Quote by FurbyHug
I do agree with tolerance 1000% and i dont mind watchiing men wank in fact i find it quite erotic .. if im give the choice to watch them.. i have been guilty of going off on some guys that are doing that.. but only for the reason that im bombarded by whispers asking me to watch them wank.. there looking at my pics an coming on them and somedays its so much i will leave a room.. so i can see both sides of it.. tolerance is the key to swinging but they also need to respect that if i wanted to watch i would.. and if i click on .. an move off straight away its not an invite for 10 to 15 whispers in a row sometimes sayin the filthest and sometimes nasty things to me if i choose not to watch that particular person......
i feel your anger an i see why you feel that way, but sometimes i will shout at them to stop it from my side.. if ive done that an you not realised why then i appologise.. i never intend to hurt anyones feelings..
ive been chased away from many a room by the quite blokes who dont look like there doing anything but playing with themselves.. but sometimees theres more to my bark than just barking...:-(
kisses an hugs dares loves you lots.. xxxxxxxx

Quote by Marya_Northeast

You openly addmit to taking the P out of guy's wanking on cam,you also generalised that single guy's on here are all the same,rather than addmit that you were wrong in doing wat you did, you point the abuse think we need to know anymore than that about you.
Thank's 4 the comments.
ohh and i appologise 4 the arse

Quote by Suede-head
Dares
Its because i don't think the guys who come in and wank have a place in the mids room. We are not anti wanking and have been known to encourage it .. you may have seen us in the Sunday morning Wank for Me room !
As i responded to Chaotic my views are some what selfish in that i believe the "action" cams, be they wanking (male or female) or otherwise change the tone of the room. I love the mids room for what it is, i use other areas of the site and chat-rooms for my voyeuristic and performing needs

Quote by Marya_Northeast

Well it's nice to see u have addmitted 2 being an arse
Ummm .... but I didn't! I'm not "an arse"*, thanks and that's just your opinion anyway just like my comments are mine. No amount of "lol" is gonna change that.
, but how u can stereotype single males like that is beyond me.
very easily - ONE - they do it themselves and TWO I've been here long enough to see that, as a generalisation, it's TRUE! If they don't want to be treated like the single male stereotype then maybe they shouldn't act that way? BTW, I didn't stereotype the individuals, I said their behaviour at that time was stereotypical.
A good tip 4 ya......Think how u would feel if people were to take the P out of you, or someone you know or like.
Treat others the way you would like to b treated.
Thanks for the "tip" - think I'll pass, though as yes, I have had the piss taken out of me and a helluva lot worse abuse than a few jibes about wank-cams.
thank's 4 your response xxxxxxxxx

Quote by Suede-head
It's not the tuggers i have the issue with but the full package. We very rarely get anything beyond an extreme close up of a bell end with a whisper the second we click on the cam. Something along the lines of, like what you see ? Want me to cum for you ? Very rarely do they interact with the room.
I think a lot of the piss taking has arisen because we use this as a way to remove offenders to the no whispering / no directing rule, this ensures the room remains a vibrant chatty room once the host has left.
I must admit that i didn`t relise anyone appreciated the "tuggers" but have had my opinion changed. I'm sorry if my view of the "tuggers" offends anyone and can see that the swinging site is there for all sorts.
I still don`t see why they have to come into the regional "chat" rooms when there are numerous wank rooms to accomodate their needs.
It would be great to get a tuggers view to this post ... if they can actually type. (oops my piss taking coming out again!)
Suede x x x

Quote by Marya_Northeast
This actually happened today in the NE room and I admit to being one of the offenders. (Piss takers not wanking on cam!).
The room was pretty quiet with some idle chitchat between a few of us. A female goes on cam wearing a provocative outfit. Within minutes, half a dozen guys have their cams on and are wanking furiously.
Forgive me, but it's feckin laughable. So I laughed. I also laughed at their crap chat-up lines.
So did several other people - including the female on cam.
It was just such a huge change in the atmosphere of the room and the stereotypical behaviour of the single males involved that encouraged the jibes. None of it was nasty although I guess it could be taken that way. I don't use the Mids Room and wasn't there to see the incident you mean so I can't comment on that.
If you've got a problem, report the offender - yes, even if that is me!

Quote by hisandhers
don't you think this ought to be in the chatroom forum
In all honesty, I have always been welcomed into the mids room. I don't think you can pick out just one room from all servers- everyone is different in all the rooms & like different things.

Quote by deancannock
oh yes..try trying to arrange this when i'm not around so i can't apply eh.....well failed just coz I'm 10,000 miles away don't mean i haven't spotted it....so can i be added if i may to list.

Quote by Mallock2006
Please put Shireen & I on the list :-)

Quote by Dawnie
You lot leave Tone alone!
I'm after another dance with him in a few weeks :bounce:

Quote by Shireen
put us down please xxxxx