**** No winks, that's just lazy **** Am a 40-something single female, formerly a BBW, now a size 12/14, 34E, 5'9". Am not into pain or w/s but prepared to try most things.... If it feels good, do it again, if it doesn't, you probably did it wrong first time.. Discretion assured and expected. Can accommodate, prepared to travel, not too far though.