Quote by mazandden
no.
did you steal my w button????
Er, might have!
Who stole the button???
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Er, might have!
Who stole the button???
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Quote by winchwench
PS the lette between e and t on my keyboad has just packed in- sooo bloody annoying, but hope you can undestand this!
Pefectly :lol:
Now that isan emegency :giggle:
quick i need ugent medical attention- who will help a damsel in distess? i need my * * button back (tied it thee but it didn't wok!)
I feel quite faint- hu y docto!
wenchy- vey impessive!!!
hmmm, methinks i should substitut the lette fo something else??? maybe lette5?
You could always use W as it's close to R and it just makes it sound like a cute speech impediment
Let's hope she doesn't tell ou how highly ou rank
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Quote by mazandden
PS the lette between e and t on my keyboad has just packed in- sooo bloody annoying, but hope you can undestand this!
Pefectly :lol:
Now that isan emegency :giggle:
quick i need ugent medical attention- who will help a damsel in distess? i need my * * button back (tied it thee but it didn't wok!)
I feel quite faint- hu y docto!
wenchy- vey impessive!!!
hmmm, methinks i should substitut the lette fo something else??? maybe lette5?
If you need an ambulance I'll give Hammy a shout for ya! :lol:
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Quote by Phuckers
I think a lot of factors need to be looked - age of child, if parent works or is usually at home, any known allergies, previous medical history, how anxious the child is .... if a medical form has been completed prior to the term commencing, I could go on ....
Yes maybe at 1st glance on reading your post the ambulance should have been called but am sure the school acted in what they thought (given all the circumstances and legislation) was best for the child.... maybe rather than ranting here and finding just cause by the responses to get more irrate why dont you gather the facts and speak to the head teacher ? I am sure any genuine concerns would be dealt with .... I know from experience that some parents would rather they were called than an ambulance for something not life threatening.
Just to go slightly off on a tangent here but .... thank god I dont have kids, no problems with schools and broken arms and no rows with bus companies and children without oyster cards !
I know everyone who has children thinks they are very precious etc but schools and bus companies etc have tens / hundereds of children to think about - everything is done for a reason and usually following a similar incident or the like happening in the past. As a parent you know what you want to happen to your child but a teacher has to try and do this for 30 children and cant do right for doing wrong .... someone else would have said, 'I only live road they corner, I would have brought him, I'm his parent and want to be there not some teacher !'
we dont think,we know they are precious,i would sue the school if my daughter breaks a fingernail and bleeds to death, while they try to ring me but invain...this medical details should be updated and given to school at the begining of every term,the problem with the system is we wait until something awful happens then try impliment quick fit laws
Yes our kids are precious but at what point do you stop wrapping them in cotton wool? Kids need to breath, they fall, they get cuts n bruises n broken limbs. Whats it comimg to when every parent screams litigation? The bloody world has gone bonkers!
well as you've said above common sense must prevail,its the teachers who called the parents not the child so i dont know where the cotton wool treatment is coming from,all teacher should have a first aid certificates not interruting parents with phone calls about cuts and bruises....
I believe School have to call Parents when an incident has occured. Im sure someone will correct me if Im wrong.
The 'cotton wool treatment'as you put it, was mentioned because you mentioned sueing if your child so much as fell down and broke a finger nail and bled to death (which is highly unlikely). I was making the point that you cannot protect your children from everything and in my opinion threatening to sue the school would be bonkers.
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Quote by Phuckers
I think a lot of factors need to be looked - age of child, if parent works or is usually at home, any known allergies, previous medical history, how anxious the child is .... if a medical form has been completed prior to the term commencing, I could go on ....
Yes maybe at 1st glance on reading your post the ambulance should have been called but am sure the school acted in what they thought (given all the circumstances and legislation) was best for the child.... maybe rather than ranting here and finding just cause by the responses to get more irrate why dont you gather the facts and speak to the head teacher ? I am sure any genuine concerns would be dealt with .... I know from experience that some parents would rather they were called than an ambulance for something not life threatening.
Just to go slightly off on a tangent here but .... thank god I dont have kids
I know everyone who has children thinks they are very precious etc but schools and bus companies etc have tens / hundereds of children to think about - everything is done for a reason and usually following a similar incident or the like happening in the past. As a parent you know what you want to happen to your child but a teacher has to try and do this for 30 children and cant do right for doing wrong .... someone else would have said, 'I only live road they corner, I would have brought him, I'm his parent and want to be there not some teacher !'
we dont think,we know they are precious,i would sue the school if my daughter breaks a fingernail and bleeds to death, while they try to ring me but invain...this medical details should be updated and given to school at the begining of every term,the problem with the system is we wait until something awful happens then try impliment quick fit laws
Yes our kids are precious but at what point do you stop wrapping them in cotton wool? Kids need to breath, they fall, they get cuts n bruises n broken limbs. Whats it comimg to when every parent screams litigation? The bloody world has gone bonkers!
And who do you sue when your kid falls n breaks her finger nail n bleeds to death whilst in your care?? Dont even go down the road of 'It wouldnt happen'! It can and does happen, kids have accidents no matter whose care they are in.
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Quote by mazandden
PS the lette between e and t on my keyboad has just packed in- sooo bloody annoying, but hope you can undestand this!
Pefectly :lol:
Now that isan emegency :giggle:
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Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
To teach and show kids common sense you need to have it yourself .... oh yes before someone says the school should do this that and the other, having a child means not only feeding it, clothing it and sending it to school - but also equiping your child for real life.
Going back briefly to the oyster card thingy, I was schooled the other side of the city to where I lived, I had a bus pass (paid for) and have to get 2 buses to school and 2 home again each day - am back at 5pm .... at the time I thought i was hard done by but I learnt very quick to wise up .... you only forget your pass the once and you travel with your mates.
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Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
I think a lot of factors need to be looked - age of child, if parent works or is usually at home, any known allergies, previous medical history, how anxious the child is .... if a medical form has been completed prior to the term commencing, I could go on ....
Yes maybe at 1st glance on reading your post the ambulance should have been called but am sure the school acted in what they thought (given all the circumstances and legislation) was best for the child.... maybe rather than ranting here and finding just cause by the responses to get more irrate why dont you gather the facts and speak to the head teacher ? I am sure any genuine concerns would be dealt with .... I know from experience that some parents would rather they were called than an ambulance for something not life threatening.
Just to go slightly off on a tangent here but .... thank god I dont have kids
I know everyone who has children thinks they are very precious etc but schools and bus companies etc have tens / hundereds of children to think about - everything is done for a reason and usually following a similar incident or the like happening in the past. As a parent you know what you want to happen to your child but a teacher has to try and do this for 30 children and cant do right for doing wrong .... someone else would have said, 'I only live road they corner, I would have brought him, I'm his parent and want to be there not some teacher !'
Like I keep saying, what happened to common sense prevailing?
Thank you, Im pleased its not just me thinking on these lines, I was getting quite worried
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Quote by mazandden
Im at a loss here.
A broken arm is painful and upsetting for a child but its not life threatening and surely it doesent warrant an ambulance. A broken leg maybe...
Who at the school made the decision that after a fall that caused an arm to be fractured in two places, there was no internal bleeding of any kind ?
And if a parent could not be contacted, how long would it have been before the child was taken to hospital .....
AND !! Who the hell was qualified to make the decision that the injury wasn`t life threatening ??
:thumbup: always better to err on the side of caution and in this situation, I don;t see why it wouldn't warrant an ambulance- it could potentially be more serious, ie if vascular or nervous system interrupted.
Always sensible to get paramedic, especially in terms of pain relief that can be administered quickly and safely to a small child who is most likely in distress and someone who is qualified to assess for the danger signs....
Maybe Im just getting old eh!
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Quote by TanKinky
Sometimes the parenting can be perfect and yet kids will still be kids,
In a group they will back chat you or somebody else, it doesnt mean they dont know any respect! it means they are acting big infront of others
Kids are expected by some to be kids and others expect them to be kids acting like grown ups? It doesnt work both ways unfortunately
And yes i was a young when i had my son.
Tan I understand what you are sayingbutwhen we were kids there is no way we would have daredto show disrespect just to look big in front of our mates. We would have got a bloody good hiding when we got home.
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Quote by flower411
Im at a loss here.
A broken arm is painful and upsetting for a child but its not life threatening and surely it doesent warrant an ambulance. A broken leg maybe...
Who at the school made the decision that after a fall that caused an arm to be fractured in two places, there was no internal bleeding of any kind ?
And if a parent could not be contacted, how long would it have been before the child was taken to hospital .....
AND !! Who the hell was qualified to make the decision that the injury wasn`t life threatening ??
Have no clue Flower and I can understand your upset but you didnt say all this originally. Maybe it was pretty obvious to whoever was trained in first aid that it was only a broken arm :dunno:
I wasnt there, I didnt do it, I cant answer your rant! :silly:
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whats this owner changeover deal ive heard mentioned?
When the site was taken over by , a few of us were tempted by the offer of eternal membership. In return, all we had to do was promise to post at least ten loads of bollox per week.
If we fail to meet our quota, we're punished. It starts off with "could not insert search results" and gets progressively worse. The worst punishment is when your hands are tied behind your back and made to read something smutty written by 's right hand woman- Splendid.
Hell hath no fury like that woman's porn.
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whats this owner changeover deal ive heard mentioned?
Since you have been a member here since April 2004 Im suprised you didnt know about the changeover.
Welcome to the Cafe btw.
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Im at a loss here.
A broken arm is painful and upsetting for a child but its not life threatening and surely it doesent warrant an ambulance. A broken leg maybe...
A broken arm is painful and upsetting for a child but its not life threatening and surely it doesent warrant an ambulance. A broken leg maybe...
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Quote by kentswingers777
The only common sense a lot of kids know now is to tell an adult to " fuck off " when you tell them off. They play the system and are very good at it too.
I think thats more down to respect isnt it? Something else that should be taught at home.
So are parents failing their kids and is it the fault of the parents that kids have no common sense or respect?
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Quote by essex34m
I think one thing that is a factor is that kids are having kids, so there is no 'life experience' so to speak.
Im sure theres some truth in that. We have to be careful and not tar all younger parents with the same brush though.
Life experience does come into it, I agree but I also think so has the way they are taught and brought up.
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Quote by fem_4_taboo
are our streets unsafe? well more so now than they used to be?
now im probally saying this as i live in cornwall and i appriciate its nothing like over the border lol
im not sure if i was taught that many survival skills as such as a kid or just that we were left to our own devices more so and from younger and learnt ourselves?
i didnt live in cornwall as a kid btw.
could it be that kids are so over protected that when something does go wrong they dont have a clue what to do? cuse they have never learnt with the easy things?
is it due to so many people fear being sued?
we used to climb trees, make dens, go scrumping, and if we were caught and got a clip round the ear no way would we tell dad as hed give us another. not call 0800nowinnofee.
xxx fem xx
Ive highlighted the first line because yes, Im sure the streets are unsafe and more so than ever before, certainly in the UK. Kids werent killing each other when I was growing up. I think the nearest we got to bullying was name calling and hair pulling.
Our parents taught us to take no notice and walk away.
Which, in my opinion was the common sense approach then.
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Good old fashioned common sense?????
The kicking children off the bus thread has prompted me into thinking and.......
Just a thought but........
Dont parents today teach their children what to do in an emergency?
When I was a child I was taught contingency plans for emergencies and passed my knowledge on when I became a parent.
So for instance, a driver wont let a child on a bus, phone home and no excuses like, no credit or flat battery. We didnt have such things as mobile phones instead, we were taught how to make a reverse charge call for emergency situations if we didnt have any money. Go back into school and explain to a teacher what has happened.
I dont know, I dont want to sound like Im picking on Parents today but what happened to teaching your kids good old fashioned common sense? At least then, you will be safe in the knowledge that if a situation such as the 'bus' one arises, your children will have a clue what to do and who to go to, or at least be able to make a phone call to explain what has happened.
Obviously, you cant plan for every event but armed with a bit of common sense at least the kids will have a fair clue on what to do instead of getting left to wander our unsafe streets alone.
The kicking children off the bus thread has prompted me into thinking and.......
Just a thought but........
Dont parents today teach their children what to do in an emergency?
When I was a child I was taught contingency plans for emergencies and passed my knowledge on when I became a parent.
So for instance, a driver wont let a child on a bus, phone home and no excuses like, no credit or flat battery. We didnt have such things as mobile phones instead, we were taught how to make a reverse charge call for emergency situations if we didnt have any money. Go back into school and explain to a teacher what has happened.
I dont know, I dont want to sound like Im picking on Parents today but what happened to teaching your kids good old fashioned common sense? At least then, you will be safe in the knowledge that if a situation such as the 'bus' one arises, your children will have a clue what to do and who to go to, or at least be able to make a phone call to explain what has happened.
Obviously, you cant plan for every event but armed with a bit of common sense at least the kids will have a fair clue on what to do instead of getting left to wander our unsafe streets alone.
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