New but intrigued , I find watching and talking a turn on. I went to a swingers club recently with my boyfriendbut found it quite daunting. I'm not a natural exhibitionist and parading around in my underwear was something totally out of my comfort zone but I did find it sexy but wasn't confident enough to do anything.I felt nervous to even touch my boyfreind incase we became the main attraction, as a lot of single men in the club and  my man doesn't want to share me with a man, but although I'm straight, he would like a women's envolvement, I'm not dismissing the idea as we have spoken about it but id possibly like to share him with another women ,as hes very good at satisfying my needs, and to know he could play but id be taking him home excites me. 

I just want some guidance so I know what is acceptable In the club's. Me and my boyfreind have a fantastic and imaginative sex life and have the best sexual chemistry we find confidence in one another but we are definitely in this together . I'm not looking to hook up but  just want some general advice and what's frowned upon and what's not . Are we classed as vanilla ? as dont want to play with others but possibly be in the area and just taking on the surrounding moods and sounds and just knowing its a little bit naughty.

Thank you 

Madlisa x