I am a married ex professional now retired with a good wife who is not aware of my recent need to explore my bi side. Therefore a buddy must be discreet and clean with preferably a similar homelife. I am new to this so a slow start of massaging would be ideal then maybe in the future we can explore further our mutual needs, wherever that takes us. Someone around my own age would be good but not paramount. Unfortunately I cannot accommodate but I have transport so I am ok to meet most afternoons for an hour or so.