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firedupx2
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 53
Straight Male, 53
0 miles · Gloucestershire
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Sexlightened
Quote by Ian
4) Some new posters who show a bit of promise are nit picked to death and then they dont post.
Forget the people who used to be here and arn't any more. No point dwelling on the past. People move on for many reasons. If they've stopped posting, then the success of the forums must come from expansion and new blood.
Look to the future! I've seen a number of people who I know start posting on one of the forums only to be shot down in flames at the first opportunity by people who ought to know better. For some of those friends it was there last post.
So I see the forum from being strangled from within, and it's also the main reason I don't post very often myself.
Also I find that the few good threads that come along seem to explode. I go to work and its on page 2. Come home and its on page 15, with a dozen more pages added before bed time. I physically can not spend so much time reading the posts, and often any comments I might have are only going to be quoting somebody from way back in the thread and it would look like I'm going over old ground. I wouldn't say slow down... but there are a number of threads where two people seem to be holding a real time conversation with each other. You want to do that guys? use the 'kin chatroom !
The final reason behind my positive abstention from posting is the sometimes overused emoticons.
If I want to see what somebody is saying, I cover up the emoticon. In my book there are too many insults being thrown, and just cos there's a wink at the end of the sentence, that makes it ok?
Right, that should have just about insulted, upset or generally annoyed most people, but if there is still somebody out there with a smile on their face, I apologise, and I'll try and include you next time.
Ian :thumbup:
Sexlightened
hiya lostieeeeeee...hmmmm its a bit like the milk and bread theory in a shop this isnt it lol...i mean u go to shop just wanting some bread and a pint of milk and where is itttttttttttt...ohhhh of course its about 10 aisles in , so you have to walk past all the other enticing goods on offer maybe pick a few items u dont need up get to check out and realise that the bread and milk was blimmin dear when u hand over 15 quid lol ....good marketing tho innit xxxxxxxx
Sexlightened
hi guys brilliant thread...we use our gum clinic on a regular basis and have been quite open with our nurse that we are swingers..but we were surprised when he told us that they had seen a drop in swingers attending the clinic for reg checks in the last 3 yrs...perhaps there are less swingers in our area now or they go somewhere else,or just dont say they swing??we have never been made to feel uncomfortable with our sexual activity there and welcome the advice and resources they hav to offer if needed(loads of free condoms lol)..xx
Sexlightened
Quote by Lost
are we talking the desperate dan syndrome here or what guys lol....when we cam we hate the uninvited whisps and even after you ask them not too whisp they still carry on...come on guys give us cammers a break lol...
lol lostieeee....DO YOU ??????
Saw you on cam tonight do you do ***L 
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Sexlightened
guys can anyone give advice on how to trace a pain in the arse withheld caller to my mobile..hav contacted mobile company and they wont do anything unless 100's of calls made lol, dont want to change my number and why should i bcos of some nutter ...apparantly she is the wife of a guy we hav met but we dont know who she belongs to as they all claim to be single,any help or advice much appreciated thanks..fired xxx
Sexlightened
hiya guys any cples up for some fun and frolics on friday nite in oxon ...easy going laid back cple,that can accom with a friday nite free lol..check us out and let us know ...can find me in chat usually brist/wilts/glos and oxon room if not mail us and will reply asap..come on dont be shy we dont bite much lol !!!!xx
