We are all diferent from the rest. It takes a VERY strong person to stand up and tell others that they are not 'normal'...? I am so glad I have never been normal in that sense, and although I tow the line in most things, because of my own morals, there are things I will not stand for, and if it arises, I will say out loud. I often get in bother, but I know what you mean, last night they re-ran some of the old stuff. But to be honest the audiences are often subdued to be quiet when the majority bend one way. Again, it takes a bold person to get it over, and often the mob wins. Sounds like the life story of shrek!
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Sometimes being on here is like being at the docks when an ocean liner comes into port. Everyone seems to be getting on, excited and I wonder how many people do read the AUP in effect? Sometimes you have to look at context and all sorts of things on forums. Some offer loads of subjects and some few. Some you HAVE to answer, but again you may well go ages without. I recently logged on for 4 days but did not post or pm anyone. Maybe it is how it goes, and coincidently it happens to a few at the same time. It has been an extremely difficult few months for me, and maybe others to begin a subject that gets replies. I generally try to spread the subjects diversely, and sometimes it works, and sometimes it does not. Sometimes what you mean is not how it gets typed and you get slapped or told off, but that is how we learn. Maybe along the flow of life, the edy of input comes and goes, and as in the outside world, someone is ALWAYS pizzing on someones bonfire. I could never be a mod, because I have not got the patients to be honest, and would possibly get banned myself!
Erm...no not really. Maybe it came over wrong. I have know corriefem for a while on here and on PM, and we have had some good laughs and some emails to some open chats, which I felt I got to know her better than as on here. It is a the deeper person, the one some have within that I speak of. Maybe you will understand, maybe not. None of our chats have been anything but open friendship, because I kind of like to be that way. Under no conditions have I meant to imply she is anything but a nice person, I was just letting her know I was pleased to know, as a friend she had a good time. Maybe I should just have pm'd her to aviod confusion and as a friend maybe you too jumped to defend her, which is a true sign she is a genuine person. I just wanted to show I cared for a friend.
FWIW...
If the firm you are having issues with have to seek legal advice, they usually know they have lost and ponder on the effects. Having been in this situation many times, as is said under law the contract states the facts. Ammendments must be sent to all, and sexual discrimination is just as valid for both sexes. This is why the system, although full of problems can be helpful. CAB or any trade union will help, and most unions have free legal advice anyhow. Seen as a militant force, the unions are now actually more in touch with the modern world, and are here to help US the small fish with issues with the big SHARKS, the companies we represent.
If the firm you are having issues with have to seek legal advice, they usually know they have lost and ponder on the effects. Having been in this situation many times, as is said under law the contract states the facts. Ammendments must be sent to all, and sexual discrimination is just as valid for both sexes. This is why the system, although full of problems can be helpful. CAB or any trade union will help, and most unions have free legal advice anyhow. Seen as a militant force, the unions are now actually more in touch with the modern world, and are here to help US the small fish with issues with the big SHARKS, the companies we represent.
Maybe it is just how you talk to people sometimes. I have been told off a couple of times, and although speeding is bad, I was basically just over the limit on both occasions. I think treating the police as human beings and not someone to hate or have issues with helps. I alwyas find them browsing in the store where I work nights, to be quite jovial, happy and easy going. We often get nice females in, sometimes in pairs, and they ALWAYS have a smile and a laugh if we ask them to cuff one of the lads, or if they have any with fur on...? I think it is all to do with body language and facial expression too. Sometimes you can see someone has had a bad day, and remember that the person dealing with your issue, may well have just been involved in sorting out a RTA with either a death, be it adult or a kid/ a fire with fatalities or just someone /shot/murdered or similar. Sometimes WE dont feel like being lenient when the bus is two minutes late, so just accept that everyone has good/shite day, and that will help. Maybe next time the officer will be full of smiles, and hey if you like the uniform, get a female friend to hire one out? It all helps?? 
MY own observations are mine ok... so if anyone has issue then fine. I want some more lovin' on here, and less griping and bitchin' at owt from spelling errors, idiotic posts, innane drivvel ( with EXCEPTION to my mate neilinleeds ), and topics...or should that be snickers? I for one TRUST the mods to kick the shite out of the numpties and if ya dont like the post, dont DO IT...? It seems the long summer heat, kids, mad dogs, people, work, no more bank holidays, breathing, getting out of bed cos we aint won the poxy lottery, the darn computer...and many other things get , well on our tits so to speak! It is bad enuff being at the darn job without all the grief on here sometimes...so chill out peeps?
I open this post for you to get the shit out of YOUR fan..anyone posting on it about others on here aint welcome...it is the shit from the ALMOST end of the week stuff.
Mine is the local electoral register. They SEND me a form to fill in, with a prepaid envelope. The letter is to see who is in the house. It says I can post it off in the prepaid envelope, phone in the stuff or website it to 'save' them money. Then they send me a thankyou for replying letter EVEN though I websited the info and THEN sent me another, with ONLY a prepaid envelope to complete a survey on how the service delivers...?? It MUST be me????
I open this post for you to get the shit out of YOUR fan..anyone posting on it about others on here aint welcome...it is the shit from the ALMOST end of the week stuff.
Mine is the local electoral register. They SEND me a form to fill in, with a prepaid envelope. The letter is to see who is in the house. It says I can post it off in the prepaid envelope, phone in the stuff or website it to 'save' them money. Then they send me a thankyou for replying letter EVEN though I websited the info and THEN sent me another, with ONLY a prepaid envelope to complete a survey on how the service delivers...?? It MUST be me????
:I personally think they do these surveys when they cant find anything interesting to get paid for. I remember a guy I think getting over £20,000 a year grant to estimate how many pebbles were on brighton beach. I kid you not! Anyhow back to the question. It depends on many factors within on LH or RH. We all now clever and dumb shit people, and what the handedness makes of it must also be pondered because it is only averages. If they had tested EVERYONE, then it could be true, but what if they only got the dummies to comply, and we ALL know what it is like to answer those dam surveys in the town when we wanna get the bus or meet friends. Maybe they should do a survey of the people who answer surveys?
Callista....Do I need to knock or press your button???
Callista....Do I need to knock or press your button???
I suppose it is whichever hand is the biggest...for the slap round the chops?
I can STILL remember being taught to use an itallic pen at school and the lefties could not use it and needed a special one. life is full of shite whatever and whoever you are, and I often wonder if their is such a creature as mr/mrs perfect...? I bet they are as boring as drying paint!
I can STILL remember being taught to use an itallic pen at school and the lefties could not use it and needed a special one. life is full of shite whatever and whoever you are, and I often wonder if their is such a creature as mr/mrs perfect...? I bet they are as boring as drying paint!
Why left-handers still feel left out
Angelique Chrisafis, Arts correspondent
Guardian
Thursday June 6, 2002
Over the centuries they have been beaten on the knuckles, locked up, ridiculed and prevented from reproducing in case they spawned freaks.
Now left-handers are facing another affront. A psychology professor told the Guardian Hay festival yesterday that society will never stop being biologically and culturally dominated by right-handers at the psychological expense of those who hold their pencil in their left hand.
Chris McManus, a professor of psychology and medical education at University College London, trawled thousands of years of the history of cells and culture - from "left-handed" amino acids, to stone age tool-making practices and Giotto frescos - and found that "right equals good and left equals bad" in common perception.
In his book Right Hand, Left Hand, he noted how expressions for the word "left" had become terms of abuse in every culture - something that New Labour might already be aware of.
"Our society is organised according to right-handers. Left-handers are the last of the great neglected minorities," said Prof McManus, who is a right-hander with a left-handed mother and daughter.
In Britain around 13% of men and around 11% of women are left-handed, compared with 3% before 1910. Left-handedness coincides with high incidences of genius and creativity, and also autism and dyslexia.
"The one thing that will change the suffering of left-handers is to get engineers to see that for 10% of users, their designs are still back to front. Scissors, microwave doors, power saws and water gauges on the side of kettles are a constant reminder. Psychologically, left-handers still claim to have problems. The social consequences are immense."
I told you it was an insane world...FFS! And I am ambidextrous! No wonder I am so confused...
The real cancer is humans. We kill because we can. Animals rarely kill for sport, cats etc do, but for food. They dont do wars like we do. It was once a better place, but all too often now it is war and killing. I just thing pre the bronze age it must have been a harder, but more peaceful time. Too late to change now unless you are aware of the old film with GORT in??? that would be the only cure, but that is science fiction.
Although this will sound like crap to many of you, I was working nights so in bed. However I had been doing some work in my spare time on regressions, and had discovered many links to tarot and psychic stuff I had always suspected and had found this in my family history. I awoke that day because I heard screaming, and thought next door had kid problems as you do. Anyhow for some reason I got up, made a cup of tea, and turned on the TV, something I NEVER do normally, and sat and watched as the second plane hit. I worked out the first plane had hit almost exactly the time of my rude awakening, because another neighbour leaves for work that time EVERY day...
A bit spooky?
A bit spooky?
Result as expected.......
Despite the ploy of posing I had abused his authority, and I offered to bring in 7 witnesses to the fact I never swore, made a fuss or objected to his request. That I raised a serious flaw in his expectations and his objectives were unattainable and without a chance of being achieved, and no one had ever managed to do the said job with the same enthusiasm as me, NOT my words I hasten to add but senior bosses on days who played holy hell when they moved me off the department for two weeks and the stock held went from about £1000 average to over £4000 in said time.
Neil mate..I did actually really use bad swearing words, BUT in one to one contact, where it is not witnessed and heresay, I told him what I really thought...just so you know I did not in any way attempt to kiss butt, and did the other just for spite in front of the other staff, who also know he cant do it/never did it, and realise seeing him being out smarted. The immediate boss too, who I worked with was all smiles in the meeting. He knows me well enough that we have mutual respect. As a boss i regularly saw him walk about with clean shirt with senior bosses, and when they had gone home for the night, he would change into a t shirt and muck in with usually the heaviest and baddest job, usually where he stuck me by coincidence because he knows I like to be busy, and we would go at the task like nutters because it was fun sharing laughs and having a side kick who appeciated the work and did not pull the I AM BOSS crap. He basically told him if he was to expect something from me, it needed to be feasible and he SHOULD be able to show this himself. After we had finished, he came to me on the job and we had a good chat, where he said I had done everything properly, and tactfully and that he did not rate him at all, and that he liked to see his managers tested. he is a true BOSS, and not some tosser. I honestly respect anyone higher who can do and show, but not the ones who cant. His last comments were that anytime he had EVER had to tell me off, he had to make sure he was correct ALL the time with all the right information, because he knew I was very dificult to prove wrong being an old hand to operational practices and proceedures. So tonight, when it all gets quiet, and I am alone with the new boss, I will whisper so sweetly and clearly in his ear the immortal words... I furkin told you so...
If he wants to catch me out, he will have to get up bloody early...
Thanks for the input and all noted...friends
Despite the ploy of posing I had abused his authority, and I offered to bring in 7 witnesses to the fact I never swore, made a fuss or objected to his request. That I raised a serious flaw in his expectations and his objectives were unattainable and without a chance of being achieved, and no one had ever managed to do the said job with the same enthusiasm as me, NOT my words I hasten to add but senior bosses on days who played holy hell when they moved me off the department for two weeks and the stock held went from about £1000 average to over £4000 in said time.
Neil mate..I did actually really use bad swearing words, BUT in one to one contact, where it is not witnessed and heresay, I told him what I really thought...just so you know I did not in any way attempt to kiss butt, and did the other just for spite in front of the other staff, who also know he cant do it/never did it, and realise seeing him being out smarted. The immediate boss too, who I worked with was all smiles in the meeting. He knows me well enough that we have mutual respect. As a boss i regularly saw him walk about with clean shirt with senior bosses, and when they had gone home for the night, he would change into a t shirt and muck in with usually the heaviest and baddest job, usually where he stuck me by coincidence because he knows I like to be busy, and we would go at the task like nutters because it was fun sharing laughs and having a side kick who appeciated the work and did not pull the I AM BOSS crap. He basically told him if he was to expect something from me, it needed to be feasible and he SHOULD be able to show this himself. After we had finished, he came to me on the job and we had a good chat, where he said I had done everything properly, and tactfully and that he did not rate him at all, and that he liked to see his managers tested. he is a true BOSS, and not some tosser. I honestly respect anyone higher who can do and show, but not the ones who cant. His last comments were that anytime he had EVER had to tell me off, he had to make sure he was correct ALL the time with all the right information, because he knew I was very dificult to prove wrong being an old hand to operational practices and proceedures. So tonight, when it all gets quiet, and I am alone with the new boss, I will whisper so sweetly and clearly in his ear the immortal words... I furkin told you so...
If he wants to catch me out, he will have to get up bloody early...
Thanks for the input and all noted...friends
Same old story..younger boss.
Been in the job all of 8 months, with targets and new buzz words, mostly acronyms which really piss me off. I dont need none of this american/japanese bonding shift for furks sake, I just put tins and bottles on shelves. Why dont they ever get that into their heads before they remove the brains they had, and replace it with some crap from the bottom of the ocean...yup a sponge.
What really annoys me the most, is I have been in the post for 9 years, and trained the stupid son of a bitch, and he is now trying to tell me how to do it faster, more productively and help others, which he cannot/could never do when he was on the shop floor.
I basically lost the plot last night and told him what I thought, which is unlike me, quiet, caring and out of the way sorts. I threw him the challenge that IF he could do what he wanted me to do, for one week, without pulling his bosses perk and getting help. I would donate my weeks wages to him, so he got 5 weeks pay instead of 4. The brunt of the matter is I am in the office tonight for a bollocking with the big guns for dissent, but he has no option but to do this because he does not want to loose face and he cant win. However I am taking 5 others in to witness the fact I spoke the truth, never swore once, though god knows I was so F****** tempted to, and was almost ready to punch his lights out too! I am also very aware of all the rules and the big boss used to work with me too, and is a doer not a gunna....
Anyhows if you wanna feel the force of anger, and you are awake first thing tomorrow about 6am, and you feel the floor tremble and someone shouting...it will be me. I just thought I would dedicate this post to all the totally usless tossers/wanker/dipshit idiotic pratts, who think because they pull on a diferent coloured shirt, they automatically become omnipitant. Like I told him, if HE wants my respect for him as a boss, he is going to have to earn it.
So if you wanna vent it out about the tossers who are supposed to be your boss...join in. lets have a bloody big angry thread on purpose and get it off our chests!
Been in the job all of 8 months, with targets and new buzz words, mostly acronyms which really piss me off. I dont need none of this american/japanese bonding shift for furks sake, I just put tins and bottles on shelves. Why dont they ever get that into their heads before they remove the brains they had, and replace it with some crap from the bottom of the ocean...yup a sponge.
What really annoys me the most, is I have been in the post for 9 years, and trained the stupid son of a bitch, and he is now trying to tell me how to do it faster, more productively and help others, which he cannot/could never do when he was on the shop floor.
I basically lost the plot last night and told him what I thought, which is unlike me, quiet, caring and out of the way sorts. I threw him the challenge that IF he could do what he wanted me to do, for one week, without pulling his bosses perk and getting help. I would donate my weeks wages to him, so he got 5 weeks pay instead of 4. The brunt of the matter is I am in the office tonight for a bollocking with the big guns for dissent, but he has no option but to do this because he does not want to loose face and he cant win. However I am taking 5 others in to witness the fact I spoke the truth, never swore once, though god knows I was so F****** tempted to, and was almost ready to punch his lights out too! I am also very aware of all the rules and the big boss used to work with me too, and is a doer not a gunna....
Anyhows if you wanna feel the force of anger, and you are awake first thing tomorrow about 6am, and you feel the floor tremble and someone shouting...it will be me. I just thought I would dedicate this post to all the totally usless tossers/wanker/dipshit idiotic pratts, who think because they pull on a diferent coloured shirt, they automatically become omnipitant. Like I told him, if HE wants my respect for him as a boss, he is going to have to earn it.
So if you wanna vent it out about the tossers who are supposed to be your boss...join in. lets have a bloody big angry thread on purpose and get it off our chests!
I would actually be suprised if they actually ever did surveys? I am sure most of the stuff they print is absolute bollox anyhows. If you actually read many papers, you will find the same stories in each, just edited. I mean how many read the sport and believe that tosh? I think the papers should have on the front page...ONCE UPON A TIME, and at the back..AND THEY ALL LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER. Quick to give someone a high aka rooney the wonderchild of footie, now a sleasy sex monster into call girls, and the golden paula radcliffe, once a demigoddess in our dreams, now a quitter, and Kelly Holmes is all over now, until they find some juicy crap to smear.
Maybe the surveys are a way to tread the water, and finding the right words is bloody hard. If you have EVER tried to raise a few topics, you will see the problems. many bemoan the lack of input, and many dont start them because no one wants to see it drop ff the page with no replies...like bill no mates. Better to swim than sink?
Maybe the surveys are a way to tread the water, and finding the right words is bloody hard. If you have EVER tried to raise a few topics, you will see the problems. many bemoan the lack of input, and many dont start them because no one wants to see it drop ff the page with no replies...like bill no mates. Better to swim than sink?
