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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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what makes me laugh is if everyone stopped smoking this country would collaps, they make so much money off the tax's they don't really want you to stop they just have 2 be seen to care, they would ban the sale of fags if they cared th at much :!:
They banned the sale of duty free fags....why?.....cause they bad for you?.....no!! cause u wasn't paying tax on them :!:
They banned the sale of duty free fags....why?.....cause they bad for you?.....no!! cause u wasn't paying tax on them :!:
its quite a difficult subject to be honest but the fact of the matter is the police did their best to protect this country and we should be thanking them for that, ok mistakes happen and thats sad but what if he had been a bomber and that police officer thought 'oh hes just late for his train' and 10 mins later a bomb went off, what would we all be saying then, at the end of the day he shouldn't have even been in this country and no i am not saying that it was ok to shoot him for that but he wasn't shot for that, he was illegal in this country, he ignored the police officers regueat to stop sho whos fault is it really? .thre police have a very difficult job at the moment and the whole country know that so we have to help them to help us and running from a police officer when asked 2 stop isn't going to help you
Its all about choice tho isn't it, going back to what polo lady was saying about her cancer being hers and not spreading it about u can only spread HIV to those who are willing to catch it, if someone is willing to have unprotected sex with you they know the risks they take and all those who have unprotected sex with them know the risks they take, and if people are willing to take them risks then thats their choice not ours, if people where condoms to protect themselves then the chances are they will be safe, if someone decided to stop smoking to protect themselves then they still have to breath in other peoples fag smoke so are still not totally safe, its swings and roundabouts really you could go on forever, but in short more people die from smoking and drinking each year than not wearing condoms yet drinking and smoking is seen as ok but u mention bearback and theres a uproar on the site :!: you go figure 
Personally i am always a bit surprised to find very young couples who swing, and i know everyone is different but this is just how i see it, at 20 i hadn't been with my partner very long and i just feel at that age i was still learning about him and indeed myself to be bothered about bringing others inot our sex lifes, we had been together for about 10 years b4 we started swinging, mainly cause after 10 years we was running out of things to do and we just needed something a bit different in our sex lifes to keep it alive, i just felt at 20 i didn't need that.
So altho i have nothing against younger couples who swing, indeed anyone who swings at any age, i personally am just surprised that very young couples feel the need to swing, i was approches by a couple who was 19 and 20 i think they was, looking for a older women for a 3sum and to me i just thought, (and i feel i will get a bollocking by many younger people for saying this but what the hell lol) what can they at that age possabily know about sex that i would be interested in, cause i looked back at me at that ages and tho at the times i thought i was the best shag about realise now i knew sod all, and when i asked why they was looking for someone of my ages they said and i quote, cause people our age arn't as good as sex :!:
Anyway thats my bit over best go and get brekky lol
So altho i have nothing against younger couples who swing, indeed anyone who swings at any age, i personally am just surprised that very young couples feel the need to swing, i was approches by a couple who was 19 and 20 i think they was, looking for a older women for a 3sum and to me i just thought, (and i feel i will get a bollocking by many younger people for saying this but what the hell lol) what can they at that age possabily know about sex that i would be interested in, cause i looked back at me at that ages and tho at the times i thought i was the best shag about realise now i knew sod all, and when i asked why they was looking for someone of my ages they said and i quote, cause people our age arn't as good as sex :!:
Anyway thats my bit over best go and get brekky lol
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However if you didn't want to have sex with him, you shouldn't have. If he forced you, it would have been and you could have reported him.
thats very easy to say from ur point of view but firstly if someone rapes u reporting him don't make it go away does it? and secondly what court in this country is going 2 take a woman serious saying she was by a guy she met in a swingers room? as i said in my first post me was very pushy and made me uneasy and i was afraid to say no so just going along with it to get him out the house seemed the safest option, being a man u wont really understand how that feel as the chances are no women u meet on here will ever put u in that possition.
i have to admit if i had the money i would have the full works, i'd have my face re done and my body done, i hate the way i look ever since i had the kids my bellys baggy and nothing seems to get rid of it, plus the streatch marks and i'm over weight and all i sem to do is spend my life loosing weight and putting it back on, plus i'm ugly which is something i can't really do anything about, so hell yes if i could afford it i would buy myself the perfect body and a beautiful face, and fair play to those who do, why be unhappy with ur looks if u don't have to be?
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yes i agree i could be missing out but thats my choice, having sex with someone cause u was to scared to say no is more than a bad experience in my books and its not a possition i am willing to put myself in again, ok some some asian guys my be westernised but how 2 u know till u have met them? u don't so not meeting is a easier option isn't it? and b4 anyone asks if i had the same experience with a man of another culture yes i would have done the same
Yeah, I can understand why you feel so strongly about it and IMO you are entitled to feel that way. However there are men like that in all cultures and to say that you would have acted the same if the man were from another culture is fair enough. But if you did act the same towards all men of all cultures then you'd probably end up not going with men of any race at all!!
Do you get what I mean or does it sound stoopid? 
no i fully understand what u are saying and if i did meet enough guys like that then i would stop swinging, swinging is supposed 2 be fun, ur not supposed 2 feel scared when u meet people, but he is the only guy i have ever felt that way about and the way i swing now works for me so i'm happy to stick with it lol
and if that fails just meet girls
that an offer?
have 2 say the thread starters gone very quiet he asks a Q then bogs off lol
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yes i agree i could be missing out but thats my choice, having sex with someone cause u was to scared to say no is more than a bad experience in my books and its not a possition i am willing to put myself in again, ok some some asian guys my be westernised but how 2 u know till u have met them? u don't so not meeting is a easier option isn't it? and b4 anyone asks if i had the same experience with a man of another culture yes i would have done the same
Yeah, I can understand why you feel so strongly about it and IMO you are entitled to feel that way. However there are men like that in all cultures and to say that you would have acted the same if the man were from another culture is fair enough. But if you did act the same towards all men of all cultures then you'd probably end up not going with men of any race at all!!
Do you get what I mean or does it sound stoopid? no i fully understand what u are saying and if i did meet enough guys like that then i would stop swinging, swinging is supposed 2 be fun, ur not supposed 2 feel scared when u meet people, but he is the only guy i have ever felt that way about and the way i swing now works for me so i'm happy to stick with it lol
yes i agree i could be missing out but thats my choice, having sex with someone cause u was to scared to say no is more than a bad experience in my books and its not a possition i am willing to put myself in again, ok some some asian guys my be westernised but how 2 u know till u have met them? u don't so not meeting is a easier option isn't it? and b4 anyone asks if i had the same experience with a man of another culture yes i would have done the same
Right i am going to be honest here
I am not racest but i will not meet asian men
simple because i met a indian guy once (see not racest or wouldn't have met him lol) and he was so horrable, the way he spoke to me etc its just really put me off ever meeting another, simple as that.
He sat in MY house and told me how he wouldn't meet a asian women cause they was above all that and indian women should save themselves for their hubbies and get married and raise a family but it was ok to meet me cause i was while and our standards was not as good as 'their' womens!! he was really pushy spoke to me like i had no say in the matter cause he was the guy and to be totally honest i did have sex with him simple cause i was afraid to say no, as we was alone in my house, but even during sex he did nothing just layed there and made me do all the work!!
so sorry to say even tho i have nothing against asian men as friends, where i live it has a high asian community so i know many asian people but sexually i do stay away from them
I am not racest but i will not meet asian men
simple because i met a indian guy once (see not racest or wouldn't have met him lol) and he was so horrable, the way he spoke to me etc its just really put me off ever meeting another, simple as that.
He sat in MY house and told me how he wouldn't meet a asian women cause they was above all that and indian women should save themselves for their hubbies and get married and raise a family but it was ok to meet me cause i was while and our standards was not as good as 'their' womens!! he was really pushy spoke to me like i had no say in the matter cause he was the guy and to be totally honest i did have sex with him simple cause i was afraid to say no, as we was alone in my house, but even during sex he did nothing just layed there and made me do all the work!!
so sorry to say even tho i have nothing against asian men as friends, where i live it has a high asian community so i know many asian people but sexually i do stay away from them
