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dundeecpl
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
0 miles · Angus

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I have had the misfortune of finding out the good and bad side to A/D's.
As with everything in life. Everyone remembers the worst.
G x
Quote by satin
meeting blue that day was one of the best things that ever happened :smile2: to me

That is so sweet and i can see where you are coming from hunni smile
G x
not swinging but it might be a really good shag. If you don't do it, you will always be wondering, what if!!!!!!
You have hubbies blessing.
Go for it :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
G x
As blue mentioned, Del and i did meet on the net.
It was on a BD/SM site. We met for fucks and fun at the start but after about 6 months we realised that we had fallen in love with each other.
We started swinging more or less from the start.
It has always been part of our relationship and just feels natural to us.
Gill x
At long last we have managed to inspire someone :twisted:
Quote by SoftPinkRebel
The greatest sex organ in the body is "between your ears." That's right, the brain! hehehehe ....
And if anyone wants to try looking into some BDSM scene, check out They have rooms for folks from all over the world. I am a member there as well, and they, like here, are VERY open about exploring sexuality (I hope no one considers this an advert for that site!).
Soft
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It is a great site. I may be biased though as i met the love of my life on that site :inlove:
G x
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Fluck that :laughabove: :laughabove: .((((((((((((((((GROUP SHAG))))))))))))))))
Bugsy bottom :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by rogerthedragon
To explain a bit further, I think the big problem for me is that it is not always obvious right from the start if everyone is going to enjoy a situation, some people like to give it a go and see whether they enjoy it.
The particular situation that provoked my thoughts more than any was this:-
We had played with a couple at a club, had a lot of fun and they had said how much they wanted to meet up again and how much they liked Charlotte in particular. We'd had a good time so invited them to come over to ours one evening to play some more, they came over and we all had a really good time. However when Charlotte was chatting to them later they said that it was really only her that they were interested in and didn't really want to meet us as a couple again.
Now this wasn't a problem between Charlotte and I as she would happily not play with someone else if i was not happy with it. The problem was that I was gutted at having played all evening with people who if they had been honest would have preferred me not to be there. At the time this really bothered me as I hate the idea of someone putting up with my attentions because they feel they should.
I hope this explains my thoughts a bit more.
Roger.

I think it was a bit unfair of them to say this after the event.
It would have been so much nicer of them to not say anything at all and left it at that.
G & D x
We have started a conversation with a guy in the chatroom that we have actually met. It was only after saying something personal that we realised that it wasn't the same person. redface
Easily confused at times wink
G & D x
We only play if we are both attracted. If either one of us isn't comfortable then we just don't play.
We don't feel let down by this if we decide not to play. It is always a pleaure meeting possible fun partners and always have a laugh.
G & D x
I have stopeed thinking about what people on this site look like as i have a really bad habit of opening mouth before engaging brain. I have been pleasantly surprised by everyone that i have met.
G redface
Quote by Dave__Notts
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Once again Dave, you crack us up :twisted:
We can just see those looks that you give each other wink I'm right and you're wrong!!!!!

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And we know who you mean by that.
Alex_Female = Always right
Dave_Notts = Always wrong
When are you gonna grace us with another visit, you two?
Dave_Notts
Was just thinking about that the other day. Will sort something soon. smile
Gill & Del x
Quickies have there place.
The sex itself might be not that great but the thrill of having a quicky is so worth it :twisted:
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Once again Dave, you crack us up :twisted:
We can just see those looks that you give each other wink I'm right and you're wrong!!!!!
As you know, i have my nip done.
It was painful for quite a while gem. But i can honestly say that it has never become infected or weeped. If you take good care of it and watch who plays with it you shouldn't have any probs. The jewellery used is titanium and is very smooth all over, no jaggy bits at all so no snagging on anything.
Unfortunately you will have people that think that it it is something that they can pull as far as they can and twist it to see if it twists all the way round without snapping off but a short sharp look at them soon stops this!!! if not a clout round the lug soon stops them lol
Was it worth it........ oh yes :twisted:
At least, if you have your nip done, you have another one to play with whilst the pierced one is healing.
Looking forward to seeing your choice hunni :lickface:
G x
Quote by little gem
Ok, instruction manual!
fasten the black strap around the person's head, with the blue ball in their mouth.
The metal things are nipple clamps attached to the black strap by 12" chains.
I'm hoping it will arrive soon so I can have a good look at it and work out if my mouth is 12" away from my nipples! :shock: Admitedly something I should have checked before buying it......... but I soooo wanted it! biggrin

Oooh gem, have you tried clamps like those before??? :scared:
G x
this is my head
Im now on the coffee and paracetamol. Why did you lot not stop me last night mad
xx
Del
Quote by Vix
We drink Banrock, but their red. Is a fave of ours.
Well, we started drinking at midday(ish) when we went over the road, to the pub. We left there about
I had had 4 pints of Grolsch, R had had a pint of Guinness followed by 3 double bloody maries.
We came home, because we have a shed load of housework to do, before the wedding, and I fixed us a glass of red each, then realised we had forgotten to eat. So I cooked us gammon & chips, with a little more vino, natch.
And now we have awoken, we are gonna set to the cleaning. Well, he is anyway. I need to conserve my strength for tonight. ;)

And we talked and drank and talked and I fell asleep and we have not been for our Saturday night sojourn to the pub,, or done any feckin' housework.
you sound like us "sod the housework fun is more important" 3 bottles down and gill cant lift her head off the pillow
xx
Del

p.s. forgot what the p.s. was
Do you think they just get a buzz out of pissing people off?
Does it turn them on knowing that you are sitting waiting for them all raring to go?
I don't know but we had the misfortune of being in a similar situation a couple of weeks back. All we say is it was their loss as we had a brilliant time once we resorted to plan B, lol :twisted:
G & D x