We are a couple who have been married a few years now.  Since getting together and married as some would see it we have largely stopped swinging. That said as we see it swinging is, not just  shagging, but is about fun times and making friends. We both made a lot of good friends in the time we were swinging separately including each other. 

Whilst at the minute we are not meeting anybody for swinging 'meets' we do still like chatting and socialising. We will consider meeting couples, and singles for social meets only (although we have now had enough no shows by single males). We also do enjoy going to both clubs and socials.  If things go further then we will go with the flow. If not we are both quite happy just to party anyway.

Robert400 is straight and Kay is Bi but quite particular about with whom she plays.

UNLESS YOU HAVE ASKED OR BEEN INVITED TO WHISPER US WE DON'T ANSWER WHISPER'S. 

UNLESS YOU HAVE CHATTED WITH US FIRST THEN WE WILL DECLINE FRIEND REQUESTS. 

ALL WINKS WILL BE DELETED.

Some notes for Single Males   - 

• we generally do not want to watch cock cam 
• we are a couple, what you whisper does get shared, so why not chat to both of us? 
• rather than first whispering either 'hi' or other things why not say it in general chat?
• before launching into either hard or even soft core chat we do like to connect with people first
• we do not like being asked to perform on cam (Kay is not a piece of meat and we are not performing seals)

Just a thought but if you are one of the single males who finds that they 'crash and burn' maybe you should try a different approach? Don't either launch into an explicit description of what  you would do with Kay or moan about how you don't get meets. You could just try chatting with couples?  We like to meet people who are interested, interesting and fun. Show us that in chat you connect with us and you may be the sort of fella we would like to meet.