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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
My ex boyfriend insisted on a 3sum - 2 girls and him of course!!!
I was a little weary about it. But in typical 21 year old reticence I agreed to, because I thought it would help our relationship!!!!
So he asked a girl he worked with, who bizarrly enough agreed - we had a few drinks, and we ended up in bed!!! So far so good.
2 hours later, I'm having the time of my life, lots of,
, etc, my boyfriend walks out because he kept trying to get involved, and I kept telling him to f**k off!!!
He didnt talk to me for 3 days, and we split up 2 weeks later, after he told all our friends that I was a !!!
Over the next few years I had a couple of relationships, male and female, and my last boyfriend introduced me to dogging. When we split, I googled dogging, and found SH. The rest as they say is history
That's fucking classic ! You go girlfriend ! :thumbup:
PMSL i've heard stories like that so many times before, where the guy put pressure on 'his woman' to swing and they end up having a better time than him and/or end up leaving him for the person he talked her into swinging with in the first place my fave experiance was a cpl we met once where he was all for it but she was a little nervous but she ended up having a ball to the point he couldn't even get a hard on cause i think it took him back just how much she took to it and how she got all the attention he obviously wanted, anyway a cpl days later i was chatting to him on a chat room on a m8s name, whos house i was at, he didn't know it was me and was telling me how they had tryed as a couple but his mrs didn't really like it so now he meets alone :shock:
i only think its selfish if the you expected your wife to let women do things to her but if she let the women carry on cause she was happy with it and you asked the guy to stop cause you wasn't then no thats not selfish, personally i would have asked how comes he asked your wife and not you :shock:
Actually we got into swinging tho a total time waster, after just getting my first taste of the internet many moons ago i got chatting to a couple who told us they was into swinging, we talked about it for a while and after many months of talking, not just about sex just chatting as friends as they knew we wasn't swingers, we decided to go and meet them and see how things went, on suggesting this to them the guy finally admitted he was a single male and didn't even swing he just liked the sex chat 
so then we though, well there must be people who really do this
found a swinging site that shall remaind namless and history was made it was quite diffarent back then tho as most of the swinging sites tended to be just adds where you send messages there was no forums or chat rooms so it was hard to get a real feel for people, but then we found the msn chat rooms which was much better and then sites such as this one 
just chatting as friends as they knew we wasn't swingers, we decided to go and meet them and see how things went, on suggesting this to them the guy finally admitted he was a single male and didn't even swing he just liked the sex chat so then we though, well there must be people who really do this
found a swinging site that shall remaind namless and history was made it was quite diffarent back then tho as most of the swinging sites tended to be just adds where you send messages there was no forums or chat rooms so it was hard to get a real feel for people, but then we found the msn chat rooms which was much better and then sites such as this one Quote by sercher01
brill fab gr8 fantastic
what more can b sed apart from a big thank you to wrats
you mean you actually remember anything from that night? :shock:
Thank you to the staggys for inviting us, i had a great night
and here to many happy years together
Quote by dundeecpl
p.s i am still blushing after being taken in by a certain naughty lady!!!!!
I have to agree in some ways i have been in the chat room many times and had conversation with people i know but as soon as i put the cam on every guy in there seems to chat and when i turn the cam off they stop lol
But all that proves it who ther ones who are genually after a meet are and tho who arn't so i see it as a good way to sort out those who are after the same as me and those who arn't
But all that proves it who ther ones who are genually after a meet are and tho who arn't so i see it as a good way to sort out those who are after the same as me and those who arn't
Quote by markandnicky
why do guys sit on cam at any hour of the day and just knock on off the wrist?????????
no women teasinbg or couples playing, male cam on, tossing one off.
Do guys really think that this is going to entice couples and fems to meet them???????
anyone any view on this????????
maybe they not looking for fems and couples to meet
maybe they after other men or just like wanking on cam, everyone comes on here for tgeir own reasons, maybe some men watch you on cam thinking "why the hell they doing that"
live and let live i say if they want to wank what harm are they doing you?
Firstly and obviously i can't and wouldn't name names anyway, i find it quite amusing how many people come on these threads and go on about how daft you would have to be to go bare back when i know damn well they do, but that aside its a persnal choice isn't it?
If i decide to shag some guy without a condom what harm is it doing you?
as adults we know the risks we are taking and if some of us decide we want to take that risk then thats their choice surely?
so long as you protect yourself the best you can what others do is upto them, condoms can split or come off at any given time so noone who swings are really safe we all take the gamble really
If i decide to shag some guy without a condom what harm is it doing you?
as adults we know the risks we are taking and if some of us decide we want to take that risk then thats their choice surely?
so long as you protect yourself the best you can what others do is upto them, condoms can split or come off at any given time so noone who swings are really safe we all take the gamble really
Quote by Reikiradical
I have been vasectomised for the past ten years, but I reserve bareback only for a few VERY close and trusted people. As far as I am concerned std's are a real no no, and well, by the very nature of the swinging lifestyle we are a high risk group.
My partner and I usually play in a small, closely defined circle, any contacts outside this group are definatey non-bareback.
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but how do you know the other people in this close circle are doing the same? it only takes 1 of you to go bareback and they could infect the whole group, do you really trust your health on someones elses say so?
I personally wouldn't base my meet on wether someones had the snip or not :shock:
surley any women whos in this game is taking birth control even if they do use condoms after all accidents happen and i think you'd be pretty foolish to swing not using some form or birth control, my hubbies had the snip and i honestly do think its a question hes ever asked by women who want to meet him
so all in all i think my answer to you question is no
surley any women whos in this game is taking birth control even if they do use condoms after all accidents happen and i think you'd be pretty foolish to swing not using some form or birth control, my hubbies had the snip and i honestly do think its a question hes ever asked by women who want to meet him
so all in all i think my answer to you question is no
Quote by warwick
i miss her but dont tell her
to late already seen it ;)
aww had a right pain with the internet connection should be sorted out soon tho, got me thinking tho over the past week.....what did we ever do b4 the internet!!
Poor sleazys pacing cause he can't get on, my eldest kids gone grey :shock: my nippers bugging me cause she can't understand why she can't go on the barbie site when the pcs are still there
and i'm just borted out my head even nipped down to the library to use their pc lolGot out the monopaly other day in a sudden fit of insperation to keep the family entertained and my kids looked at me like i was mad i swear they was looking for the power cable on it lol
Anyway best keep it short not sure they approve of you using their pcs for such sites in here, nice to know you love me really tho warwick ;)
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to steve you comment didn't go un noticed Quote by sercher01
...but by getting some banter back and forth either in chat or forum I already feel a little kinship with the person/couple if that makes sense as opossed to an out of the blue "hey, you wanna meet me this Saturday" from someone who I havent even read anything from....
you're not on your own Abi :thumbup:
got to agree with this m8 !
get postin an get yourself known
an what polo sed
an what NN sed
an what meaty sed
u buggers never told me this lot? :shock:
just took me to a bloody munch an didnt tell me what was goin to happen???? :shock: :shock: :shock:
and you hated every min of it
Quote by Abilene
Personally i'd say no, when i meet a guy as a single women i don't really see it as swinging its just a shag surly
Have to say I agree with you there. Although I dont view every encounter I have with a single guy as just a 'shag' but thats the old romantic in me ... ssshhhhh ... dont tell anyone. lol
lol you secarets sae with me
you know what i mean tho, i hope
See i think this is where a lot of guys get it wrong they see swinging as a means of getting a easy lay, i know this cause i have spoken to a lot who had admitted this, one said to me once that he had joined this site cause he though all the women were sluts and would get loads of local women offering :shock: but he found it easier to pick up at a pub, which to be honest i think is true, most women on here are not a easy lay and i know very very few who will meet single men, well just 1 single guy anyway
Quote by goose35
Swinging is recreational sex between adults it doesn't matter how many or what sex.
now you see i really can't see where your coming from on this one cause if that was the case everyone would be swingers? or are you just swingers if you meet on a swingers site and say you are?
I means lets face it 90% of the male population wouldn't turn down no strings sex if it was offered them on a plate are they all swingers?
Personally i'd say no, when i meet a guy as a single women i don't really see it as swinging its just a shag surly
speaking as a fuller figured women myself i can assur you if your mrs wants something like a basque or corset she most likely will be paying £50 + for it, most shops think if your over a size 12 you should wear granny knickers so if you want something out of the norm, ie sexy underwear for larger ladies, you will pay thro the nose for it and most probabily get it off the net i'm afraid 
could always try ebay :thumbup:
so if you want something out of the norm, ie sexy underwear for larger ladies, you will pay thro the nose for it and most probabily get it off the net i'm afraid could always try ebay :thumbup:
