I'm married to an incredible woman and we currently explore ENM separately. 

As I'm new to all this (my wife is a little rocket and is more experienced 😁) I would consider myself as quite vanilla and a bit shy. 

It has somehow got into my head that I need to mention that I am NOT a dom, bull, alpha, or stud. Not sure if that's important or relevant but feel like I should clarify. 

Ultimately I'm looking for new experiences, new connections, to have a laugh, and possibly make new friends along the way.