I am a widower, my wife passed away 9 yrs ago. I'm not in a relationship now. My marriage was conventional, but since then I have found my true self. I did not have childreng & have no other ties. I have my own home & I drive. I took early retirement from 10 yrs ago, after 32 yrs service, & am on a generous pension. I don't work now. I enjoy dressing up in rubber, pvc or leather, & seeing others dressed this way, I find it a real turn-on! I find watching couples (straight or gay) kissing, cuddling & fondling/groping while dressed in a sexy way, i.e. tight or revealing tops & short,full skirts, or tight pants & open-neck shirts for men, a turn-on. I would find touching, cheek-kissing & hair-ruffling during foreplay & coitus very exciting, & I would enjoy giving extra pleasure to the couple. Likewise I enjoy using fingers or toys to pleasure a lady, & always put her pleasure before my own. I would enjoy this with a gay couple also. In the long run, I would like a relationship with a suitable person, but in the short term experimenting.