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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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i havn't posted a reply as i had posted on another site and didn't want to just keep repeating myself
If you need time out take it m8 your friends will still be here for you kiss
I havn't read all the posts but have had a qucik skim thro
I do agree that the site has gone down hill, i hardly ever post on here anymore and for someone who knocked up over 5000 posts in less than a year that a pretty big thing lol
the only reason i stay a member is because of the munches (i'm being honest here) i do not feel the need to come in to chat to m8s as all of the regulars are on new sites anyway, like many it saddens me to see what has happened here, this once was a great site and is now full of single guys spamming one liner shag requests to every womens in box, yes guys us women do speak to each other you know wink
but saying that i always have and still do respect the mods for the thankless job they do, and even thro all this they have still done their best and you can't ask for any more than that
Quote by easyease
were all just nosy buggers when it comes to other peoples sex lives tho lol

i'm not i don't even take a interest in my own lol
Quote by fabio grooverider
okay... to add a bit of perspective here..... the average dress size of the u.k woman is now a size 16........
so i suppose what people use to term as "large" may not be what it one was......

a size 16 will always be a size 16, all because women are getting bigger that don't mean a size 16 is not large anymore that just means their's more big women to fill it lol
Quote by gr8sex
F.A.O BlueXXX. You have hit the nail on the head. Relationship therapy is something that will help and as for trying to get some for free, I don't believe in freebees. In my opinion there is no such thing as free. Did a search and found some good contacts. Thx again bluexxx for bringing therapy to my attention.

the problem with theropy is that if she does not see her lack of interest in sex as a problem the chances are she wont go, some people are happy to live in a sexless relationship and don't want help to boost their sex drives
Quote by gr8sex
NO, i'm not here for a sympathy shag.
If that is what i was after, then i'd had gone to my local. I don't think i'll have a prob pulling. Unfortunately its hard to get decent advice there lol.
She is aware that i'm on here. (SEEKING advice - lol)

the problem why you find it hard to get decent advice is cause your not asking the right kinda questions for a swinging site.
Many people on here have a good sex life and want to involve others, taking that into account why would we know how to get your wife interested in having sex with you, let alone anyone else?
Quote by andy63
Any sexy mature women out there want to give a young, clean, fit healthy fella a good seeing to?!!

so is 63 your age or the year you was born? wink
Quote by gingerminge38
Paid me fifty squids to join this site because I became totally bored with the hum-drum of the Lycos/LIM scene. Met a few nice women there, but it seems that you pays for what you gets. These free/cheap sites are a-wash with middle aged woman with out of date photo's looking for an ego massage. The one's who post saucy pics of them selves would on the face of it seem up for it but alas it's not the case in many instances (not just cos of me if you're thinking that !). So I figured after the 3 years I've spent messing around I'd join a real site with women that actually require something more than a full inbox. Anyway there's my spin... PM me if you're interested...

new flash!!!!
all cause you payed £50 don't mean your going to get a shag
infact if anything posts like that will put people off meeting
many people on here have been here for years and have established a friendship so women arn't likely to meet a moaning newbie when they have 'friends' already
If you think this is a quick shag site you are very wrong, tho theres nothing wrong with a quick shag wink but i very very much doubt you will get it here
Quote by JudyTV

Hence the sewing machine is constantly on my kitchen Table.
Judy

ohhh do you sew?
giz your address i have loads of stuff that needs doing lol
size meas nothing really cause a size 18 could look big on someone and not on others, i have a friends whos 6ft and a size 18 and does not look fat at all, but on someone 5ft a size 18 would look compleatly diffarent, just goes on the individual really, just look at someone and decide for yourself if they small, mdium or larger wink
i think most pople have times when they just can't be arsed
i have been to clubs all fired up for a good night, got there and though...i just can't be bothered tonight :shock:
think it depends on many things like how much sleep you've had, having a good diet etc if you don't eat right and have to many late nights your energy level just drops i find
or am i just getting all techical now? lol
Quote by JudyTV
We call these Real & Rare women "ANGELS"
yes thet do exhist but they are as rare as rocking horse droppings
wink

Are they bollocks rare. You've just been looking in all the wrong places rolleyes rolleyes rolleyes
I so love the way you explain things so sweetly, your gentleness overwhelms me at times. wink
yep have to admit you have some way with words there lol
Quote by Marcuso
naughtynymphos1 + sleazy Pair of nutters, but brilliant people (you only won the race cos you have a 4x4 and went down the steep hill.....lol)

and because we knew the way wink
Quote by bluexxx
Bring it on ---- bi-guys.... much more fun to be had all round............. 8 bi guys in a daisy chain - the stuff that dreams are made of :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: . Straight groups are boring in comparison.

i agree :thumbup:
sorry but i have got to say...what a bloody stupid post :!:
are you seriously saying if i posted a add saying i was looking for a single guy in his 30's of avarage build that means i should meet every single guy in his 30s of avarage build that contacts me?
they are just starting points of course your going to say no if you don't fancy them after seeing a pic :shock:
what you supposed to do? meet them anyway just cause you spoke to them and 'got their hopes up'?
dear oh dear i dunno lol
we all get turned down love its all part of swinging
Quote by Fun Scottish Couple
Actually this is a popular misconception that annoys me. I often read swinger profiles where a couple writes something like " is straight therefore no bi males"...
WTF? Being bisexual doesn't mean you have to have sex with every member of the same sex you come into contact with! We can play straight just as easily as straight people do!
Although, give me a bi threesome over a straight one any day....
Back on topic, Miss Rabbit is unfortunately tucked up in bed with a cold right now but if she was here she'd say bi guys definitely turn her on, in fact it's her favourite thing.

Can i ask why its a misconception and why it annoys you, i thought it was all about peoples own choices and preferences, i think those comments are a bit harsh because someone dosen't have the same opinion as yourself, and like you said you'd have a bi threesome anyday over a straight one, well thats your choice so why does it annoy you when i say i preferer a straight one?
actually i have to say i agree with RR all because someone is bi that does not mean they want to jump everyones bones whos the same sex, the bi guy may not even fancy the guy from the cpl for a start lol
Quote by da69ve
well if you leave the site that'll be one less man looking and will even the odd a little for the rest of them :grin:

Now that was evil!! lol
be honest did you really expect any diffarent coming from me? wink
Quote by Nik64
Hi,
How does a genuine single fella get a date around here, lol? :idea:
Serious replies appreciated, thank you! wink
Nik x

join the queue like the rest of them lol
Quote by Dirtydinner
A piece of advise. Write more than one line

thats clearly 2 lines whats up with you people lol
i only got one and that was a bottle of bacardi so i wrapped it up and put it in marcuso's secaret santa sack last night :thumbup:
and going by some of the pressies in there i wasn't the only one lol
well if you leave the site that'll be one less man looking and will even the odd a little for the rest of them :grin: