I have had the misfortune of finding out the good and bad side to A/D's.
As with everything in life. Everyone remembers the worst.
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The greatest sex organ in the body is "between your ears." That's right, the brain! hehehehe ....
And if anyone wants to try looking into some BDSM scene, check out They have rooms for folks from all over the world. I am a member there as well, and they, like here, are VERY open about exploring sexuality (I hope no one considers this an advert for that site!).
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To explain a bit further, I think the big problem for me is that it is not always obvious right from the start if everyone is going to enjoy a situation, some people like to give it a go and see whether they enjoy it.
The particular situation that provoked my thoughts more than any was this:-
We had played with a couple at a club, had a lot of fun and they had said how much they wanted to meet up again and how much they liked Charlotte in particular. We'd had a good time so invited them to come over to ours one evening to play some more, they came over and we all had a really good time. However when Charlotte was chatting to them later they said that it was really only her that they were interested in and didn't really want to meet us as a couple again.
Now this wasn't a problem between Charlotte and I as she would happily not play with someone else if i was not happy with it. The problem was that I was gutted at having played all evening with people who if they had been honest would have preferred me not to be there. At the time this really bothered me as I hate the idea of someone putting up with my attentions because they feel they should.
I hope this explains my thoughts a bit more.
Roger.
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Once again Dave, you crack us up :twisted:
We can just see those looks that you give each otherI'm right and you're wrong!!!!!
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Ok, instruction manual!
fasten the black strap around the person's head, with the blue ball in their mouth.
The metal things are nipple clamps attached to the black strap by 12" chains.
I'm hoping it will arrive soon so I can have a good look at it and work out if my mouth is 12" away from my nipples! :shock: Admitedly something I should have checked before buying it......... but I soooo wanted it!
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We drink Banrock, but their red. Is a fave of ours.
Well, we started drinking at midday(ish) when we went over the road, to the pub. We left there about
I had had 4 pints of Grolsch, R had had a pint of Guinness followed by 3 double bloody maries.
We came home, because we have a shed load of housework to do, before the wedding, and I fixed us a glass of red each, then realised we had forgotten to eat. So I cooked us gammon & chips, with a little more vino, natch.
And now we have awoken, we are gonna set to the cleaning. Well, he is anyway. I need to conserve my strength for tonight. ;)