Sure there are lots more but these two for starters I just cant take to.
I accept that once you are on the scene details of just about everything will be shared. Some people are more gossipy than others, have already been told that details of at least one of our meets has been discussed with others. I think that's always going to happen you cant avoid it. However different from most of those above I distance us from friendships in a way. We go to clubs, we meet random people, we play, we leave feedback and that's how I like it. I don't particularly feel the need to have swinging friends I don't feel the need to discuss swinging. We can fit everything we need from the scene into the nights we go out on. We have friends from here who we met way back when who we meet up with once in a while we never play and never will. When we meet with them its literally just a social, don't think swinging or sex hardly ever gets brought up.
Chat, over a doughnut about doughnuts :lol2:
Once again though Star no mention of alternative arrangements? Sound like sensationalism. My Mum grew up in the 50's her school had no field and no playground yet the school and my Mum played Hockey, Tennis, went swimming and running as well as more I probably don't know. A lot of schools don't have a Swimming pool, don't mean the kids don't go swimming though.