i am widowed and now want to take the opportunity to explore a sexual side i have not done so upto date. However i am not into any type of sex which involves S&m and B&D. I keep fit and healthy and my hygiene is excellent.I am well dressed and dress young for my age being very well dressed. I expect the same of whomever i am with. I have not had a relationship except with my wife of 34 years but she passed away 4 years ago and i miss our active sex life