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Hey Magik_s, *how the devil are you?*
:bounce:
ok i is getting a little silly now, i blame dee and her influence
Out of You, Dee & Me, I'm not sure who is influencing who!
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Quote by Toots
random member: Hi Toots, Whats up
Toots: The sky?
random member: Would you like to suck my cock?
quickly looks at his profile
Toots: Have you one worth sucking?
random member: Look at my profile photos
Toots: Ok, let me put on my varifocals
an amount of time passes by
random member: did you look?
Toots: Yes of course, Would you prefer the bj with my teeth in or out?
random member has left the room or gone offline
No stamina!
Quote by pebble
My other favourite toys are stuffed giraffes.......often seen on cam in the pool room
:wanker:Quote by Cubes
Other than Theia and my imagination? :rascal: Probably the Form 2.:thumbup:
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Agreed! Women are incredibly spoilt for choice when it comes to toy shopping, but us blokes hardly get a look in. In know it's all about anatomy, but surely someone could come up with something more inventive/exciting?
That said, there are other more, erm, "adventurous" options out there e.g. this rather worrying device. :scared:
** Again, not recommended by me or the Site. ;)
That made me close my legs and im not a bloke !!! Quote by the_magik_s
This is quite a contentious subject now doubt - Honesty. The thing about 'Honesty', is that it can be subjective. People can have different levels of honesty, people can take honesty to mean different things. Some people couldn't give a damn about honesty and some people value it as the most important thing overall.
What does kind of get my goat, is that when this honesty question (or similar) is raised, then all and sundry seem to come out with their judgemental sticks and at times can berate people for their current situation. Now, I'm not saying that this is happening here.. But honesty doesn't just cover the topic of infidelity. There's also a distinct lack of honesty when people fail to put on their profile the fact that they're slightly or seriously unhinged. Or lack of honesty when it comes to pretending to be someone totally different. Or even the lack of honesty when it comes to people hiding behind the 'swinging & NSA' approach, when in actual fact they're looking for love.
Back to the 'cheating' aspect. Well.. Each person has their own reasons as to why they make the decision to keep SH from their partner. You see, very often people judge the individual when there's a distinct lack of info known about that person. Instantly assuming that it's a case of wanting his/her cake and eating it
People can chose how honest they are with their lover, partner, friends or whoever.. It's a pure judgement call on their part. And of course people are allowed to have their own opinions on this. But to judge each other without knowing the facts can be detrimental to a scene such as this. So while it is important to be as honest as possible with someone/people to womb you owe that honesty, it's still just important, if not more so, to be open and honest with anyone who takes the time in their life to get to know you at any particular time . It's in this scenario I feel that a certain amount of respect and honesty is essential.
So yes, of course it's important to be honest with your partner. It would be ridiculous to suggest otherwise. But there are soooo many different variables that effect this decision. Such as the lack of happiness in a relationship, open relationships where neither party wants to know what the others doing, relationships that have plenty of love but no sexual desires, or the feeling of being able to totally be yourself amongst swingers, and many many more. Sometimes people just haven't been fortunate enough to meet someone on that same wavelength. You also often here people saying , "well leave your partner then".. Again this presents a load of other variables as to why someone may not want to do this. The point being however, it is for THAT person to decide whether or not they wish to stay in a relationship such as that.
So in my opinion.. We are all adults. We all lead our own individual lives and all make our own individual decisions. If however you chose not to disclose certain details to a partner of sorts then it is essential that you allow that 'other' (lover etc) person to make an informed decision as to whether or not they wish to engage with you in any way.
I just think that for as important as it is not to judge people in certain types of relationships or people that have certain sexual preferences, it is equally as important that we don't overly judge people without knowing anything about them or their situation.
Magik x
Quote by the_magik_s
Do ya think magik could handle us both?
Quote by Rogue_Trader
In my eyes I don't see how anyone can have a healthy relationship without being honest. If they are prepared to be deceitful then they should be prepared to accept the consequences.
Quote by Katniss
I would wish to live in a place called 'Kinky Town'. Where the leading political party are The Kink Party. Where we all operate on GKT (Greenwich Kink Time.
Keep it Kinky
Quote by Katniss
I would wish to live in a place called 'Kinky Town'. Where the leading political party are The Kink Party. Where we all operate on GKT (Greenwich Kink Time.
Keep it Kinky
Quote by the_magik_s
The only way to get noticed is by chatting. I never shut up
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Favourite toys......hell my list is endless
I love anything that vibrates.
Adore lots of things connected to fetish.......floggers,paddles,restraints,
ball gags,crops,ropes etc
My other favourite toys are stuffed giraffes.......often seen on cam in the pool room
:wanker: x
Quote by Cubes
I've just been browsing online looking for something a bit naughty / nice. What's your favourite toy(s)?
:grin:
Quote by hpsaucyy
went to look at hotel prices for the Saturday night and its already fullsad holly, if anyone wants a 19yr old fem to share their room? hahaah
dee x Quote by the_magik_s
Favourite toys......hell my list is endless
I love anything that vibrates.
Adore lots of things connected to fetish.......floggers,paddles,restraints,
ball gags,crops,ropes etc
My other favourite toys are stuffed giraffes.......often seen on cam in the pool room
:wanker: x 
Quote by the_magik_s
Favourite toys......hell my list is endless
I love anything that vibrates.
Adore lots of things connected to fetish.......floggers,paddles,restraints,
ball gags,crops,ropes etc
My other favourite toys are stuffed giraffes.......often seen on cam in the pool room
:wanker: x dee x Quote by Katniss
and ill vouch for Dee as well, although i cant guarantee she will behave as well as i do
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I should be inundated - ugly, old, witty, heart ok whilst it lasts....
ski x
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I've been here since 2006 ish but strangely, either no one remembers me ? or they all want to forget me or with they never met me ...
I can't imagine why....
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Thanks everyone, Now as much a I say I never mention it, every year I do, hoping for a response and a laugh.
Just after my birthday last year we had two family deaths on the same day same place and not really connected, I lost my father and my elder sister 40 mins apart. My old mum died 6 years earlier with three days, although there was a little light because my grand daughter appeared in this world.
Besides my blessed little grand kid, May isn't a great month anymore for me.
Thanks everyone, truly I appreciate your birthday wishes.
Maybe things will be better next one
xxxjw
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4 years ago I came off SwingingHeavenChat without any support,I ignored the advice given to me and went cold turkey, It was initially a struggle, I mean everywhere you go there seems to be a keyboard calling you to pick up and use again.I would be lying if I said I have been compleley abstenant during my so called recovery,I managed to stay away from my chat of choice namely SHC but did succumb to some other lower grade chatrooms Im afraid to say.
These were brief relapses but I knew deep down it was only a matter of time before I returned to my primary habit that is SHC. cunning baffeling and powerful that it is.
I am well and truly back on the merry go round now, my sleep pattern is non exsistend,when I do sleep its with one eye open, the other day I woke up to find I was spooning a laptop. I have not shaved for over a week,I have stopped eating, Im horribly dehydrated my flat looks like a tornado has whipped through it, my inhibitions have flown out the window, god knows what day or time it in all im back in heaven and cant think what on earth I left for in the first place!!!
Recovery be dammed..
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There are some names on that list random orbit what ever happened to him.
Sarge pops up in the forums from time to time I have seen him creep in and out again.
I am still here
I use to love starting new threads. I run out of ideas for new topics
I retired to the fun forums and spend my forum time in there then they merged them all together. So I sneaked back off from when I once came.
I started in the chat rooms and that is where you are more likely to find me these days
