Experienced, considerate guy one of whose great enjoyments in life is pleasuring women. I like to have a good time myself and especially enjoy oral sex, but my aim is genuine, respectful mutual pleasure. Although happy with 1 on 1 I have discovered that I get a real frisson from threesomes or moresomes so am extremely happy to meet with couples or women who enjoy, or want to try, a 3some or moresome. In addition, but not essential, I can be either playfully or seriously dom, am happy to indulge in light bondage, discipline and role play - I’ll warm the cheeks if that's what a lady wants (I'm a well practised spanker!). NB I AM NOT A TIMEWASTER AND I CAN'T COMPREHEND THOSE THAT ARE! The pleasures of the flesh are far more satisfying in reality and I don't like being messed about, so I will not do that to others. Also, I truly enjoy meeting sexually liberated people and the social element of swinging. I'm generally easy going and enjoy a laugh - including at myself! I'm well educated, well read, enjoy all sorts of music, well travelled, a good lover (so I've been told!) and very considerate to my partners - their orgasmic pleasure is my pleasure. Not surprisingly, as a hedonist, I like good food and wine. I'm an ex-rugby player and still work out regularly believing that good fitness is good for good sex.

I'd like to find a confident lady (or couple) who is/are sociable, good company, enjoys wining and dining etc, knows what she wants and what she likes. Ideally the lady would be multi-orgasmic (I so enjoy the sight and sound of a woman cumming!). If interested in 'a bit of pervery', so much the better - but not essential. Preferably a lady or couple who is/are looking not just for 'one night stands' but looking for an ongoing social, but not romantic, relationship as well as NSA fun.