Once upon a time not that long ago I ran a naturist B&B, as part of that I trained as a massuer.  Life moves on and that life has passed but I am left looking for that illusive friend with benefits.  I know it's the old story "in a non sexual marriage so in need of some regular intimacy" and I am sure that there are lots in the same situation but it is true and for very good reasons - maybe I'll relate the story should anyone be interested, it is a good story not one of sadness and regret I should add!