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Put our names down please T we were gutted to miss the last one. Ta J & J :taz:

Quote by BIokethink a few ppl might of been scared pooless as ya humour the way it cums owa in say the chat room at one social where me and g another cpl met up with you and di for a pre social meal the crack and storys was so funny as fook and to me just a another funny witty and really intelligent person and really a joy to nar and to call a real freind but then again a cany few have said same boot me as sum humour ppls cant seem to read unless you actually meet the person same here i have thought about ppl till we met them
After a chat with a friend the other evening on here about how some people here seem to use the site to create a persona for themselves that in real life, they just don't live up to, I thought it might be useful topic for debate
From my experience, if I think somebody is acting or appears to lack authenticity, what tends to happen with me is that I get suspicious, start to ask a million questions, get cynical about who they really are and what's driving it. I tend to look at HOW people say things as opposed to WHAT they say and when one plus one just don't seem to two, I get curiousI'm NOT talking about people who don't look like what you thought they might, more people who really don't ACT like what you thought they might - good and/or bad
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Having been to several socials off here and met a few decent people I hope I come across in real life pretty much the same as I do on here - i.e. I can string a sentence, have manners (a Liverpudlian version of them anyway), debate with others without getting emotional/personal most of the time and have fun along the way. I've seen a few folk who I thought might be quiet really 'come into their own' in the real world and have been pleasantly surprised. However, I've also seen (and heard) of others who 'big themselves up' and then seem to under-deliver when it comes to matching their online persona in the real world.
I guess a lot of it comes down to perception, although I do believe we each carve our own path to some degree... apparently, to some, I can appear quite scary on here but I hope those who have met me will vouch for that fact that I don't REALLY pounce on people's 'straight' husbands and bi boyfriends (much) :rascal:
I DON'T want this to become a thread about who let who down and please don't let's get personal - more about how each of us read certain behaviours etc etc
Any thoughts?
BIoke :P x
Quote by BIokehehe i like this 1 arl i have to de it get sumit to rhyme with chip
"Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday dear mr nec...
Happy birthday to you!" :P
May the fruits of your lovely loins be ever flowing and the sperm of the devil's son never darken your bumhole :rascal:
BIoke x