown up at all repeatedly so i,m dissapointed with that because i have no control over my friends list its just a absolute mess and i cant find the person i want . apart from that the rest isnt bad at all
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patience is one thing tolerence is another . chat freezes constantly being booted bigger rooms been hearing it for ages but were having more disconnections now then we were 2 years ago .i,m all for progress but to be honest and i think a lot will agree there isnt any . and 1 disadvantage to having 1 room with 4 rooms 1 crashes you got 3 others to fall back on thus losing 25 percent of members this 1 big room crashes you lose everyone thus meaning 1 site full of unhappy members as they are now. only my opinion i,m sure someone in admin will counteract it with a good answer
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hi has anyone noticed the lack of numbers in the last few weeks in chat, ie beach bar and jacuzzi rooms seem to be bouncing around the 40 to 50 but never seem to be full anymore or is it just me. i,m wondering is this still server problems but i,ve never had problems getting on in the last week or is it people leaving. also now SH are doing a free week now for premium members so are we having problems or are we losing members . i dont think you can beat this site and concerned .
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To test every single person in the country now is a physical impossibility but what should be considered is new born babys should be given the swab and tested and details put on a database . thus meaning in time the whole country will be on record in years to come . criminals should instantly be done thus meaning they can be profiled against any unsolved cases if you,ve committed a crime and are against this then just hope you never get reason to be caught out. if your not guilty of anything than theres no reason why you shouldent have it done if asked to. all the crap about infringements on civil rights is a load of bollox think about coming home one night find your home burgled or a family member being killed for no reason and the person responsible being caught because his DNA were stored makes perfect sense to me to do it this way its the only way crime will decrease or have a chance of decreasing if the criminal knows they are bound to be caught
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why are we making or trying to make this change from the 4 servers to the one anyhow? am i missing a point here you are testing still on the new format beta chat room still which at this moment is appearing to be in remission not seen it for a while. so does this mean changing from the 4 to the new big one is only a temparary thing till the new room comes into place if so why because we,ll only have to go through all this disruption again when you put that into fulltime use and testing has finished. this isnt a moan a gripe or a pop its a seriously confused person sat here wondering if this upset could of been avoided .
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Quote by kentswingers777
Sorry - don't like the new chatroom. Much preferred it with 3/4 servers and smaller rooms!
Wont be there nearly as much now!
Def agree with you.
Whats the betting that we will go back to 4 servers or even the old 3? I really cannot see the point in one main room. :shock:
I am not a computer genius but....why alter something that up to they introduced the 4th server, was working perfectly ok? For months the chat has been working great, then along comes server 4 and the trouble begins. You all know the problems...rooms crashing, being kicked off the server you was on. Can we turn the clock back 4 months to how the chat rooms used to work please? It seems to me, change for changes sake!
lets not condemm it before it gets off the ground. this may actually benifit us i,m sure Elliott and the team are working for us not against us and how do we know if there changes will work if we dont give it a fair chance. We all get used to the way things are and none of us like change but sometimes changes can be for the good not the bad . i know the guys at admin etc are working hard for us and i think criticism is important but also support for there work in making this site a reliable one for us all is important as well cheers guys
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ok you know i like to be different heres 2 for you 1 in Gallery you select 30 per page it just keeps coming up with 9 how droll number 2 i have noticed 4 members that have created havoc and been permanemntly banned from the site no longer show up as being banned and that is a worrying thought for the members these people have upset hurt and abused in the past apart from that i like the layout its ok but to much blue but we are used to the old colours so will get useed to it in time great work keep it up
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Quote by JesseP
Not used aol for years so possibly talking bollox which I am particularly good at, but try clearing your cache. That sorts out loads of browser problems.
As to how you clear cache in aol, can't help you there I am afraid.
to clear aol cache on aol 8 go to start / programs /aol /aol system information and hit the utiltys butrton/ the n button saying clear browser cache pn aol 9 right click on your aol icon by clock to bring up the menu and select system information go to utilitys ands clear cache
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trust me Mal the forum ads and profile will not be used to warn anyone about anything even i would not subject myself to your wrath by doing so 
and long winded cheek of it detailed is how i see it just saying wat i want and dont want surely even you got to agree with that pmsl
and long winded cheek of it detailed is how i see it just saying wat i want and dont want surely even you got to agree with that pmsl Warming the Bed
Hi were Col & Lavinia . lavinia is 36 col 46 were a easy going couple looking to have fun sex and good nights in with others .We do venture into the dogging scene from time to time and enjoy sex on the outdoors a lot especially the beaches. we will meet the odd occasional single guy but you must remember theres a lot of single guys out there and we do reserve the right to choose and we dont choose many . if your a single guy just trying to find a woman at another guys expense forget it we are not your couple if your married and play on your own forget it were not interested if your below 30 dont even bother responding to this ad were not interested We dont play alone we strictly prefer safe sex so be prepared. if you try contacting me in chat do not whisper without asking or you,ll not get a reply and if your not in devon or cornwall your wasting your time even if your alledgidly visiting basically i,ve heard it all not attempt to wink there turned off i wont receive it and if you mail me please do so with something interesting to say and no one liners we wont respond to them if you do they,ll be deleted . ok with that out the way we are into most things except water sports and pain experiment with most things we like same room sex or will soft swing bi guys bi girls or couple not a problem we only ask you respect boundaries and make the experience a pleasurable one for all. warning attempt to or waste my time and i will name you to anyone who says there going to meet you i wont and dont abide timewasters were both clean discreet and dont do drugs and insist that likewise is a must want to know more just call us if were interested you,ll soon find out but basically no strings fun is all were after
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ok guys and gals many times chat ops i,ve seen have taken some verbal and kept a clear head defused a situation where some members have been more deserving of a ban then a warning . i myself being a reguler chat host of a room have had on more then one occasion a reason to call in a op with excelllent results my hat goes off to them all especially the ones i have had the chance to use Red hot and steve mids and sgt bilko to name but a few please remember these guys also are here for there pleasure of the site not just as ops and be a bit more considerate towards em when they throw the rule book at you there only doing wat there here to do..
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Hi were a plymouth couple looking to meet others were up for broadning our horizons and were looking for couples to share for fun singles will be reviewed but very rare we will choose but u never know u may be the lucky one pics in profile and ads get in touh be nice to hear from you
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hi folks were a couple new to this 35 ex nude model slim very pretty and very sexy me 45 average with a raw sexual apetite we have been into the dogging scene for a while and now were looking to expand our horizons a bit more, were looking for couples for meets at sites to be arranged around plymouth Participation is down to how clare feels Clare would like to try for the first time with another woman a fantasy we both want to fullfill but we come as a couple so dont waste your time replying if its only her your interested in cos it wont get replied to all replys with pics please and a alternate email address we can contact you on we love the dogging scene and had loads of fun around plymouth and now were looking for more look forward to hearing from you col & Lavinia
