Now for a bit of advice.... (if I am not presuming to much), unfortunately there are dick heads about, who easily scare off newcomers, Just take it at your pace, don’t be pressured, choose a good spot where you feel safe and comfortable, and don’t be afraid to say "NO" to any who are not respectful of your wishes... enjoy yourself and take time reflect on the first experience to make sure you both enjoyed it and fits what you want…. hopefully you will like the experience and become regulars.
Good luck.... and if you want any more info, just shout!
Frogster
