The brain is the sexiest organ of them all .....

I'm Good looking (or so I'm told but it depends on your taste!) modestly intelligent and well travelled. Sensitive and creative kind of guy, I don't really have a type, I'm more attracted to that certain something in the eyes, all i ask is that there's a hint of attraction - I'm more drawn to people and personalities than to bodies - I've know a few physically beautiful people who were very unattractive in other ways!

Very keen on finding that oh so illusive bi couple who want a decent man to join them! Many a fantasy has been fuelled by that thought.

Keen to find like minded people with whom to share adventures and fun. I have myriad fantasies still to realise and probably a few new ones I haven't thought of yet.

I never cease to be amazed by the dichotomy in here. Many are such nice people, they know who they are, but then, well there are the others! Oh why are there so many who are rude, arrogant, up themselves (to use the vernacular!) to the extent that they seem firmly to believe they are God's gift to everyone else. I'm stunned by how many profiles are full to the brim with dos and don'ts, heavy conditions and detailed stipulations, you'd think you were viewing Brad and Angelina! I'm a grown up - I can take it if I'm not your type, many people aren't mine! - Just say so nicely :)

One more thing ,,,, Chat room Whisper Nazis! In my world a whisper is neither rude not intrusive - I wouldn't go to a party and shout out to the whole room with a megaphone to ask a person's permission to speak to them. What would I do? I'd walk up and say hello - if they're not interest I'd move on. A whisper is the same - a quiet introduction is all it is, if you're not interested that's fine, I'll keep going. If you're the type who's going to get indignant and uppity about it - well we wouldn't get on anyway so nothing is lost!

Now! That's the rant over.

If you're human, pleasant, civil and interested in sensual times with someone who enjoys a conversation as much as anything else - I would love to hear from you.