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I am also fully cunni lingual.
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Sandie
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Allgood and Jags
We await the story.
Jags should then mark it out of ten but be ready to stand in the corner and get the cane should it not be more than 8 out of 10.
Do not forget the cap and gown Jags, the mind boggles :lol: :lol:
I wish jags had been my teacher.
:wink: :wink:
Sandie
Public school boy
We await the story.
Jags should then mark it out of ten but be ready to stand in the corner and get the cane should it not be more than 8 out of 10.
Do not forget the cap and gown Jags, the mind boggles
:lol: :lol: I wish jags had been my teacher.
:wink: :wink: Sandie
Public school boy
Yes
I am also salivating Jags, waiting for the story.
You could then give me a personal exam :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
On the content of the story.
Or you could take DICKtation and I will be your pupil :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
Sorry Public School humour.
Love you.
Sandie
I am also salivating Jags, waiting for the story.
You could then give me a personal exam
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: On the content of the story.
Or you could take DICKtation and I will be your pupil :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
Sorry Public School humour.
Love you.
Sandie
Jomu
I agree.
Everybody needs to lighten up.
Dogging should be fun not done out of desperation.
I have had success because I wait and watch from the car until a couple arrive and indicate a signal I usually then leave my interior light on until asked.
If they do not ask then I wait a while and move on and leave.
So many car parks are full of doggers just circling cars on foot trying to act subtle???. But in reality all we see is loads of men approaching darkened cars and this is a desperate move the couple see it and the patient doggers in the cars see it and the couple on many occasions just drive off.
Subtlety and calm patience is key here.
Also fellow doggers you do not have the god given right to success just because you drive into a dogging car park.
If you cannot control your horny feelings go to a massage parlour or buy a porno anxiety and tension shows through by stupid actions.
The experiences I have had with couples has been when I have accepted nothing is going to happen and just left my light on and I have been approached and invited.
Once invited always make sure the husband /BF is happy and ask all the time if it is Ok to do certain things do not assume.
Every time we have all parted fulfilled and happy and everyone has been respected and the whole experience is a laugh and a good time for all.
Doggers, go to the sites expecting nothing and you will remain happy otherwise you will beat yourself up due to long waits and failure which will only add to the frustration.
After all you are trying to have sex with complete strangers who maybe are up and looking for it but that does not mean they have to choose you.
Keep it fun and we all succeed, otherwise if this current single guy behaviour continues couples will not go to certain sites any longer.
Example :-
Last night I waited 4 hours at a site in Norfolk (sad I know) but it was because I was waiting to meet a girl I know in the Midlands who eventually turned up and I drove off with her.
I observed 30 single guy cars and not one couple turned up in the whole 4 car was constantly driving up and down with lights on instead of sitting and waiting and was clearly desperate.
The whole scene became laughable.
Think otherwise we will kill off the spontanaity of it all and the fun.
Thanks for reading and apologise for the lecture.
Let me have your thoughts.
Sandie
I agree.
Everybody needs to lighten up.
Dogging should be fun not done out of desperation.
I have had success because I wait and watch from the car until a couple arrive and indicate a signal I usually then leave my interior light on until asked.
If they do not ask then I wait a while and move on and leave.
So many car parks are full of doggers just circling cars on foot trying to act subtle???. But in reality all we see is loads of men approaching darkened cars and this is a desperate move the couple see it and the patient doggers in the cars see it and the couple on many occasions just drive off.
Subtlety and calm patience is key here.
Also fellow doggers you do not have the god given right to success just because you drive into a dogging car park.
If you cannot control your horny feelings go to a massage parlour or buy a porno anxiety and tension shows through by stupid actions.
The experiences I have had with couples has been when I have accepted nothing is going to happen and just left my light on and I have been approached and invited.
Once invited always make sure the husband /BF is happy and ask all the time if it is Ok to do certain things do not assume.
Every time we have all parted fulfilled and happy and everyone has been respected and the whole experience is a laugh and a good time for all.
Doggers, go to the sites expecting nothing and you will remain happy otherwise you will beat yourself up due to long waits and failure which will only add to the frustration.
After all you are trying to have sex with complete strangers who maybe are up and looking for it but that does not mean they have to choose you.
Keep it fun and we all succeed, otherwise if this current single guy behaviour continues couples will not go to certain sites any longer.
Example :-
Last night I waited 4 hours at a site in Norfolk (sad I know) but it was because I was waiting to meet a girl I know in the Midlands who eventually turned up and I drove off with her.
I observed 30 single guy cars and not one couple turned up in the whole 4 car was constantly driving up and down with lights on instead of sitting and waiting and was clearly desperate.
The whole scene became laughable.
Think otherwise we will kill off the spontanaity of it all and the fun.
Thanks for reading and apologise for the lecture.
Let me have your thoughts.
Sandie
HI Jags
Public School boy here, read all the classics.
My philsophy is if you look nice and are fun and can make laughter and chat then you will have a fulfilling life.
I always get the girl based on chat and laughter.
I also travel the world and live life.
I can also challenge anyone to a debate on current affairs.
"Beauty is only skin deep"
Give me more of your mind and body I am not looking for a plastic barbie doll, how boring!!
I have my own teeth and hair and look good for 43 but I want people to like me for me.
The we can get on to the "Damian gan pullen up the smock and then he throng"
Chaucer but you should know that.
Love ya!
Sandie
Public School boy here, read all the classics.
My philsophy is if you look nice and are fun and can make laughter and chat then you will have a fulfilling life.
I always get the girl based on chat and laughter.
I also travel the world and live life.
I can also challenge anyone to a debate on current affairs.
"Beauty is only skin deep"
Give me more of your mind and body I am not looking for a plastic barbie doll, how boring!!
I have my own teeth and hair and look good for 43 but I want people to like me for me.
The we can get on to the "Damian gan pullen up the smock and then he throng"
Chaucer but you should know that.
Love ya!
Sandie
I agree with all the above.
Scratchwood is no good anymore very pressured with many gays(unless this is your thing).
I have scratched (get it) off my list, do not bother going there every time it has been a waste of time and I avoid it like the plague.
I have always been the patient type who sits in the car and awaits the known signals and because of this have been rewarded on many occasions by decent fun couples.
Take care
Sandie
Scratchwood is no good anymore very pressured with many gays(unless this is your thing).
I have scratched (get it) off my list, do not bother going there every time it has been a waste of time and I avoid it like the plague.
I have always been the patient type who sits in the car and awaits the known signals and because of this have been rewarded on many occasions by decent fun couples.
Take care
Sandie
HI Mark
This article is going to be intriguing.
I would expect it to be fair and honest and to put swinging in a good light.
After all it is consenting adults looking for that extra bit of fun with no strings attached.
In a lot of cases I bet it is helping relationships by spicing the whole monogamy thing up a bit.
I know from the experiences I have had that I have never caused a days offence to anyone and definately not killed anyones relationship.
Perhaps the journalist for research purposes should try swinging and dogging herself so that she is talking from experience any helpers here?
Thanks
Sandie
This article is going to be intriguing.
I would expect it to be fair and honest and to put swinging in a good light.
After all it is consenting adults looking for that extra bit of fun with no strings attached.
In a lot of cases I bet it is helping relationships by spicing the whole monogamy thing up a bit.
I know from the experiences I have had that I have never caused a days offence to anyone and definately not killed anyones relationship.
Perhaps the journalist for research purposes should try swinging and dogging herself so that she is talking from experience any helpers here?
Thanks
Sandie
Hi Jags
No dogging bank holiday yet.
I am actively dogging with success.
Especially last Saturday in Kent.
I enjoy licking out the ladies and giving more than receiving.
If the lady is fun and not serious and the" BF or husband agrees then I will please."
That rhymes!
I do this for fun and laughs only.
Enjoy the sun
Sandie
No dogging bank holiday yet.
I am actively dogging with success.
Especially last Saturday in Kent.
I enjoy licking out the ladies and giving more than receiving.
If the lady is fun and not serious and the" BF or husband agrees then I will please."
That rhymes!
I do this for fun and laughs only.
Enjoy the sun
Sandie
HI Mark and Linda
I had agreat experience last Saturday see the Dogging board under Herts/Kent article.
I followed the rules exactly as you state today and it worked.
It was great fun and the couple were the nicest people you could wish to meet.
I enjoyed giving more than receiving because the lady was so responsive.
I am married but my wife is not at present into this and I do this purely for fun not desperation and the relaxed approached meant we all had a good time and a lot of laughs along the way.
I would love to repeat this sometime and maybe a meet with you two would be a laugh.
I note however you are from the north although I do travel.
Take care and enjoy the sun.
Sandie
I had agreat experience last Saturday see the Dogging board under Herts/Kent article.
I followed the rules exactly as you state today and it worked.
It was great fun and the couple were the nicest people you could wish to meet.
I enjoyed giving more than receiving because the lady was so responsive.
I am married but my wife is not at present into this and I do this purely for fun not desperation and the relaxed approached meant we all had a good time and a lot of laughs along the way.
I would love to repeat this sometime and maybe a meet with you two would be a laugh.
I note however you are from the north although I do travel.
Take care and enjoy the sun.
Sandie
Tammy
I have PM 'd you during the week.
I will be happy to meet with you and your BF.
No pressure,No def action but for a laugh if you want.
If you want some more we can take it from there.
I am happily married and do this for extra fun and respect all limits not desperation and am not into relationship killing.
I can travel to Herts, Essex,Kent.
My experience last Saturday was in Kent.
As I said great fun.
Let me know if you want to meet up.
Enjoy the sun.
Sandie
I have PM 'd you during the week.
I will be happy to meet with you and your BF.
No pressure,No def action but for a laugh if you want.
If you want some more we can take it from there.
I am happily married and do this for extra fun and respect all limits not desperation and am not into relationship killing.
I can travel to Herts, Essex,Kent.
My experience last Saturday was in Kent.
As I said great fun.
Let me know if you want to meet up.
Enjoy the sun.
Sandie
Hi all
I had a very successful dogging experience on Saturday night.
I went to a popular dogging site and waited for approx 1 hour at circa 10PM there were a few cars there.
All I did was sit with my interior light on and listen to my radio and observe who was coming in I did not cruise the car park or walk round the couples car.
At approx 11PM one of the single males approached my car and gently said that I have been invited to a show at the end of the car park as there is a couple in a large vehicle waiting.
I got out of my car and went to the car and asked are they sure it is Ok? the husband said yes and the wife was already laying back with her legs open and ready.
There were three single guys including me and the husband and the wife and we had a great time.
The wife was very responsive and throughout I asked was it Ok to do certain things and she said yes but I asked first.
As we all started we realised the car park was gettting busy so we relocated somewhere else near and more discreet.
We left the current car park in convoy but were able to leave without the huge crowd and the original 5 people arrived at the location.
We had great fun a lot of laughs and finished satisified.
We then had a friendly chat and we all left with the couple thanking us and the wife kissing us goodbye.
A nicer couple you could not wish to meet ,and the wife had a fabulous figure.
The reason for this story is this is my opinion of a true dogging encounter carried out in the spirit of fun with consenting adults.
I in fact had more fun giving pleasure to the wife than receiving because she was so kind and responsive.I also respected the husband who was clearly and kind and caring man.
Now the lecture part coming up .
Do not doggers crowd round the cars or drive next to the car with the couple in on Saturday before my encounter in the original car park 2 missed opportunities occured by cars clearly moving directly next to potential couples who had not signalled and they drove off immediately.
I believe had they been a little more patient then they may have got some action.
Desperation shows a mile off and running to cars that enter a car park on seeing a couple or hearing female voice is just desperate.
At least wait for the interior light flash and approach and be polite and then we can all have fun as I experienced.
Sorry to be so cocky today but I have demonstrated how things should happen.
SAMMY
I will PM you shortly perhaps we can meet up.
Have a good week all and happy hunting.
Sandie
I had a very successful dogging experience on Saturday night.
I went to a popular dogging site and waited for approx 1 hour at circa 10PM there were a few cars there.
All I did was sit with my interior light on and listen to my radio and observe who was coming in I did not cruise the car park or walk round the couples car.
At approx 11PM one of the single males approached my car and gently said that I have been invited to a show at the end of the car park as there is a couple in a large vehicle waiting.
I got out of my car and went to the car and asked are they sure it is Ok? the husband said yes and the wife was already laying back with her legs open and ready.
There were three single guys including me and the husband and the wife and we had a great time.
The wife was very responsive and throughout I asked was it Ok to do certain things and she said yes but I asked first.
As we all started we realised the car park was gettting busy so we relocated somewhere else near and more discreet.
We left the current car park in convoy but were able to leave without the huge crowd and the original 5 people arrived at the location.
We had great fun a lot of laughs and finished satisified.
We then had a friendly chat and we all left with the couple thanking us and the wife kissing us goodbye.
A nicer couple you could not wish to meet ,and the wife had a fabulous figure.
The reason for this story is this is my opinion of a true dogging encounter carried out in the spirit of fun with consenting adults.
I in fact had more fun giving pleasure to the wife than receiving because she was so kind and responsive.I also respected the husband who was clearly and kind and caring man.
Now the lecture part coming up .
Do not doggers crowd round the cars or drive next to the car with the couple in on Saturday before my encounter in the original car park 2 missed opportunities occured by cars clearly moving directly next to potential couples who had not signalled and they drove off immediately.
I believe had they been a little more patient then they may have got some action.
Desperation shows a mile off and running to cars that enter a car park on seeing a couple or hearing female voice is just desperate.
At least wait for the interior light flash and approach and be polite and then we can all have fun as I experienced.
Sorry to be so cocky today but I have demonstrated how things should happen.
SAMMY
I will PM you shortly perhaps we can meet up.
Have a good week all and happy hunting.
Sandie
Hi all
Thanks for the support to my point re age 16.
A few other pointers for you.
18 to go to a pub
18 to see an adult film
18/21 to enter a nightclub
18 to enter adult websites
17/18 to drive a car
18 to vote
I rest my case.
Mark and Linda I would kindly suggest that if you get future postings like this they are removed immediately.
This could be setting a dangerous precedent.
Take care and love to you all.
Sandie
Thanks for the support to my point re age 16.
A few other pointers for you.
18 to go to a pub
18 to see an adult film
18/21 to enter a nightclub
18 to enter adult websites
17/18 to drive a car
18 to vote
I rest my case.
Mark and Linda I would kindly suggest that if you get future postings like this they are removed immediately.
This could be setting a dangerous precedent.
Take care and love to you all.
Sandie
HI Mark and Linda 
: :?:
I think this chap is a fraud.
As he has replied to an ad re I want a cocksucker.
It does not concur with a 16 year old.
2 Messages down from the original on the list.
As 18 is the age to enter adult websites I suggest you remove this posting.
I am not being prudish but make the minimum age 18.
If we allow 16 we will get 15 and 14 and then we have a totally different concept.
Thanks
Sandie
: :?: I think this chap is a fraud.
As he has replied to an ad re I want a cocksucker.
It does not concur with a 16 year old.
2 Messages down from the original on the list.
As 18 is the age to enter adult websites I suggest you remove this posting.
I am not being prudish but make the minimum age 18.
If we allow 16 we will get 15 and 14 and then we have a totally different concept.
Thanks
Sandie
Hi all
Yes I saw the programme it was also on ITV2 and featured also the swing club Le Chambre in Sheffield.
Looked good fun!
Next week is outdoor flashing and sex ?
I cannot believe this happens in the UK?
Something called Dogging?????????
I cannot watch I will be shocked.
Keep smiling.
Sandie
Yes I saw the programme it was also on ITV2 and featured also the swing club Le Chambre in Sheffield.
Looked good fun!
Next week is outdoor flashing and sex ?
I cannot believe this happens in the UK?
Something called Dogging?????????
I cannot watch I will be shocked.
Keep smiling.
Sandie
Hi sussex
I visited Box Hill last night. Top car park
Very good spot for couples and magnificant views and location.
I spotted a few couples making out one couple were in the field.
One girl was bjing her man through the car window in main car park I think but I was a long way back.
Many couples arrived but no showing many went into the woods but I do not know what part.
Most cars had lights off.
A few middle aged.
Very late on at midnight one couple spotted me and flashed I approached very slowly but they drove off shortly afterwards.
Definately a couples site and I do not know how receptive they appear to single males as I felt like I was the only one there.
If you have any further advice and tips on this site please let me know.
Indidentally the police turned up twice at 8:30PM and 9:00PM.
But just drove off.
Any comments would be helpful about this place.
Sandie
I visited Box Hill last night. Top car park
Very good spot for couples and magnificant views and location.
I spotted a few couples making out one couple were in the field.
One girl was bjing her man through the car window in main car park I think but I was a long way back.
Many couples arrived but no showing many went into the woods but I do not know what part.
Most cars had lights off.
A few middle aged.
Very late on at midnight one couple spotted me and flashed I approached very slowly but they drove off shortly afterwards.
Definately a couples site and I do not know how receptive they appear to single males as I felt like I was the only one there.
If you have any further advice and tips on this site please let me know.
Indidentally the police turned up twice at 8:30PM and 9:00PM.
But just drove off.
Any comments would be helpful about this place.
Sandie
