We are married, and enjoy a good Domme/sub bedroom scene, where I'm regularly spanked and caned before satisfying my wife orally.

This has gone on for many years, and we have experimented with several sexual and Domme-sub games.

I have found that I love to cross dress, and now I often dress for my wife, typically wearing short skirt, blouse, bra, scanty knickers and stockings for her, although I must stress I'm not convincing (it just makes me feel rude and sexy).

We have recently extended this activity so that I now regularly dress as a housemaid first thing in the morning (ie before drawing curtains) and spend some time doing housework before taking tea to my wife. Similarly some evenings will be spent with me dressed as my wife's personal secretary doing general office work in the study. I find this fulfilling in many ways.

I have also started to wear a CB6000s chastity device, partly as a turn on, but also as a personal realisation that I was masturbating too much, either on my own or while giving my wife oral service. As a result, the enforced abstinence is resulting in much better performance when I am allowed full intercourse.

Although we talk about group scenes in fantasy, in reality my wife baulks at meeting others, although I think she may be warming to the idea. An example would be meeting a similarly oriented couple for Domme-sub games. We are not looking to swing, but same room sex between partners would be a fairly natural outcome. As an instance, a favourite fantasy of ours is for me to be caned while giving my wife oral service.

Please message us with ideas, and hopefully it might happen. Note - Couples only, not interested in meeting single guys.

I have found that the combination of role-playing a real subservient role and the chastity is improving my general well-being - I have a tendency to mood swings and temper issues which this has helped. Before this, my wife, on my instigation, sent me to see a Dom ex-headmaster with a sealed note listing my faults and asking him to give me a thorough caning. the subsequent marks lasted for a couple of weeks, and turned my wife on considerably as well as having a salutary effect upon my behaviour. I was given a thorough dressing down by the disciplinarian after he had read my wife's note and I must confess that had more of an effect on me than I had expected. No sex was involved.

This chap has now emigrated so I am looking for another source of admonitory CP.